Many profiles say they love kink, or looking for kink or into kink but mean massively different things.
Now I definitely love kink in many forms after sharing experiences with different partners in the past but what is your idea of kink? |
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"Now is wearing ladies underwear a kink "
I think it's a personal opinion but if you find it to be a kink and something that works for you then I think it is.
So many different kink out there from the almost unnoticed to the extreme, but the world would be boring if we were all the same.
It all makes the world more fun |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I’ve always wondered why people write things like ‘looking for kink’ or ‘love kink’ because it’s so vague…there are loads of interests that would be considered as kinks and the range is huge, so no one can possibly enjoy every possible kink. Saying you like kink doesn’t help the reader decide whether your interests match at all. It’s like saying ‘I like sport’…no one likes every sport so how do i know whether someone claiming to like sport actually likes the same sports as I do. I love football but hate cricket so I obviously wouldn’t match with someone who loves cricket and hates football, but we could both say we like sport. |
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Intimate play that involves something different, from the societal norm.
There are lots and lots of umbrella terms that cover a whole range of practises, impact play, sensation play, etc etc etc the list goes on  |
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I love kink. Years ago I was into the bdsm scene and did a number of things. I'm still more that side of things.
Kinks are incredibly subjective because someone might think say.. spanking is abusive and some might call it tame.
Liking to sniff underwear might be edgy for one person and won't phase another.
I love bondage, master/sub dynamics all the power play and trust that goes into it |
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It's an interesting conundrum. For some people, even oral sex is a bit too kinky. Different people draw the lines at different places. For me, non-kinky sex is kissing, oral and fucking with mouth, boobs and cock/pussy. Anything outside that can be considered kinky. |
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Reminds me of the scene from the US office
Michael - Jan has this schoolgirl fantasy
Karen - It's a pretty common one
Michael - I just... I feel uncomfortable wearing the dress
Pam - (Shocked look) |
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What is kink, for some it’s the feather and others the whole chicken
So many different “kinks” out there from what is considered fairly normal to some pretty extreme acts
I guess it is all down to the individual AND consent between all those involved
Stay kinky  |
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Talking realistically, what is a kink? Things we partake in on multiple occasions.
I fucking love having my nipples sucked really gets me off. Anal is a big one for me, always been the same, could be the dominant role. Golden showers.
Apart from this, there isn't much I havent actually done in fairness. 4 person gang bang sounds good. |
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"Many profiles say they love kink, or looking for kink or into kink but mean massively different things.
Now I definitely love kink in many forms after sharing experiences with different partners in the past but what is your idea of kink?"
Dressing as a guy and having sex with a woman on a bed, in the missionary position, with the lights out and cuddling her to sleep afterwards  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Reminds me of the scene from the US office
Michael - Jan has this schoolgirl fantasy
Karen - It's a pretty common one
Michael - I just... I feel uncomfortable wearing the dress
Pam - (Shocked look)"
Haha, Michael and Jan definitely love a bit of kink (well Jan loves it, I’m not sure Michael does haha)…when he says that she likes to record them having sex and watch it back afterwards to tell him what he’s doing wrong and what he needs to do to improve haha… |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Kink is a useful description to simply mean, not vanilla. It's going to mean different things to different people but it's a starting point to talk about what you want to do in the bedroom. "
If kink means not vanilla, what do you class as vanilla…in some cultures/communities sex outside of marriage could be considered non vanilla… |
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Now I definitely love kink in many forms after sharing experiences with different partners in the past but what is your idea of kink?"
Something kinky. ..
So what’s your kink/kinks op. And I’ll tell you mine. |
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"Kink is a useful description to simply mean, not vanilla. It's going to mean different things to different people but it's a starting point to talk about what you want to do in the bedroom.
If kink means not vanilla, what do you class as vanilla…in some cultures/communities sex outside of marriage could be considered non vanilla…"
Different cultures and communities agree on any common ground is not a swamp I want to swim in. |
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"And a Sadist and rigger, I have many interests in kink, but rope is definitely my primary "
What a superb profile!
I get where you're at!
My best description of "kink" at the present time would be like someone wanting to Scuba dive across the Atlantic Ocean to, "check out the marine life!" |
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