Mental connection. I need someone I can not only talk to but bounce back and forth off during a conversation. Don't need to be finishing each others sentences but being on the same wavelength with the same humour is a big positive. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Essential?
Well I guess chemistry isn't really a characteristic.
So I'll say passion. I adore passionate people.
Desirable?
Erm I'll come back to this when I'm not full of nervous energy and wasting time I don't have on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Essential: Sincerity. I want someone to tell me what they want or need from me without expecting me to be a mind reader.
Desirable: A good sense of humour. They can be teasing or sarcastic or dark but me finding them funny would be amazing  |
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Brutal honesty.
Essential: Empathy
Desirable: self-awareness
Otherwise there's either limited connection, drama or both.
There can still be great sex with just empathy. But without self-awareness there'll be drama.
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So he can laugh at being called smartie pants. And then make a witty remark back. 
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