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Do any of you single folks on vanilla dating apps have something written on your profile that subtly implies that you are into swinging/kink? I have seen "Vanilla is good only for ice creams" message on some profiles.
Any other creative messages like that? |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
There will soon be an upside down emoji.
Mind you the person that introduced me to fan I found on a vanilla dating site.
Got in from work one day opened up my dating profile and I had a message from a lady, this is what it said.
Hello hope you don’t mind me contacting you.
I am (name), I am happily married and love my husband however we no longer have a sexual side to our relationship.
I am looking for a man who is local and would like to meet regular for sex.
I understand if this is not for you, however if you’d like to meat please message back.
I messaged her back and then she sent her phone number. We arranged to meet the next day at mine at lunchtime. She arrived I buzzed her in and went to meet her in the hall, we entered my flat and within 3 steps of the door she was naked I soon followed suit has a great afternoon and then twice a week for the next few years she’d come round.
She told me about fab which I joined and she was my first verification. Sadly they eventually moved away. |
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"I have vanilla is good experimental is better.
Still single and not met adventurous man from it "
Do you get interests with that on profile though? I tried being open once about me being submissive for about a month and my match rate reduced to 0. Removed it and the match rate is back to one or two per week. I guess all the people are not pervs like fab would make me believe |
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"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes "
Curious to hear more. If someone is into sexual stuff which aren't considered normal in the vanilla world, wouldn't it be better to be honest and upfront about it? The other options are to bring it up after a few dates which could mean time wasted or not talking about it at all the which could lead to problems Down the line |
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"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes
Curious to hear more. If someone is into sexual stuff which aren't considered normal in the vanilla world, wouldn't it be better to be honest and upfront about it? The other options are to bring it up after a few dates which could mean time wasted or not talking about it at all the which could lead to problems Down the line"
If having their sexual predelictions met was high on their priority list I wouldn't want to date them |
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"If I was looking to date, I'd avoid any profiles that hinted at their sexual likes
Curious to hear more. If someone is into sexual stuff which aren't considered normal in the vanilla world, wouldn't it be better to be honest and upfront about it? The other options are to bring it up after a few dates which could mean time wasted or not talking about it at all the which could lead to problems Down the line
If having their sexual predelictions met was high on their priority list I wouldn't want to date them"
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By *parkleCCWoman
over a year ago
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"I have vanilla is good experimental is better.
Still single and not met adventurous man from it
Do you get interests with that on profile though? I tried being open once about me being submissive for about a month and my match rate reduced to 0. Removed it and the match rate is back to one or two per week. I guess all the people are not pervs like fab would make me believe "
I do, but just like on here following day they go quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put poly in all my profiles to subtly hint I’m not into monogamy
Like -
I enjoy solving polynomial equations
Polythene bags should be banned
I am a polyglot
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Along came Poly is my favourite film. Tell me your thoughts if we match. |
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"I say....
'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'
Never fails.
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As a woman who uses dating apps I avoid profiles/messages like this like the plague. |
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"I say....
'Before you unmatch with me, please understand that I have a tongue like a bees wings'
Never fails.
As a woman who uses dating apps I avoid profiles/messages like this like the plague. "
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I amuse myself by posting vanilla photos of me working on my allotment etc, then when I've matched and started chatting with someone I swap those photos for ones where I'm practicing Shibari!
The reaction from some of them is hilarious! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do any of you single folks on vanilla dating apps have something written on your profile that subtly implies that you are into swinging/kink? I have seen "Vanilla is good only for ice creams" message on some profiles.
Any other creative messages like that? "
Vanilla wtf does that mean its used all the time but what does it mean...... Nothing it means nothing sex is sex we don't do sex greater here than anywhere else, oh he does vanilla sex and she doesn't  |
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