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Do you crave the act
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or the person?
Before anyone starts banging on about connections and all that jizz, we know that already, that's not what I mean.
Are you horny even when you don't have anyone in your life you like? Do you just get horny then go looking for someone to do "it" with?
Or do you hardly think about sex until someone you crave comes into your life?
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I crave the act to a certain extent. But with a person I have a 'word that shall not be mentioned' - I crave them but also the act goes along with it usually. More so recently, I am craving a lot, like an itch that cannot be scratched!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m rarely ever just horny. It’s usually something the other person does or says that turns me on. I could quite happily go without sex for a long period of time if I never had someone. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Oh I love this question Lilith! Really interesting.
So, my libido goes through stages - generally it's high most of the time, I'm just quite skilled at hiding it/trying to ignore it.
What does happen though is I find myself thinking more about particular types of sex, things I'd like to explore more when someone ignites that spark in me. I don't really have standalone fantasies as such, it's more a person has brought that idea into my mind.
So, I guess I'm horny most of the time but people influence how that's expressed/how I want to express it. Hope that makes sense! |
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I crave the act, but only up to a point. In the same way I crave an immediate random morsel of food from the fridge that will sate my immediate pangs of hunger.
Otherwise – my 'default mode'– I would wait for the person in the same way I would cook the perfect meal for the ultimate pleasure and satisfaction.
Clear as mud. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
I dont think about it loads but little things be it intended acts or subtle looks or words can inspire a bit of a nonesensical lustbomb dosnt mean i have to act mind you id likely just save for a wank later |
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If I have had a meet I'm not horny for a couple of days after sometimes I don't even come on fab.
Then I start needing company, its not an urge for sex although that would be good, it's an urge for a meet even a public social would satisfy that
The only time I'm horny is when I am seeing someone and we are planning a meet it's the anticipation |
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"both. I tend to get very horny in the run up to a meet."
I agree with that. it can often be the anticipation that is really horny. Sometimes the actual act less so but when do all talked about before very horny |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
I think both! For example.
Not horny round Lilith equals - horny. It would just emerge like a silent ninja in the presence.
But yes I can also get horny wherever and whenever and would fuck anyone attractive enough. Yes it's ideal if you know they are q pleasant enough person through some exchanges before but I think most men would be lying here if they said they'd turn down a fuck with a really hot woman who offered it with no previous exchange (JUST MY OPINION) |
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"I think both! For example.
Not horny round Lilith equals - horny. It would just emerge like a silent ninja in the presence.
But yes I can also get horny wherever and whenever and would fuck anyone attractive enough. Yes it's ideal if you know they are q pleasant enough person through some exchanges before but I think most men would be lying here if they said they'd turn down a fuck with a really hot woman who offered it with no previous exchange (JUST MY OPINION)"
Not only would I say it but I've done it numerous times. Self respect is an admirable trait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am horny most of the time my wife didn’t touch me for 8 months and she left me 9 months ago so that’s 17 months since a woman has touched me so I am really horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The act.
But…
Because I’m a bit older and a bit wiser, I’ve realised the act just doesn’t cut it unless I’m with the right person.
When I think about my fantasies…things I’ve done and things I’ve yet to do…I get very horny. Like riding on a bus, sitting on the seat over the rear wheels, aged 16 horny.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People get me horny.
Sorry to sound blunt, but I’ll ‘knock one off’ just to get rid of sexua desires/frustration etc if there’s no-one I fancy. Just do I can on with my life. But when I fancy someone, or have a connection (because it does matter and it is part of all this) I get horny/turned on because of them. Not the act. I crave them.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Roughly 45% horny. I just don't go looking for an outlet for it.
If I'm horny and nobody I'm interested in is an option at the time, I'll just have a wank. Problem solved, it's not quite the same as with somebody else but it certainly gets things back on track. Zero effort required. A crude and quick fix.
That said though, If there is somebody then the horn raises greatly. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"People get me horny.
Sorry to sound blunt, but I’ll ‘knock one off’ just to get rid of sexua desires/frustration etc if there’s no-one I fancy. Just do I can on with my life. But when I fancy someone, or have a connection (because it does matter and it is part of all this) I get horny/turned on because of them. Not the act. I crave them.
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That too |
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It's primarily the person.
I don't really get horny and then try to find someone to fuck. Just doesn't happen. If there's no one in my life I want to have sex with, I don't tend to get horny often. Just a passing mood like any other.
It almost always emerges from intimacy for me. Avoiding the c word for you. But that is how it works for me.
If that's there I can get hornier than hell. If I am nesting with a partner we usually fuck several times a day. Otherwise it ebbs and flows between us.
Getting me horny through pure lust. It is very rare and it's not something I seek, for that reason. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"It's primarily the person.
I don't really get horny and then try to find someone to fuck. Just doesn't happen. If there's no one in my life I want to have sex with, I don't tend to get horny often. Just a passing mood like any other.
It almost always emerges from intimacy for me. Avoiding the c word for you. But that is how it works for me.
If that's there I can get hornier than hell. If I am nesting with a partner we usually fuck several times a day. Otherwise it ebbs and flows between us.
Getting me horny through pure lust. It is very rare and it's not something I seek, for that reason."
Stop stealing thoughts from my brain.
Because that's my answer. Damn you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, if it's the person and not the act.
Do you still wank off even if you have no one to wank off to?
Can you do it without thinking of anyone in particular? |
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"It's primarily the person.
I don't really get horny and then try to find someone to fuck. Just doesn't happen. If there's no one in my life I want to have sex with, I don't tend to get horny often. Just a passing mood like any other.
It almost always emerges from intimacy for me. Avoiding the c word for you. But that is how it works for me.
If that's there I can get hornier than hell. If I am nesting with a partner we usually fuck several times a day. Otherwise it ebbs and flows between us.
Getting me horny through pure lust. It is very rare and it's not something I seek, for that reason.
Stop stealing thoughts from my brain.
Because that's my answer. Damn you."
Maybe we should put our heads together and see if we can come up with an even better one. |
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"So, if it's the person and not the act.
Do you still wank off even if you have no one to wank off to?
Can you do it without thinking of anyone in particular? "
I get memories of times I've had sex if I wank. Which sometimes leaves me feeling pretty broken afterwards, so I try not to go there.
I never envied that ability to go oh look there's .Lilith she's fit I'll wank over her pics. I do now though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the act is craved before the person. But once you properly know the person, It's the person and not the act.
I have a pretty wild imagination and can spend most of the day horny. But when it comes to some self loving, it's usually the act I'm fantasising about and the actors are headless, soul-less individuals, who bare no resemblance of anyone I fantasise over  they're all basically primark manikins...
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"Or the person?
Before anyone starts banging on about connections and all that jizz, we know that already, that's not what I mean.
Are you horny even when you don't have anyone in your life you like? Do you just get horny then go looking for someone to do "it" with?
Or do you hardly think about sex until someone you crave comes into your life?
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Before i met john i had not had sex for 2yrs. |
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I do crave the act but generally a wank sorts that out. I'm not about rearranging just anyone's guts so I can fulfill that urge.
If I'm craving a person though then a wank won't do. I need to touch, taste, feel them... If it doesn't happen, depressive cry wanks are the only solution. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"So, if it's the person and not the act.
Do you still wank off even if you have no one to wank off to?
Can you do it without thinking of anyone in particular? "
thats why i scour the internet for lookalike soundalike porns  |
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Definitely the person, how they touch you, how they know just what buttons to press, how they smell, I could go on. Only then am I then am i horny most of the time.
I have toys that do it for me in a matter of seconds/minutes if I've just got the odd horn that appears and needs fixing.
Tinder x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or the person?
Before anyone starts banging on about connections and all that jizz, we know that already, that's not what I mean.
Are you horny even when you don't have anyone in your life you like? Do you just get horny then go looking for someone to do "it" with?
Or do you hardly think about sex until someone you crave comes into your life?
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I'm just always horny, and I love sex whether I'm with someone or not. But I won't fuck just anyone, I'm quite picky lol
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By *541Man
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Definitely the person, how they touch you, how they know just what buttons to press, how they smell, I could go on. Only then am I then am i horny most of the time.
I have toys that do it for me in a matter of seconds/minutes if I've just got the odd horn that appears and needs fixing.
Tinder x"
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Couldn't agree more with this I'm exactly the same |
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Everything on the list. Typical greedy Misty
I crave the act. I definitely have a high sex drive. I don’t find that I can scratch the itch with just anyone these days though. In fact id rather go without or “go solo”. Because the act is touch, smell, sound, kiss. Sharing the act with each other. Satisfying the craving together. Sex is at its best when you fuel each other.
I do also crave the person (or people). And the act with the person I crave. And when I get to sate that perfect storm of a craving it’s pure bliss. Electric even. When you’re both craving each other & want the same experiences- it’s intense. |
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