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Oral seems to be underwhelming
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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According to a recent study of fabbers, many fabbers seem to agree that oral performed on them is quite underwhelming and/ or boring.
So shall we collectively agree to stop doing it? To make for better meets? Let us know and we’ll send out the memo.
Thanks all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry."
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We should start a MOOC for oral skills. Too many don't know what they're doing so it's shit. So better to have none.
I adore giving a BJ, so I'm not going to want to quit that  "
I adore Lots of things. Doesn’t mean I’m good at them 
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
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I give a fuck what he wants. But if he doesn't want my mouth on his peen then chances are we aren't compatible. Because I absolutely love giving head. And I just stopped myself from going into way too much detail there.
Let's be proud of me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I give a fuck what he wants. But if he doesn't want my mouth on his peen then chances are we aren't compatible. Because I absolutely love giving head. And I just stopped myself from going into way too much detail there.
Let's be proud of me "
Girl!!! Go you!   |
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
"
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves) |
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"We should start a MOOC for oral skills. Too many don't know what they're doing so it's shit. So better to have none.
I adore giving a BJ, so I'm not going to want to quit that
I adore Lots of things. Doesn’t mean I’m good at them
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I'm out if there's no oral  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)"
That's the badger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)"
Hmmmm.
Makes sense.
Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Overrated, yes absolutely. But still enjoyable. If oral is not an option then I won't feel like I've missed out.
Actually, thinking about it. Reciving oral as a form of foreplay and teasing, just to building up excitement and anticipation more, I enjoy that. But oral as the whole act with intent to cum, I don't find it all that exciting.
I do enjoying giving more than receiving. But it's about the selflessness side of it, causing pleasure for somebody else without the need to expect in return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not
Receiving oral is one of my favourite things. I enjoy that more than actually having sex sometimes. "
I know. I wrote a note on your profile after your comments on last night’s thread.  |
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)
Hmmmm.
Makes sense.
Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like? "
For sure. But I'm happy for a guy to go down on me (a bit!) if it makes him happy. Making him happy is part of what I'm trying to achieve and part of what gives me pleasure. It's not just "do X act for Y physical response" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)
Hmmmm.
Makes sense.
Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?
For sure. But I'm happy for a guy to go down on me (a bit!) if it makes him happy. Making him happy is part of what I'm trying to achieve and part of what gives me pleasure. It's not just "do X act for Y physical response""
I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this |
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I give a fuck what he wants. But if he doesn't want my mouth on his peen then chances are we aren't compatible. Because I absolutely love giving head. And I just stopped myself from going into way too much detail there.
Let's be proud of me "
You are such a good girl. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Meets.
Bleurgh.
And no, I'm not going to stop. The people I meet really enjoy oral from me, to the point where they ask me to do it in various sexy ways. If someone didn't like it I wouldn't do it - sex isn't a tasting menu where you have to enjoy every course put in front on you. |
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)
Hmmmm.
Makes sense.
Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?
For sure. But I'm happy for a guy to go down on me (a bit!) if it makes him happy. Making him happy is part of what I'm trying to achieve and part of what gives me pleasure. It's not just "do X act for Y physical response"
I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this "
Being attuned to the desires of the person I'm fucking, and submitting to the patriarchy. Kind of not the same thing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't just want to suck a willy because he enjoys it, I want to do it because I love it. Unless he hates it, then I'll cry.
It’s giving - Fuck what he wants
I think there's an element of compromise?
If I'm with a guy who loves giving oral then I'd be happy if he did a bit, but maybe not as much as he would want.
(Obviously I wouldn't say this about hard limit type stuff, but I'm happy to engage in some "not my favourite" so all parties enjoy themselves)
Hmmmm.
Makes sense.
Orrrrrrrr, and hear me out here, let me land, orrrrrrr we just stop the oral all together and find something else to pleasure our partners that they actually do like?
For sure. But I'm happy for a guy to go down on me (a bit!) if it makes him happy. Making him happy is part of what I'm trying to achieve and part of what gives me pleasure. It's not just "do X act for Y physical response"
I didn’t have you down as the ‘do things to make a man happy’ kinda person and so it’s disappointing to read this
Being attuned to the desires of the person I'm fucking, and submitting to the patriarchy. Kind of not the same thing? "
Ok if you say soooooo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When it's done by someone who enjoys giving it's very satisfying.
I don't care about the orgasm,it's all about feeling the tongue on my most sensitive area.
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Noted. |
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