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Turned on by this - questioning my sexuality
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.
However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.
Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude? |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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I think that if that doesn’t bother you, it must lead to more adventurous “touching”.
But keep alert: if your attention wanders it could be his lips around your dick. Then what if you didn’t mind that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if that doesn’t bother you, it must lead to more adventurous “touching”.
But keep alert: if your attention wanders it could be his lips around your dick. Then what if you didn’t mind that? "
Then he would've found something new he's into and enjoys  |
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"If you believe you’d be comfortable doing that, why worry about labels? You are who you are, and honestly that’s the end of it. "
This. OP is a sexual being, I assume ? If it feels good, then a label isn't necessary.
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The excitement you fantasise about could come from a number of places, and I'm not going to second guess them as they vary from person to person.
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Live in the moment, and if it felt good, then great. If it wasn't to your expectations, then at least you tried.
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You don't gain a "Bi" badge afterwards, unless you really want to wear one or it's your 100th time perhaps |
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"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.
However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.
Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"
The good old double barreled BJ. As a single guy, I have participated in this a couple of times to enable couples to fulfill their fantasies / kinks.
The dilemma is more about the issue of labels. We tend to like labels, because we then can define people and know what to expect. The problem is then that they then become rigid and restrictive, as they will categorise us, often using pre-defind categories that often aren't flexible, so may not accurately describe us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP. You are you and not comparable to anyone else or their definition. Sexuality is a part of you, but not all of you. Your orientation is up to you and it is a choice for you to experience, but orientation does not define your sexuality. If it feels good and natural then enjoy the experience you have been offered. If it isn't for you then feel confident you now know for sure. If it is for you then feel no guilt for the time before as you just did not know. Be you and embrace who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men need to stop worrying what makes them bisexual and just enjoy what they enjoy.
If that happens to be you on your knees sucking cock then give me a shout. |
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"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.  "
Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now??? |
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"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.
Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now???"
I was humming it as I wrote my comment, sorry you must’ve heard me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on perspective.
If the urge to press your penis against another is what you seek, then possibly curious.
If however, seeing the woman so excited that she just has to do that, then no, the thrill comes from her excitement. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Men need to stop worrying what makes them bisexual and just enjoy what they enjoy.
If that happens to be you on your knees sucking cock then give me a shout."
I swear every post of yours these days... |
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I've always been straight, don't fancy men, can't see myself sucking or even touching cock, yet in club I was with couple playing with boobs and it turned out to be stunning lady boy whose partner unexpectedly took my cock and wanked me. I have to admit to being excited. Confusing |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.
However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.
Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"
Not in the slightest.
Likewise DP doesn't, DV doesn't, spitroasting a woman doesn't (even if you make physical contact with him midway through obligatory 'high five' moment), nor being in close proximity to other dicks during blowjobs, hand jobs or simply by being naked in the same room as another dude.
If you're only interested in women, have no desire to take her place sucking schlong, taking it up the bum, or frantically tugging another cock like you're shaking a bottle of orangina to get the orangy bits mixed in properly......then you're not in the least bit bi.
Even if the other guy is.
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"Who cares when you’re on your death bed. Have no regrets in your last moments, do it soon, as that bus is just around the corner.
Why do I have "always look on the bright side of life" as an earworm now???"
Now you’ve done it - Eric Idle on a cross… he’s whistling..
god this Teams call is dull…  |
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I don't think it's bi but I also don't think it really matters to anyone else but you. If you enjoy it and you are comfortable with it, what does it matter what strangers on a shagging site think? There are some people here that demand you use the labels that suit their opinions on your profile. They can't be happy with people liking some things but not falling into a label. Like "you must say you are bi if you will allow a guy to suck your dick".
If you are comfortable with it and enjoy it, that's really all that matters. |
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"Would never want to be pleasured by another man, but have done MMF a few times, and never felt uncomfortable around another guy in that regard.
However, I get turned on by the idea of a woman sucking mine and another man’s cock at the same time, and having both bellends in her mouth at the same time.
Does this make me bisexual, even though I have zero desire to ever pleasure or be pleasured by a dude?"
No |
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