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"We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.
It takes time."
3, it’s the magic number  |
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"We can't be attractive to everyone, you just have to find 1, or maybe 2, personally I think 3 is a good number.
It takes time.
3, it’s the magic number "
It's a good number |
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP  "
I think that neither matching the implied birthyear of the username would be an extra extra red flag for me.
But, OP, there is no formula. Everyone is different. Read profiles, only message the people you genuinely want to connect with that you match the preferences of. And women on here are overwhelmed with both nice and dirty messages in varying amounts of impersonal messages. Remember you're trying to connect with a whole human. |
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP "
Yup !
1959 In my book makes OP 53.
Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse. |
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP
Yup !
1959 In my book makes OP 53.
Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."
I’ve got my abacus out. Computer says no?
Anyway, good luck OP, keep visible in the forums, attend socials and or clubs and the successometer needle with be pointing North! |
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP
Yup !
1959 In my book makes OP 53.
Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."
I got 64 lol |
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Yeah your profile is all over the place with age dates etc, maybe get in touch with admin and see what can be changed. Otherwise maybe bite the bullet and start again with your correct age.
The inconsistency is a massive red flag to many because our spideysense says if you can’t tell the truth about your age, what else are you lying about?
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP
Yup !
1959 In my book makes OP 53.
Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse."
Well I'm 54 and I was born in 1968! So the OP can't be 53 |
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"The age thing will also be a big problem
This is the first thing that jumped out at me too. People will notice that wee discrepancy OP
Yup !
1959 In my book makes OP 53.
Yes 64 Dont know how I got53
Tell a fib it will always come back and bite you in the arse.
I got 64 lol "
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You need to look at all the other posts from single men who struggle. Typically nothing wrong with them. Occasionally unrealistic expectations though. ..
You have to sell yourself m. Look at the posts that guide on this. And give people photos so they could assess if they find you attractive |
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