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"How do you deal with it?" Im used to it now just rely on myself | |||
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"How do you deal with it?" Depends on the reason for feeling lonely. I can feel my most lonely in a crowd. I have different coping mechanisms depending on the reason - sometimes I just embrace it by going on long walks, other times I’ll reach out to friends. | |||
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"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X" My sympathies, it's not easy. You've experienced a loss of a constant companion. It's only natural you'll feel their absence. I've been there. | |||
"How do you deal with it?" Back when I was single, my strategy was always to be proactive. I would go out and do things rather than just sitting about at home. Just being around others gives more opportunity for interaction. Cal | |||
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"How do you deal with it?" I don’t. I ignore it now. Thanks for the reminder. 
I fill that void of company with things. Fab, for my social media for conversation . Gardening/plants for some kind of connection. Music for lifting my soul… and other stuff. But it’s the silence and thoughts that will kill my vibe. | |||
"Having The dog is a massive help love lying with him at night chilling watching telly once everything done. A dog is always happy and excited to see you when you come home and it really does make a difference. I literally can’t put into words how much I love my dog haha Absolutely agree with you.... I’ve got 2 dogs and they genuinely are the best company. "  | |||
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"I came to the conclusion that most people are annoying cunts...so being on my own is a plus.. " | |||
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"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X" Sorry for your loss! | |||
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"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X" There is nothing anyone can say or do to fill the void that has opened in your heart. You have my condolences and be assured it will get better. | |||
Work through it, you will come out the other side a better person!. | |||
"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X That's so sad!. There is nothing anyone can say or do to fill the void that has opened in your heart. You have my condolences and be assured it will get better." ....... That's so sad!. That's sounds like grief to me!.take care | |||
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"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X My sympathies, it's not easy. You've experienced a loss of a constant companion. It's only natural you'll feel their absence. I've been there. " Ty x | |||
"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X Sorry for your loss!" Ty x | |||
"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X There is nothing anyone can say or do to fill the void that has opened in your heart. You have my condolences and be assured it will get better." Ty x | |||
"I've never ever felt lonely until this last week! Lost my very loyal dog a week ago today! He was constantly by my side at home! X That's so sad!. There is nothing anyone can say or do to fill the void that has opened in your heart. You have my condolences and be assured it will get better........ That's so sad!. That's sounds like grief to me!.take care " Ty x | |||
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"Invest in yourself, loneliness is a craving for company yet you cannot explain it, so put some time into you, discover who you are, read books, exercise that brain, learn new skills, go for walks in the countryside, far too much negativity about being on your own, they will tell you that you are lonely, they will tell you that you need to be with someone, horseshit is what that theory is, you are fully able to cope with being on your own, you just don’t know it, good luck OP go out and discover you, failing that ….. have a good wank and get to the pub, there’s people there " | |||
"Never feel it. I like peace and quiet with no drama so comfortable in my own company." Same here I close the door and that’s me..totally chilled | |||
"Genuinely didn’t expect so many replies. Thank you everyone " I think this is testimony that you’re not alone, but the feeling of loneliness is something you need to work through and determine the cause. My inbox is always open for people who are struggling and need someone to listen | |||
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I think I was probably the least lonely when I was in church community in my twenties focussed on fixing the world! | |||
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