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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fell in love.... definitely not doing this again though.
Also seen some ridiculously pretty men. (And penises)
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Been there done that… it really sucks x
But yeah there’s some really genuinely beautiful people on here so that’s good x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
So many unexpected adventures, gifts, surprises. A few that stand out , a dark fruit homemade cheesecake all for me , a joint birthday cake / birthday celebration, an awesome trip to a photography exhibition, a string of meets in Goa, hand made valentines gifts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve made some great friends on here! There’s some we talk to constantly, some we see on the forums who make us laugh and smile daily.
All in all fab is a great community that we love being a part of!
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until I joined the forum I’d say it was just purely meets. But since joining the forums I’ve met and chatted to some gorgeous people. Shared some stories and had some amazing weekends with great people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Lounge in general, had not used it in my previous incarnations, but find it provides all sorts of smiles (although there are some real dickheads on here).
Also met a number of people who are now friends outside of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that I didn't have to waste time making friends, but still had lots of interesting sex that has introduce me to many new things I didn't know I would enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything that's happened in the last few months has been pretty unexpected. I've had so many fab outings over the years but this one is the best.
I've changed. I'm saying yes more and I'm loving it. Having a very special wingman really helps. He's definitely the best unexpected thing.  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
I've been sent some pretty sexy pics and vids and had some little chuckles here and there.
My penis, let's call him Phil for the purposes of this story, has also enjoyed the fine art displayed in this sexy gallery too. Always poking his head out to have a look. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
To be honest I never really expected anything when I joined Fab, especially not to stay on as long as I have.
But honestly it's possibly meeting people that I truly love speaking to on a regular basis and I consider friends - actually spending time with me dressed   |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"There are lots but one sticking in my head right now is being taken by the hand, led insistently across a club and then having a fantastic Hamilton singsong with a beautiful woman! 
J"
That's hot  |
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Found some great friends met Maya here still together 10years later met other women that I've trained . had up and downs here with forums chatted with lots of people had a number of idiots and catfish but that's par for the course here |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There are lots but one sticking in my head right now is being taken by the hand, led insistently across a club and then having a fantastic Hamilton singsong with a beautiful woman!
J"
I wasn't going to reply to this thread and just let it flow but I'm going to have to now. Starting with this.
Yes! It was so glorious and so much fun - sorry if I was tad too insistent. I'm not really, Hamilton is a mood but sorry feels right. :D |
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By *1876Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"To be honest I never really expected anything when I joined Fab, especially not to stay on as long as I have.
But honestly it's possibly meeting people that I truly love speaking to on a regular basis and I consider friends - actually spending time with me dressed "
Aww plus I can see from one of the pics on your profile that you're helping out our good friends at Sydney University by working in their Research Department.
How lovely |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
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Finding some sexy ladies to play with, who ain’t scared of a Big Penis lol
Most run out screaming ‘murder’  haha but not the Fab ladies they grab that so called ‘murderous dick’ look it in eye and shout “you will not take me today Mr! I will fuck u into submission” haha true heroes x |
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Got me out of my comfort zone a bit. Certainly increased sections of my vocabulary trifold. Reafirmed some of my own morals and beliefs by observing the behaviour of others. I also learned that there are so many of us who love cake and chocolate so much and that I just have to live with that weakeness.  |
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"Got me out of my comfort zone a bit. Certainly increased sections of my vocabulary trifold. Reafirmed some of my own morals and beliefs by observing the behaviour of others. I also learned that there are so many of us who love cake and chocolate so much and that I just have to live with that weakeness. "
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"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
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The moment I see that I'm blocked it tickles my prostrate like a vibrating dildo |
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Nothing. It's Fab; not real life. It's my escapist distraction, guilty pleasure and my avenue of daily reverie.
Ok, I'm being marginally irreverent — there are a number of cherished people on here who have given me unconditional friendship and support, and therefore much joy and happiness. It wasn't expected. It took me by surprise. |
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"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
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The level of friendship that you can get, I guess.
I'm talking about that from the perspective of me when I first joined up, where I wasn't looking for friendships of that deepness. Just y'know... pals. Ones who might understand me.
Really overachieved there, and I'm grateful |
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Overall I have met some truly interesting people, hopefully more in the near future too,
I've actually made some good friends and feel like I can be myself around them. My confidence has grown and I am finding a balance.. great question xx |
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Fun...I've met and rolled in the hay so to speak with some great people.
Friendship, we may not talk often but I know they're there if I need to talk....
And the biggest one! Love...that one snuck up on me when I definitely wasn't looking for it, and I wouldn't change it for the world, and we're continuing to discover all the above together!
Tinder x |
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By *1876Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"This probably sounds weird, and it didn't occur to me until recently, but I've found I have an unexpected joy for (and from) ladies from the West Midlands "
Aww if only some of the ladies on here developed an unexpected joy for guys from the West Midlands 
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Lies- I’ve found more confidence in my appearance. "
This is brilliant Pickle! It's helped me find it as well; I'd always thought I was rather plain looking and not the sort of person someone would be attracted to physically. Being on here has made me realise and appreciate how much beauty there is to be found in a myriad of ways in people.
And that, in a rather surprising way, I can be attractive to some. Heck, even naked around them. |
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"Lies- I’ve found more confidence in my appearance.
This is brilliant Pickle! It's helped me find it as well; I'd always thought I was rather plain looking and not the sort of person someone would be attracted to physically. Being on here has made me realise and appreciate how much beauty there is to be found in a myriad of ways in people.
And that, in a rather surprising way, I can be attractive to some. Heck, even naked around them."
You're definitely attractive!! |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"True friendships that are part of my everyday life "
Love this Cookie. Yes, you can find friendships that transcend Fab beautifully.
One of my closest and dearest friends I've not yet had the misfortune of meeting. We will though. Soon. I've never spoken to someone who is so like me and I adore them for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joy? The forums - they e filled in so much loneliness through the years and some of you (still here, and some have left) have been a savior.
Happiness, I have an open mind, and reading and talking to a lot has made me happy knowing I’m not alone and I am ‘normal’ in a weird type of way.
Unexpected?? Being at an event/social where there are lots of people I wanted to talk to and even smooch with, but leaving early because a very sexy woman was arriving by train walking to my hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Joy? The forums - they e filled in so much loneliness through the years and some of you (still here, and some have left) have been a savior.
Happiness, I have an open mind, and reading and talking to a lot has made me happy knowing I’m not alone and I am ‘normal’ in a weird type of way.
Unexpected?? Being at an event/social where there are lots of people I wanted to talk to and even smooch with, but leaving early because a very sexy woman was arriving by train walking to my hotel. "
Cant wait for the frigging tenency term to end role on april 2024!
You have said something very profound, i took note! Its real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"True friendships that are part of my everyday life
Love this Cookie. Yes, you can find friendships that transcend Fab beautifully.
One of my closest and dearest friends I've not yet had the misfortune of meeting. We will though. Soon. I've never spoken to someone who is so like me and I adore them for it. "
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I had sex with a man with an extremely fit body (maybe more than one, but I'm not telling).
I was surprised the first time it happened, then realised I'm just a fuck, and served a purpose.
I surprised myself by thoroughly enjoying no strings sex with strangers |
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Our experiences here have been very mixed.
By far the most heartfelt and touching for me was having a group of people keep me company - via messages - when I was sat in the car during the early part of lock down, waiting to hear if my child was still alive (I wasn’t allowed in the hospital). I was terrified and anxious and frustrated at being kept outside, and the group from here made me laugh and tried to keep me distracted. Our little one was induced later that day, and by the evening I was the world’s proudest dad. What the group did for me that morning meant more than I have words to say, and at the time I thought a couple of those people would be very special, long term friends. At least that’s how I viewed them. Unfortunately, none of those people will speak to me now, and some I think even have me blocked - all for reasons I still don’t and probably never will understand. They probably don’t even remember.
Regardless, I will always be grateful for the kindness and support on that day. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"I found out i had a heart and was unafraid to show it once those days are gone but it did happen once
Ach, that must be difficult. That time you shared must have been wonderful, x"
it was amazing but like all things they end and endings as it happens i dont do well with so i sit on my hands wondering how many peoples anuses can sing bohemian rhapsody |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"So many unexpected adventures, gifts, surprises. A few that stand out , a dark fruit homemade cheesecake all for me , a joint birthday cake / birthday celebration, an awesome trip to a photography exhibition, a string of meets in Goa, hand made valentines gifts."
Oh that's really lovely! There's something rather touching about homemade gifts isn't there? In a similar vein, I adore letters. It's taking that time and thinking of the other person. I hope you have many more adventures and surprises to come. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We’ve made some great friends on here! There’s some we talk to constantly, some we see on the forums who make us laugh and smile daily.
All in all fab is a great community that we love being a part of!
Mr"
Isn't it just? I really thought when I first joined that I wouldn't make friends, it would be strictly fucking and that's it. Now, I love this odd little community of people. There's such a wealth of views but such a shared genuine kindness to be found on here. |
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"Taking photos of myself. It's not something I ever did before joining Fab but I've been overjoyed by the confidence it's given me at times  "
Same here, I never would have thought I'd be out there putting my body on display like that lol |
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What is this joy of which you speak?
I've been very fortunate to meet some wonderful people since I have come back that I can say have become friends.
I don't make friends easily and I really didn't expect that to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Made some incredible friends and met some insanely hot young men via this site. I love how I have the freedom to just flat out ask for what I want and every once in a while I get it. Met some great folk at the socials and discovered clubs I might not have found without the help of the listings page. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A great friend who I can have a few beers with when times are tough
Ales of the unexpected "
You're such a funny dick Ricky. All this verbal spaffing, all over my nice, clean thread. Keep it up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A great friend who I can have a few beers with when times are tough
Ales of the unexpected
You're such a funny dick Ricky. All this verbal spaffing, all over my nice, clean thread. Keep it up. "
Hails of the unexpected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
The spanish inquisition"
No one mentions the Spanish Inquisition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A great friend who I can have a few beers with when times are tough
Ales of the unexpected
You're such a funny dick Ricky. All this verbal spaffing, all over my nice, clean thread. Keep it up.
Hails of the unexpected "
Derails of the unexpected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A great friend who I can have a few beers with when times are tough
Ales of the unexpected
You're such a funny dick Ricky. All this verbal spaffing, all over my nice, clean thread. Keep it up.
Hails of the unexpected
Derails of the unexpected. "
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Made some incredible friends and met some insanely hot young men via this site. I love how I have the freedom to just flat out ask for what I want and every once in a while I get it. Met some great folk at the socials and discovered clubs I might not have found without the help of the listings page. "
Oh that's fantastic! It's really good you've found that sort of thing - having that freedom can be fantastic and such a boost. |
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By *eapathMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Taking photos of myself. It's not something I ever did before joining Fab but I've been overjoyed by the confidence it's given me at times "
Do you accept commissions?
Mine are so rubbish 
But otherwise, I ove it on here - lovely things have happened - rtuly life changing - and now, as I do what Meli tells me, I have to dedicate 2 hours a day to the forums too! |
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"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
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Toms news posts and the endless pleasure and permutations available as a response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found my best friend (Nell) and so many other great people I consider friends (you know who you are)
I also found acceptance, understanding and the confidence to be myself.
MrWho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What unexpected happiness/joy have you found from Fab since joining?
It could be big, small, ridiculous... yep, that covers it.
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Nothing in particular although Fab has reinforced the reason I don't date men in real life |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Our experiences here have been very mixed.
By far the most heartfelt and touching for me was having a group of people keep me company - via messages - when I was sat in the car during the early part of lock down, waiting to hear if my child was still alive (I wasn’t allowed in the hospital). I was terrified and anxious and frustrated at being kept outside, and the group from here made me laugh and tried to keep me distracted. Our little one was induced later that day, and by the evening I was the world’s proudest dad. What the group did for me that morning meant more than I have words to say, and at the time I thought a couple of those people would be very special, long term friends. At least that’s how I viewed them. Unfortunately, none of those people will speak to me now, and some I think even have me blocked - all for reasons I still don’t and probably never will understand. They probably don’t even remember.
Regardless, I will always be grateful for the kindness and support on that day. "
George
This is really beautiful and poignant. I had a similar experience when I found out my dad died as I was driving down the motorway. Those three friends will always have my love, regardless of what's happened or will happen.
I hope your little one is bringing you pride and joy with every new day, x |
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