Finding “genuine” bi couples is so hard and yep I know finding genuine bi guys is hard for couples, so many couples the Guy of the couple wants to meet you alone for action first to prove your bi, however you are left with no proof they are a real couple if you go down that path.
I have met genuine couples on here but they are certainly the unicorn of the swinging world. |
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"Finding “genuine” bi couples is so hard and yep I know finding genuine bi guys is hard for couples, so many couples the Guy of the couple wants to meet you alone for action first to prove your bi, however you are left with no proof they are a real couple if you go down that path.
I have met genuine couples on here but they are certainly the unicorn of the swinging world. "
We find that difficult to believe. Guys wanting to meet first sounds like a single guy pretending. I think that what a lot of people forget is that its about attraction not sexuality. |
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"Finding “genuine” bi couples is so hard and yep I know finding genuine bi guys is hard for couples, so many couples the Guy of the couple wants to meet you alone for action first to prove your bi, however you are left with no proof they are a real couple if you go down that path.
I have met genuine couples on here but they are certainly the unicorn of the swinging world. "
We'd love a genuine bi guy as a FWB, but finding one is very difficult.
We always go on meets together so have never been involved with this scenario, but if you're not comfortable meeting just the male of the couple to prove he's bi, then don't do it. Go with your gut feeling, it's usually right  |
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"Finding “genuine” bi couples is so hard and yep I know finding genuine bi guys is hard for couples, so many couples the Guy of the couple wants to meet you alone for action first to prove your bi, however you are left with no proof they are a real couple if you go down that path.
I have met genuine couples on here but they are certainly the unicorn of the swinging world.
We'd love a genuine bi guy as a FWB, but finding one is very difficult.
We always go on meets together so have never been involved with this scenario, but if you're not comfortable meeting just the male of the couple to prove he's bi, then don't do it. Go with your gut feeling, it's usually right "
Thanks for your words of wisdom you are 100% right , also a terrible shame a couple like you two are so far away , story of my life |
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I would be a little wary about the couples that only want you to meet the man first ..
We only look for bi couples and sometimes a bi man..It’s hard tho as we only do social first and we like to have a connection it’s worth it tho when you find it .It can just take awhile. |
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Validate that a single man is really part of a couple, by engaging with both of them first, before meeting.
As many straight men are 'gay for pay', in the sex industry, including very famous gay porn actors and sex workers, it's still feasible for straight men to have gay sex on a meeting just between the male half of a couple and a guy pretending to be bi. But it will probably reduce the number of men who will pretend. Don't underestimate the number of straight men who have sex with men |
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Mainly for us it’s been:
1 both to be attracted to him
2 usually married/only free daytimes
3 usually bottom only and that’s a no
4 doesn’t go to clubs and we only do clubs
5 profile says straight and says wants bi meet |
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We only look for bi couples and sometimes a bi man..It’s hard tho as we only do social first and we like to have a connection it’s worth it tho when you find it .It can just take awhile."
I have no issue meeting for a social first always a good shout |
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