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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, I don’t think anybody knows I even exist, I just pop random replies to posts every now and again, can’t say I’ve taken the time to let people know me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah, I don’t think anybody knows I even exist, I just pop random replies to posts every now and again, can’t say I’ve taken the time to let people know me "
I noticed the shirt.  |
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"I am what I am. "
None cares nor knows, My friends forsake me like a memory lost:
I am the self-consumer of my woes—
They rise and vanish in oblivious host,
Like shadows in love’s frenzied stifled throes
And yet I am, and live—like vapours tossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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No they don't
I possibly don't
Yes I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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I like to say I don’t care but I do. And every day I’m a slightly different person. So, yeah, I have no idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humour is very much the same but otherwise I wouldn't say people get much insight into who I really am no. That's why I don't concern myself with strangers opinions, they are making judgements on a tiny snippet of personality. |
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I just like talking about sex . I definitely don't try to give any impression, I just talk. Sometimes I can get ranty that's true in real life but most the time I'm quite chilled  I don't care how I come across really I don't take anything too seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm pretty much the same me in real life as the person you see here.
I make no secret of being a big softy, a hopeless romantic and occasionally capable of a bit of lust.
I'm fairly open about some aspects of my life especially with people I'm close to on here.
However I live with constant imposter syndrome so I'm always convinced people would be let down by the reality of me in comparison to what I show here.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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Let's put it this way.
I'd never have believed some people I've seen in here could probably do very well on Strictly Come Dancing.
How wrong I was........
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Forum me is pretty much me. There's personal stuff that no one here needs to know. But anyone who has read enough of my posts should be able to tell if we'll get along or not.
Also thanks for the earworms OP and Ricky.
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We try to be really authentic in our comms with people - even if we are saying thanks but no thanks.
But...authentic vs do people really know us...guess that's v different and we only open up to people when we meet them. And even then, we are discerning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me. |
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me."
Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
Interesting question raven.
For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.
So take that, haterzzzz xoxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think only one person on fab, maybe two people, know me. And I don’t care how anyone sees me anymore. I don’t want to sleep with most of them and I probably will never ever meet them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm pretty much the same me in real life as the person you see here.
I make no secret of being a big softy, a hopeless romantic and occasionally capable of a bit of lust.
I'm fairly open about some aspects of my life especially with people I'm close to on here.
However I live with constant imposter syndrome so I'm always convinced people would be let down by the reality of me in comparison to what I show here.
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This sums me up better than I did |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me."
Used to? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
They don't. I like to think I project the person I am and am seen that way. But I'm not going to stress over if they don't.
Is it nice to be liked and known for it? Yes of course. But if that's the case awesome, if it's not... Awesome.
Fuck you all, I'm me. If you want to know me here I am. If you don't that's cool  |
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We try to be ourselves on here, and try to put exactly who we are in person on here, obviously only letting information about us were happy sharing be known. Does is it always come across as we want it to? Probably not. Do people like us? Who knows (insert shrug emoji) Do we care? If we did we'd have left a long while ago if we were worried people didn't
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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no, no and absolutely no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.
Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x"
Awww thank you lovely, and I definitely appreciate the pun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.
Used to? "
Oh you think I'm bad now... |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Serious head on.
(Yeah....right...no....really...)
Having just met several forumites this very weekend for the first time each and every one of them was exactly as they are on here.
And I mean that in a good way of course.
All of them. It was almost like they weren't real people and were AI powered robots of their forum personas.
It was nice. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Humour is very much the same but otherwise I wouldn't say people get much insight into who I really am no. That's why I don't concern myself with strangers opinions, they are making judgements on a tiny snippet of personality."
I don't think people can fake humour, unfortunate for some. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting question raven.
For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.
So take that, haterzzzz xoxx"
You surprised me brucey.
Now bend over it's my turn. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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i don’t care but i don’t think they have the right impression of me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think only one person on fab, maybe two people, know me. And I don’t care how anyone sees me anymore. I don’t want to sleep with most of them and I probably will never ever meet them. "
Yes!! |
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.
Well you seem to be a thoroughly decent human bean (pun intended) x
Awww thank you lovely, and I definitely appreciate the pun! "
You're most welcome and I'm glad you enjoyed the pun... I have plenty more where they came from...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.
Used to?
Oh you think I'm bad now... "
Bad is good Joe. |
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Hello op.
We’ve not spoken but you have given us the impression that you are a curly haired ice maiden that would be competitive at crazy golf.
We’d like to challenge you to 9 holes and a seat on the windmill sometime.
As for us… I imagine people just feel sorry for H and wonder how she copes with my beautiful penis. |
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"I don't know what people think of me to tell whether I think they have it wrong or not. I used to be a people pleaser when I first used the forums so as not to upset anyone but tried to be more confident in my opinions whether they're funny, flirty, controversial or confrontational. But unless people know the context for those opinions, they can never really fully know me.
Used to?
Oh you think I'm bad now... "
When I'm good I'm very very good
But when I'm bad I'm better  |
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"Interesting question raven.
For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.
So take that, haterzzzz xoxx"
I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.
J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello op.
We’ve not spoken but you have given us the impression that you are a curly haired ice maiden that would be competitive at crazy golf.
We’d like to challenge you to 9 holes and a seat on the windmill sometime.
As for us… I imagine people just feel sorry for H and wonder how she copes with my beautiful penis."
Oh how easily I'm forgotten..
But also, hell yeah I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting question raven.
For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.
So take that, haterzzzz xoxx
I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.
J"
Don't tell him I said this but he's actually alright. |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).
It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.
I would like to get to know some.
What was the question? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life.
It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference. "
This ^ |
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"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).
It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.
I would like to get to know some.
What was the question? "
Are you now, or have you ever been, a member of dodgy mc dodge face? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour is very much the same but otherwise I wouldn't say people get much insight into who I really am no. That's why I don't concern myself with strangers opinions, they are making judgements on a tiny snippet of personality.
I don't think people can fake humour, unfortunate for some. "
Not fake it but imitate it? Definitely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like most (men?) so far, it seems, no one knows me, no one has tried to get to know me, I am the same on here as in real life (except my name isn’t really Waggoner).
It can’t matter whether I care or not: it won’t make a difference.
I would like to get to know some.
What was the question? "
I don't think anyone really knows me either, I'm just meaning by how you present yourself. I have opinions on most people on the forums and the majority I've never spoken to.
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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I don't think anyone really knows me either, I'm just meaning by how you present yourself. I have opinions on most people on the forums and the majority I've never spoken to.
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I assume I project who I really am. My opinions and humour are the same as I share with friends. How this comes over I can’t tell - that’s (unfortunately maybe) up to the beholder.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
One thing is, I don't think I want everyone to know. I'm not a sociable person, I'm selective in those I like and share with.
While I don't change things about me to put forward, I don't put my full self forward. Nor will I ever. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Interesting question raven.
For me? You do. Most others don't. They just assume my say it how it is approach is dickhead behavior and have no understanding that it's literally my profession to analyze people and so can do better than most.
So take that, haterzzzz xoxx
I don't have a clue what you're actually like. You give very little away considering the sheer volume of posts. I suspect we'd get on in real life though.
J
Don't tell him I said this but he's actually alright. "
Blush emojis if I blushed ever right now! |
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I think people probably get a decent sense of my personality from here. I like to think I'm much the same in person.
But that's not to say anyone really knows me/knows me as I'm not sure I know anyone from here well enough for that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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Online is a persona.
In real life ever day matter you swe and view the real highs & lows of that person
On fab its an assumption from pics and some write ups and posts. |
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I wouldn't say I don't care. I just don't spend much time thinking about how people take me. It's a bit of a wild goose chase and a lot of energy for little return.
I don't see how you can get to know someone like really KNOW someone without ya know talking to them. Listening to what they say, hearing their story and all that. Trying to understand them.
I reckon it's really hard to know yourself. Like really KNOW yourself ya know. And I think: how can someone really get to know me if I don't know myself?
And I kind of want that because that's ya know what intimacy is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I’m not close enough with anyone on here for them to know me well. People probably have their assumptions on the type of person I am and that’s fine, it doesn’t bother me too much what others think of me, I’m likely never going to meet them in real life anyway. |
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People get the impression of me that is coloured by their experiences and tastes. I don't think anyone can give or get a 'right' impression.
I have no idea of the impression I give and I do don't want to know, it would be pointless because I wouldn't be able to change it |
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Some people on here know me. Other people on here don't know me. Some people think I'm amazing. Other people think I'm a twat. Some people think I've got a face like the back end of a bus. Other people think I've got a face like the front end of a bus. Some people think that I make valuable contributions. Other people are wrong. Some people think that I'm fabulous at the sex thing and are desperate to wrap their legs round me to experience mutual ecstasy. Other people are not bonkers.
Some people want to meet me. Other people want to meet me but haven't realised it yet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people on here know you? Like KNOW you know you, you know?
Obviously we all make our own opinions about people, he's a dickhead, she's a dickhead, he's alright in small doses and so on.
But do you think people get the right impression of you? Do you project the right impression of you? Do you even care?
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Those that know, know.
The rest get the surface level cocky prick.
So deep. Like an onion. At the bottom of the sea.
Layers and shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only what they think they know. I reckon unless you meet up and spend time with someone, they only make up their image of you. Some get the privilege of getting to know you more over time.
If they then still like who they find is another question altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say one or two people on here know the real me. I’m not that different from my forum persona but I can be a lot more caring. This is already too serious for me… boobs, fart, nipple tassels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d say one or two people on here know the real me. I’m not that different from my forum persona but I can be a lot more caring. This is already too serious for me… boobs, fart, nipple tassels."
Also… apart from those couple of people I really don’t care what people think of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a couple of people on here that know me and I like to think I know them pretty well too. Obviously they are both awesome, hardworking unique people that I have oodles of love and respect for, that's why I'm drawn to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s hard to know but I can’t say that we act or speak differently on here to what we do in real life. It’s a tough one as people perceive the same thing in a lot of different way ways.
We’ve chatted to people outside of this and they’ve been nothing like what’s portrayed on here and we’ve spoken to some away from here that were exactly the same as they are on here.
So to summarise.. I don’t know 
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Before people meet me they presume I’m intimidating or think I’m going to be up my self which is far from the reality! On here you’re just a series of images- people who don’t take the time to get to know you will come up with their own ideas about anyway.
One person knows me exceptionally well and a few others know what I allow them too, I’m wary of who I let in x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
On the forums? Not at all.
They see aspects of my true self but it’s all what I’m comfortable with them seeing. None of it is false or fabricated but it’s not all of me.
My friends from here, partners, people that I’ve met, they know me and I’m lucky that they want to keep me in their lives (mostly).
No one can really know the whole you from words on a screen |
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I think people think I'm more outgoing than I am, I'm fairly quiet.
It also depends on the environment, I've chatted to people on here to meet and not enjoyed the night for whatever reasons obviously the night isn't as upbeat as a night that had gone well.
For me totally depends on the environment and how comfortable I am with the people I'm with.
It can be easy to click with people online then in person not so much and others I've met at socials and wouldn't have looked at their profile had I seen it 1st.
I really don't care if people's opinions of me though it's easy to form opinions of people you've not met it's also easy to have certain expectations from your own perception of them which isn't always correct.
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