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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm slightly stuck for words.
One thing you should know is that many people have found their life partners on here, hopefully some of those couples will see this thread and comment so you can see.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
Lots of ‘people’ on all sorts of sites have mental health issues.
Define ‘looking desperate’?
Lots of ‘people’ do find their ‘person’ on here as they do on all sorts of sites.
This site does not protect very vulnerable ‘people’, like many other sites. It’s an impossibility to police all corners of the internet.
Before anyone starts ‘barking’? Do you mean disagreeing with you? Or actually making dog noises? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Kind of have had your whole theory shit on already haven't you.
So many people met, fell in love, married, and have been together for many years while still going strong.
Plenty of men with mental health issues on here too. You don't even have to look far for them. I'm one of them, and I am sure as shit know I'm not the only one. So we are not alone on here, good sir. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm confused on how having needs makes people have mental health issues. It's a pattern that men instantly call a woman crazy without context of what is actually going on in their lives. Let's not make these assumptions and judge people on your own narrative. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking.
Lots of ‘people’ on all sorts of sites have mental health issues.
Define ‘looking desperate’?
Lots of ‘people’ do find their ‘person’ on here as they do on all sorts of sites.
This site does not protect very vulnerable ‘people’, like many other sites. It’s an impossibility to police all corners of the internet.
Before anyone starts ‘barking’? Do you mean disagreeing with you? Or actually making dog noises?"
All the above.
Well done for not really addressing.
I like how you put 'people'.
Unless there's a squid or oak tree on here then yes:
'People'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking.
Lots of ‘people’ on all sorts of sites have mental health issues.
Define ‘looking desperate’?
Lots of ‘people’ do find their ‘person’ on here as they do on all sorts of sites.
This site does not protect very vulnerable ‘people’, like many other sites. It’s an impossibility to police all corners of the internet.
Before anyone starts ‘barking’? Do you mean disagreeing with you? Or actually making dog noises?
All the above.
Well done for not really addressing.
I like how you put 'people'.
Unless there's a squid or oak tree on here then yes:
'People'.
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I addressed all your points bar the last one which was, quite frankly, utterly bizarre 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow! I am actually lost for words.... are you always this deliberately inflammatory op??
Given his other contributions today I suspect he's trolling hard. Well I hope he's just trolling"
Nope.
It's a valid point that you can't address.
Trolls don't exist.
I'm guessing most men on here don't exist either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does this also apply to men who have been on here over a year but are still not verified?"
Indeed.
No law against that.
I'm verified by admin.
Are you saying admin is wrong?
I don't need to be verified by 'people'.
I'm not that bothered about meeting.im guessing uou fall into my original point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does this also apply to men who have been on here over a year but are still not verified?
Indeed.
No law against that.
I'm verified by admin.
Are you saying admin is wrong?
I don't need to be verified by 'people'.
I'm not that bothered about meeting.im guessing uou fall into my original point."
I wasn't referring to you but if the shoe fits Cinderella then wear it x |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love."
So much to unpack here but in my experience, sexually liberated women are generally the most self confident, self reliant and self respecting women I know. |
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"Wow! I am actually lost for words.... are you always this deliberately inflammatory op??
Given his other contributions today I suspect he's trolling hard. Well I hope he's just trolling
Nope.
It's a valid point that you can't address.
Trolls don't exist.
I'm guessing most men on here don't exist either."
Trolling is when someone post or comments online to deliberately upset others. In short: Trolling is when someone deliberately tries to upset others online.
You know just in case you don't know.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re going to be knee deep in vag after your forums posts today "
I've only just started.
I usually get booted off.
Offends the delicate lounge clique.who are all"amazing",don't judge and are blissfully happy on a sex site where most shag anything for acceptance and lurve.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow! I am actually lost for words.... are you always this deliberately inflammatory op??
Given his other contributions today I suspect he's trolling hard. Well I hope he's just trolling"
If he was he sure got a bite out of me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm slightly stuck for words.
One thing you should know is that many people have found their life partners on here, hopefully some of those couples will see this thread and comment so you can see.
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Still waiting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re going to be knee deep in vag after your forums posts today
I've only just started.
I usually get booted off.
Offends the delicate lounge clique.who are all"amazing",don't judge and are blissfully happy on a sex site where most shag anything for acceptance and lurve.
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If that’s how you feel why do you come back? |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Wow! I am actually lost for words.... are you always this deliberately inflammatory op??
Given his other contributions today I suspect he's trolling hard. Well I hope he's just trolling
Nope.
It's a valid point that you can't address.
Trolls don't exist.
I'm guessing most men on here don't exist either."
No I don't address ludicrous points, I laugh at them and wonder about the people that make them. |
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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago
Chipping Norton |
"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
Mental health is a serious issue for men, women and every possible permutation and combination thereof. And if anyone isn't straining every sinew to maximise the affection, respect and love in their life then they probably should be.
Fully agree that judging is a vital part of thinking about life. I judge your post to be painfully short of affection, respect and love. I wish you better. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
"Does this also apply to men who have been on here over a year but are still not verified?
Indeed.
No law against that.
I'm verified by admin.
Are you saying admin is wrong?
I don't need to be verified by 'people'.
I'm not that bothered about meeting.im guessing uou fall into my original point.
I wasn't referring to you but if the shoe fits Cinderella then wear it x"
,,, who are you referring too |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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I'm slightly stuck for words.
One thing you should know is that many people have found their life partners on here, hopefully some of those couples will see this thread and comment so you can see.
Still waiting."
You say still waiting but you’ve already had one person (Nell) reply saying they found their partner here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
You are right. I’m judging you right now reading this.
Don’t forget, you are “most men”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does this also apply to men who have been on here over a year but are still not verified?
Indeed.
No law against that.
I'm verified by admin.
Are you saying admin is wrong?
I don't need to be verified by 'people'.
I'm not that bothered about meeting.im guessing uou fall into my original point.
I wasn't referring to you but if the shoe fits Cinderella then wear it x,,, who are you referring too"
I was referring to men who have been on here over a year and are not verified as I stated in my original comment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
SOME????? |
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The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. |
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
I'm sorry you've had a difficult day. I hope you feel better soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
Please don't let non sense on the forums ruin your day |
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
Oooh, I've got lots and lots of hedgehogs  |
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
I like hedgehogs!! Schnuffling through the undergrowth looking for yummy worms 
Sorry you’re having a shit day, my friend. Reach out if you fancy a chat  |
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms. "
He’s really not worth you being upset over. You have friends here that are happy to listen.
(Some of us are women, but don’t let that put you off) |
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Hang everybody this guy performing
A worthwhile public service
He got every body out telling him he talking bollocks .and nice to used you all . had my fuck shit bollocks thread attracted which was also nonesence but in a good way or atleast it was ment to be .
Just for record op met Maya here and we are still together 10years later . but I belive in free speak and your right to talk bollocks .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I am believer in not feeding the trolls. Sometimes I just can't help myself.
Clearly your wrong regarding people not meeting life / long term partners. As for mental health...I suspect there is just as many men who have issues as women.
Some advice nicked from someone else....Be better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
Woof woof woof! Woof Woof Woof Woof, Woof Woof and Woof Woof. |
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking.
Woof woof woof! Woof Woof Woof Woof, Woof Woof and Woof Woof."
It would be you your supposed to be shy . |
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"monkey in a dustbin
I know.
I know.
It's serious."
I'm so glad it's not just me that does this! There was a thread title the other day that fitted the pattern and had me singing that song every time I saw it. But it was a serious thread so I couldn't make the comment.
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"The stigma runs strong with this one.
I have some quite serious mental health issues. cPTSD. Today has been a very difficult day. The day itself is triggering, and then I have had something happen that really messed me up.
Then I came on fab for a little distraction and found your wonderful thread. Thanks OP. You've helped me to remember why I like hedgehogs more than people. Or in some cases parasitic worms.
He’s really not worth you being upset over. You have friends here that are happy to listen.
(Some of us are women, but don’t let that put you off)"
I didn't realise it upset me, until I read your comments. Thank you for restoring a little faith in humanity for me - I needed that.
Also the shared love for schnuffling hedgehogs! . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking.
Woof woof woof! Woof Woof Woof Woof, Woof Woof and Woof Woof.
It would be you your supposed to be shy ."
So much can be said in bitch speak  |
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Sorry but this is toxic monogamous BS.
There are lots of different kinds of perfectly healthy relationship styles. Monogamy works for some people, it's not a one size fits all.
It's from the same school of thought that you can't trust bi or pansexual people.
Sex is like badminton. Play it with your friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Holy fucking shit!
It now all makes sense. This explains exactly why women don't want to be with me.
They are all mental and delusional.
This day just got better! Thanks op! "
The crazy ones are more fun though. |
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"Sorry but this is toxic monogamous BS.
There are lots of different kinds of perfectly healthy relationship styles. Monogamy works for some people, it's not a one size fits all.
It's from the same school of thought that you can't trust bi or pansexual people.
Sex is like badminton. Play it with your friends.
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It's also just toxic patriarchy. I'm not looking for "my man". I don't need that  |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Holy fucking shit!
It now all makes sense. This explains exactly why women don't want to be with me.
They are all mental and delusional.
This day just got better! Thanks op!
The crazy ones are more fun though.
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Sssh, don't tell everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Holy fucking shit!
It now all makes sense. This explains exactly why women don't want to be with me.
They are all mental and delusional.
This day just got better! Thanks op!
The crazy ones are more fun though. "
Yes but there's only so many times a man can have his car set on fire before enough is enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my wife met on here so clearly you can find your person on here. Married with kids and ridiculously happy with our life, thanks to fab
There are other ways to get women though, have you tried running round the car park of the local working mens club with an oversized butterfly net? I think it’s bingo on a Sunday night, could be on to a winner
I’m sensing somebody is feeling a bit unloved on Fab, did this thread and it’s replies help OP? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious on here that some women have serious mental health issues.
A lot look desperate and in need of affection,respect and or love.
Nobody will find their "man" on here.
Most men on here will go with a monkey in a dustbin so how does this site protect very vulnerable women?
I judge.we all do,before anyone starts barking."
Wow.
No we don’t all judge - I certainly don’t judge anyone in regards to their mental health.
Plenty have found their partner on here and some have married so you’re wrong there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP is on a roll today"
Thanks green tick! I think the Op thinks he is intellectually superior to all of us, and having a little fun at our expense! Who's a clever boy then?!  |
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"That horse must be really high.
You got some room to talk
Pegusus knob
Surly your goes higher
Mine can fly"
Tried to message you privately to say thanks for the fab .your fillers didn't allow
Then was shocked by your profile pics .turns out you do have Pegasus knob . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm slightly stuck for words.
One thing you should know is that many people have found their life partners on here, hopefully some of those couples will see this thread and comment so you can see.
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wow |
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