"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine  "
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My young squire, sometimes it's best to be outrageous than just fine. When was the last time you quaffed wine that was just fine?  |
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"I've never understood why if it's a man it's outrageous and if it's a woman it's fine
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My young squire, sometimes it's best to be outrageous than just fine. When was the last time you quaffed wine that was just fine? "
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"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"
Some girls will, some girls won't
Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't
Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why
Some say they will and some girls lie. |
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In the club environment there is less sigma around it. Clubs are a little like entering a different time and space. For some obviously it'll be an absolute no. Some are of the mind we're all adults there for a good time and it's not for them to police others morality. But for most it's I think it's just a case of don't ask don't tell in a club.
We would probably be do not ask, do not tell if it weren't for the fact we're chatty, inquisitive sorts. So we have come across a few married (without permission) men and women in our time in clubs. As people who have both been cheating on by ex spouces it's not an endearing feature. However we take individuals as we find them as an individual then and there. We know the world is not black and white. So although we do find cheating distasteful it would be a lie to say we have never been with a married man or woman.
Also come across a fair few couples on the club scene where both of them are cheating on their respective spouses back home.
It's an uncomfortable side of the lifestyle and we wish in an ideal world was not there. But as you can see above we'd be hypocritical to call others on it. However it's something we don't seek out or desire. |
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over a year ago
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"Do any ladies on here meet married men???
It’s a swinging site. The clue is in the name 
Ah yes but cheating is not and never has been part of swinging! "
Oh. It’s a cheating thread.?… how would I know?
OP. Why not make that clear for us all??
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over a year ago
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"Do any ladies on here meet married men???"
Loads do, and lots of married women are on here both with and without knowledge of their partners. However most of the women are discreet about it and keep it under the radar.
It’s not for everyone though which is fair enough and I can understand and appreciate their reasons why |
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over a year ago
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They do,they just don't know they do.its why most men on here lie and never fall for the "can sniff a married man a mile off"(no they cant) and those doing the reverse psychobabble of "happy to meet married men" ( no they aren't, they just want you to be honest so they then can avoid).
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over a year ago
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"Yes I have no shame
Do you ask them if they're married?
I've seen profiles saying will meet married if honest about it. "
I haven't met anyone yet that hasn't been truthful from the start as I don't meet anyone instantly.
Always comes into the conversation early on in my experience, no point lying about it to be honest. |
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"Yes I have no shame
Do you ask them if they're married?
I've seen profiles saying will meet married if honest about it.
I haven't met anyone yet that hasn't been truthful from the start as I don't meet anyone instantly.
Always comes into the conversation early on in my experience, no point lying about it to be honest. "
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I used to meet a married man, it was a nice feeling that he wants me over his wife, but then over some time he caught feelings for me. So I had to draw the line.
Also was having intercourse with a man for at least 4 months, then he dropped it to me that he was married and had children. His daughter was a year younger than me. So once I knew that then our meetings were finished.
But I only meet married men with the wife's consent now. Less hassle and knowing I'm allowed to do it makes it less intense. |
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"Yes and people will rarely ask your marital status in a club."
When I attended the clubs regularly everyone knew I was married and my story behind it and although I only massage and soft play I always tell people before arranging a meet/massage.
And I do meet a lot of couples that state they don't meet attached guys. But its like age its about the individual not the label. |
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"They do,they just don't know they do.its why most men on here lie and never fall for the "can sniff a married man a mile off"(no they cant) and those doing the reverse psychobabble of "happy to meet married men" ( no they aren't, they just want you to be honest so they then can avoid).
You're welcome."
It’s nice that we have you to speak for “us” and “them”.
Like the Dr Dolittle of fab.
#not all heroes wear capes. |
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I am a married man playing with her permission. The sticking point is confirmation. Some will only see married guys if they get confirmation of permission from the wife.
We no longer have sex due to her medical issues so she encourages me to play as long as she doesn't find out. That way she doesn't feel blame for not being able to provide me with what I need. So how do I provide proof?
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"I am a married man playing with her permission. The sticking point is confirmation. Some will only see married guys if they get confirmation of permission from the wife.
We no longer have sex due to her medical issues so she encourages me to play as long as she doesn't find out. That way she doesn't feel blame for not being able to provide me with what I need. So how do I provide proof?
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It's a difficult one, I suppose I don't need to see permission as anyone could be the female providing that, I like a degree of trust and the knowledge that his wife, is not going to hunt me down, as blaming the unsuspecting female, is easier than blaming the husband when he cheats... especially when he sides with his wife against her...
I guess we can only do so much to protect ourselves, from being dragged into drama |
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I do, I know others won't like me for that but we all have our reasons for going on here and that is their business not mine.
I also find married men are more discreet and less likely to brag to their mates. |
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over a year ago
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"Yes I have no shame
What about a 65 year old married man?
I'd have to say no as you're older than my parents so I just couldn't go there sorry "
Plus the distance of course! |
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coming from experience some do, but it is far few between, most have wanted to speak to my wife in the chat rooms on cam to prove I'm not lying
im 100% honest on my profile and state I'm married and that my wife also has a profile we even have a couples account, but it still puts many off, on another note
I block/ignore fems that are "cheating" as I would like to speak to the husband also, |
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"Some do.
Even more lie about not meeting them.
Love your comment about Jap's eyes on your profile!
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True though.
Saw yet another this morning which appeared to have a bad case of conjunctivitis!  |
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"Some do.
Even more lie about not meeting them.
Love your comment about Jap's eyes on your profile!
True though.
Saw yet another this morning which appeared to have a bad case of conjunctivitis! "
Bloody love your sense of humour! Shame I'm too old for you 
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"I do, I know others won't like me for that but we all have our reasons for going on here and that is their business not mine.
I also find married men are more discreet and less likely to brag to their mates. "
Not on here, I've found married men to be the most chatty about their different extra marital sexual partners, I guess they don't need to be loyal to meets in here, as they are not looking for a relationship |
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If asked , I answer honestly. It's on my profile, not ashamed to be playing around without my wife.
She would love to join in but cannot do so. I'm sure that this causes prfor me in respect of being married but single in meets |
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"I am not sure why Fab doesn’t provide a married unmarried box to tick and enable that as a search criterion. I know plenty would lie but at least you had the option of being honest "
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If you want the option of being honest you can do just that by declaring it as a piece of narrative in your profile description. You don't need a tick box for that. |
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