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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs and socials are best bet
But also op know your worth ie
If they not interested ones then your not interested ever no matter what that opportunity passed them by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just be yourself.
It's not as easy as that sometimes guys just don't stand a chance "
That's bollocks.
Guys that do well on here exude confidence, they aren't sex desperate or obsessed and they get the women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just be yourself.
And be ripped, handsome and charming with a decent sized cock.
If you’ve got all that ^ being yourself is easy  "
The reason men don't get replies or meets?
Men.
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"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.
Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!
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I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all |
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"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.
Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!
I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all "
Apart from me. I'm worth saving. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Just being yourself won't really change anything much. Though it's likely to do more good than complaining.
The thing is, being yourself is just easier to do. It requires less effort to be than pretending to be something or somebody you are not.
Don't bend over backwards to please the women, or couples, or anyone. Doing one thing to dmtry and get in their favour may attract some, but it will turn others away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's easy.
Meet other Men.
We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.
So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here. |
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"That's easy.
Meet other Men.
We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.
So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here. "
See, this is where I’m displaying my naivety a little but I thought it would have been a little easier for couples to meet other couples / women. Apparently not! |
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Self-acceptance for the win.
At least then there's a chance they will like you for you. Then the intimacy can be real, well if they do the same, of course.
You can only be as accepting as you are aware though so...
Nosce Te Ipsum.
I wouldn't listen to me though, I rarely listen to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's easy.
Meet other Men.
We've done our bit for fab now, we've met several men, not yet met a woman or couple.
So, meet more men or realise it's not easy for the majority here.
See, this is where I’m displaying my naivety a little but I thought it would have been a little easier for couples to meet other couples / women. Apparently not! "
It's a common misconception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not showing up, ghosting and making last minute excuses when you've agreed to a social....generally helps.
Not bitter at all.
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Agreed.
We are always short on time, and express that clearly.
The last time we had availability, we were let down by two guys in the same week, ghosted at the eleventh hour, then both popped up a couple of days later with the same 'reason' and asked if we were available.
We'd gone the same way that has always served us well, both verified etc etc.
Not once been let down, then two in the same week.
Guys, it's guys like that, cause the most damage, creating cynicism in women and couples.
Yes I know You wouldn't let us down, that's exactly what they said. |
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"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.
Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!
I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all
Apart from me. I'm worth saving. "
I'm coming Cape is flapping behind me |
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"Just be yourself.
It's not as easy as that sometimes guys just don't stand a chance
That's bollocks.
Guys that do well on here exude confidence, they aren't sex desperate or obsessed and they get the women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not showing up, ghosting and making last minute excuses when you've agreed to a social....generally helps.
Not bitter at all.
Agreed.
We are always short on time, and express that clearly.
The last time we had availability, we were let down by two guys in the same week, ghosted at the eleventh hour, then both popped up a couple of days later with the same 'reason' and asked if we were available.
We'd gone the same way that has always served us well, both verified etc etc.
Not once been let down, then two in the same week.
Guys, it's guys like that, cause the most damage, creating cynicism in women and couples.
Yes I know You wouldn't let us down, that's exactly what they said. "
Same thing here, same approach. Worked with others brilliantly and somehow had a run of it lately. Not just men either which sucks even more. Everyone can change their mind, I understand that. But a message to say so is just the nice thing to do. But hey no one owes me anything so I shouldn't expect that either and grow a thicker skin.
Fab seems different.
It's a lot more hook up than anything else. Harder to find those that get what an Fwb means and don't call it a relationship and think I should be on dating apps.
Grrr I could moan.
My time is limited I don't like it wasted.
I can relate to you completely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be more wonko
On a scale of Nero to Wonko, where’s the optimal level?  "
Ooh that’s a tough one. I’d say take aspects of each and mould them to suit you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need the 'successful' men to tell you what they do really. And they come in many shapes and sizes and personalities, that would be impossible to squish into a handy formula. As above. Just be you. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"If it helps anyone here, being more me really is marmite. You get some absolute stunners message and flirt. Then you get dickheads block "
Man is spitting truths! Being yourself is great, it really is, but it's a double edged sword. Draws some in, pushes others away. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"If it helps anyone here, being more me really is marmite. You get some absolute stunners message and flirt. Then you get dickheads block
Man is spitting truths! Being yourself is great, it really is, but it's a double edged sword. Draws some in, pushes others away."
Bet they wouldn't say no to both our swords together though would they the silly geese! |
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"So after the other thread about single guys not getting meets.
Couples & single ladies, pass unto us your wisdom and advice on things we should and should not be doing!
I get meets, n I'm a complete nob......I'd share my secrets but then I'd have to kill youse all "
You nob! Lol |
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