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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"an ex said to me that they used me as a sex toy. The jury is still out whether that's an insult or compliment.
I read that as Sex Tory.
No wonder you were worried.
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that one isn't open to interpretation. |
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"Depends in what context but personally i find it an insult to be referred to inanimate object "
She would appear in my life for sex and then ignore me until she felt that way again. She said she meant it as a compliment but its 50-50 at best. |
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I think you got off lightly there.
An ex said to me:
You are a fucking dickhead, you were never serious about us. That's it I'm done.
(Because I didn't want to move in with her after 3 months)
5 minutes later
Maybe if you fucked me like you used to I wouldn't mind.
15 minutes later.
Are you coming over Friday?
 . At least your ex was consistent. |
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"I think you got off lightly there.
An ex said to me:
You are a fucking dickhead, you were never serious about us. That's it I'm done.
(Because I didn't want to move in with her after 3 months)
5 minutes later
Maybe if you fucked me like you used to I wouldn't mind.
15 minutes later.
Are you coming over Friday?
. At least your ex was consistent."
Bloody hell, dude! Women - what a bunch of psychopaths  |
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"Depends in what context but personally i find it an insult to be referred to inanimate object
She would appear in my life for sex and then ignore me until she felt that way again. She said she meant it as a compliment but it’s 50-50 at best."
That bit of context makes me feel it’s an insult. If you both absolutely want a detached fwb type relationship, great. Then you really are just there for each other’s occasional pleasure.
But to treat a person like that when it’s not what you both want is rather demeaning. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think you got off lightly there.
An ex said to me:
You are a fucking dickhead, you were never serious about us. That's it I'm done.
(Because I didn't want to move in with her after 3 months)
5 minutes later
Maybe if you fucked me like you used to I wouldn't mind.
15 minutes later.
Are you coming over Friday?
. At least your ex was consistent."
Sorry.
I was on blob. |
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"How did you take it?
I laughed. It's a bit stabby but ambiguous enough to deny it is an insult."
Like the guy who said to me a few weeks ago
"I like your style. You must stick out like a sore thumb round here"
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"How did you take it?
I laughed. It's a bit stabby but ambiguous enough to deny it is an insult.
Like the guy who said to me a few weeks ago
"I like your style. You must stick out like a sore thumb round here"
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oh. thanks? |
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"How did you take it?
I laughed. It's a bit stabby but ambiguous enough to deny it is an insult.
Like the guy who said to me a few weeks ago
"I like your style. You must stick out like a sore thumb round here"
oh. thanks?"
I laughed. A woman sat next to me on the bus yesterday and proceeded to give me 'free' advice on losing weight. Then looked at me and said
"If I were you I wouldn't bother" before getting off  .
I laughed at that too |
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"How did you take it?
I laughed. It's a bit stabby but ambiguous enough to deny it is an insult.
Like the guy who said to me a few weeks ago
"I like your style. You must stick out like a sore thumb round here"
oh. thanks?
I laughed. A woman sat next to me on the bus yesterday and proceeded to give me 'free' advice on losing weight. Then looked at me and said
"If I were you I wouldn't bother" before getting off .
I laughed at that too "
The cheek of some people, and you look great. |
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"I think you got off lightly there.
An ex said to me:
You are a fucking dickhead, you were never serious about us. That's it I'm done.
(Because I didn't want to move in with her after 3 months)
5 minutes later
Maybe if you fucked me like you used to I wouldn't mind.
15 minutes later.
Are you coming over Friday?
. At least your ex was consistent.
Sorry.
I was on blob."
You have a sense of humour, I can work with that. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think you got off lightly there.
An ex said to me:
You are a fucking dickhead, you were never serious about us. That's it I'm done.
(Because I didn't want to move in with her after 3 months)
5 minutes later
Maybe if you fucked me like you used to I wouldn't mind.
15 minutes later.
Are you coming over Friday?
. At least your ex was consistent.
Sorry.
I was on blob.
You have a sense of humour, I can work with that. "
We already know I have a sense of humour... I'm friends with you   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the phrases such as "being used" or "toy with me" make you tingle then I guess yes.. complimentary comment.
If she knew they don't then it could feel like being put down, reduced to that.
It's all in your head in the end - depending how you feel about yourself too. 
Let's not focus on her intention too much. It's what you will make of it. She is an ex after all.
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. At least your ex was consistent.
Sorry.
I was on blob.
You have a sense of humour, I can work with that.
We already know I have a sense of humour... I'm friends with you "
You say the sweetest things.  |
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"How did you take it?
I laughed. It's a bit stabby but ambiguous enough to deny it is an insult.
Like the guy who said to me a few weeks ago
"I like your style. You must stick out like a sore thumb round here"
oh. thanks?
I laughed. A woman sat next to me on the bus yesterday and proceeded to give me 'free' advice on losing weight. Then looked at me and said
"If I were you I wouldn't bother" before getting off .
I laughed at that too
The cheek of some people, and you look great."
Thanks
I just found it funny. I love conversation like that on a sort of Victoria Wood comedy way. |
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