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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it about firsts?
Firsts being the first time you/them/both of you have experienced or tried something in a sexual sense. Though it's not limited to sexual. It could be something simple like the first time you've walked around naked in front of someone, or the first time you wore something for someone.
In a world where we are the ages we are, have tried lots in sex already from previous relationships/encounters it's still significant to get a first with someone.
But why? Why does a first hold that much significance? And why does it hold such a significance when it's not necessarily part of a relationship where sentiment would be more of a thing? Does it make a difference and hold more or less significance if it's a close FWB or a FB or other?
Does it hold significance to you? Or are you not fussed either way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most firsts are important in terms of relationships. First kisses. First dates. First time we do the sex. First time you hear their voice. All important memories I hold on to. But completely get why they’re not overly significant to everyone. |
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You always remember the first whether it’s losing your virginity your first kiss, your first time, touching someone of the same sex and not just in sexual terms, I remember winning my first school prize, my first date with the wife and the first time I got done for drinking underage.
All very memorable and probably quite insignificant, but they mean a lot to me |
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Firsts aren’t really all that important to me but H is very fond of reminiscing.
First time we met, first kiss, first fuck etc etc.
I think i might be a bit hard hearted when it comes to these types of sentiments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't tell you when my first anything was, it's not because I don't have a good memory because I'm awesome at remembering stuff. I guess the sex stuff just isn't that important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it's significant because it's a one time feeling. You will never be able to recreate those firsts or have the same feelings of that moment, that's what makes them special. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
I like to document firsts in my mind.
The first time you experience something may not always be the best experience but I’ve found that unless I actively search for them, firsts generally become less common as I get older. So firsts are special in that way.
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It's the memories for me, the way you can drift back into that moment and feel like you're back there. The first glance, the first kiss. The first date, the first dance leading to the bedroom! 
I never want to forget the first anything. 
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Firsts are great. And not just the big ones, doing something you’ve never done before, but the first times with a new partner too.
And then those really, really special people with whom every kiss feels like a first kiss …
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Firsts are always there in the memory with someone special.
I still remember seeing Tinder for the first time like it was yesterday and everything that went on afterwards.
Actually it’s funny you should mention this as we are trying to work out what we can do sexually that will be a first for the both of us. When it is a first it is a special moment not shared by anyone else
Marc |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
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I find it depends on the significance of the first and the person. Is it the first time you have done something, or the first time you have done something with person X.
Was it memorable for a reason?
Firsts can be very symbolic, and for some people symbolism is very important.
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