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By *obilebottom OP   Man  over a year ago

All over

What was the biggest change you made in your life that has taken you to a complete new direction ( for the better, as it's Saturday and we are looking for happy endings - no, not that kind.)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I turned left for once because I'm usually always right.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On a serious note.

An odd one, because there was no problems in our relationship, it just went that way.

Breaking up with my former partner, because since then, we've both moved on to even happier relationships, she went on to have more children, and we all act as an extended family, rather than broken.

My partner and former really get along and I and my former partners fella get along great too.

My son is not a child anymore, and so with this break up, I'm surrounded with kids, with whom I don't have full responsibility over and so I get to be immature and their favourite uncle.

We really do all work together to support one another, for the sake of the kids.

It didn't feel like a good change at the time, but we worked on it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Divorce

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

separating from the husband. it was so much being a single mother.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What about you, OP?

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

When turning 50 and circumstances kicked me up the arse and told me I had to put me first for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Separation has given me a new lease of life - it just wasn't working out for either of us

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

The first time i changed a baby poop recovery unit (other words were banned and unavailable)

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By *obilebottom OP   Man  over a year ago

All over


"What about you, OP?"

The biggest change for me was striking a work life balance as it was always tilted more towards work. I have not got it totally right yet but almost there. Old hahits are hard to die so to speak but at least the late nights have been banished so onwards and upwards. We don't always realise how important a bit of me time is.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man  over a year ago

All over


"On a serious note.

An odd one, because there was no problems in our relationship, it just went that way.

Breaking up with my former partner, because since then, we've both moved on to even happier relationships, she went on to have more children, and we all act as an extended family, rather than broken.

My partner and former really get along and I and my former partners fella get along great too.

My son is not a child anymore, and so with this break up, I'm surrounded with kids, with whom I don't have full responsibility over and so I get to be immature and their favourite uncle.

We really do all work together to support one another, for the sake of the kids.

It didn't feel like a good change at the time, but we worked on it. "

That sounds like a great outcome for you all

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

I moved 400 miles south away from all my family just because.

Best decision I ever made

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Coming out and starting my Transition.

The support from friends and family has been overwhelming. I can honestly say I am a far far happier, more optimistic and better person now I am finally the real me.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man  over a year ago

All over


"Coming out and starting my Transition.

The support from friends and family has been overwhelming. I can honestly say I am a far far happier, more optimistic and better person now I am finally the real me. "

It's great that you feel that way and having all that support has obviously made things easier.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent

Kind of obvious but deciding to have children. Being parents has completed us in a way we never thought possible. Changed our lives in the very best way.

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By *ansoffateMan  over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I got very deep into a way of life that would have been the wrong environment to bring kids up in.

When I met someone I wanted to have kids with I got out of it. I wanted to be a good dad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Deciding to go to university when I was in my 30s, took 7 years but got me a great career

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What about you, OP?

The biggest change for me was striking a work life balance as it was always tilted more towards work. I have not got it totally right yet but almost there. Old hahits are hard to die so to speak but at least the late nights have been banished so onwards and upwards. We don't always realise how important a bit of me time is. "

Absolutely, Mate.

I'm glad you've recognised this and working on it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Coming out and starting my Transition.

The support from friends and family has been overwhelming. I can honestly say I am a far far happier, more optimistic and better person now I am finally the real me.

It's great that you feel that way and having all that support has obviously made things easier. "

Absolutely. I have been very lucky.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"What was the biggest change you made in your life that has taken you to a complete new direction ( for the better, as it's Saturday and we are looking for happy endings - no, not that kind.) "
its sunday here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Marrying my husband. Best decision ever.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Marrying my husband. Best decision ever. "
omg you're married i give up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Changing my career path and stepping up. Couldn’t have done it without support but I’m so proud of myself for the 5 long years of hard work it took

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Biggest change for me was to stop relying on other people, stop blaming other people - to make my own decisions and get on with it.

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