Question for the dudes (ladies may have some input but I'm just not sure)
Does anybody else find it just a bit bizarre when other men check your profile out the minute your verification has been published by a woman?
I've verified somebody recently and I've been inundated with all different straight guys stalking my profile and I just find it weird. What do they actually get from doing this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh no they all want a gander, like really how good was he, was a steamy breathless sheet clenching hour or two squirts and done, fab is the new trust pilot, you heard it here first |
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It's not me publishing it's the woman I'm currently seeing. It's not so much bothering me, I just find it a bit odd that's all.
I'm always just myself when talking to people on here and I've never had any problems meeting anybody. |
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No, it's expected behaviour and predictable. It doesn't bother me and it's not weird. It's just a human condition.
There's always a flurry and crescendo of views on my profile when some of the author's of my verification upload a new photo. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
People look at other people all the time, for a wide variety of reasons.
I just did, not because of any verification but just out of idle curiosity.
You'd never know though as we browse in stealth mode.
I've looked at profile off the back of many a forum post. I've looked because of something posted in updates. I've looked because we've been browsing profiles. Many people browse the profiles of people they'd have no interest in just to look for hints and tips on how to potentially improve their own profile - this is pretty common with men especially.
Looks mean nothing. The easiest way not to be bothered by it is to block single men from messaging you. Then they won't show in your 'who's looked at me' list.
They'll still look of course, but you won't know so it's all good. 
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"Whats your secret in meeting women on here?"
There are no secrets my friend. Just always be your self and don't put on any false bravado.
If people don't like you for being you then they're really not worth your time and you won't be wasting either parties time. |
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"It's not weird at all. Women do it too!! It's just most of us do it in stealth mode  "
So I guess it's fairly normal then?
I really wasn't being horrible towards any guys, I just simply found it a bit odd, that's all really. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Not really. The women I’ve met or am into , im quite nosey about who else they are fucking , making sure they don’t drop standard etc
Seriously - nothing is weird on here & I never check who has looked at me but I’ve had this thing when I’ve verified women , guys I don’t even know contacted them warning them off me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whats your secret in meeting women on here?
There are no secrets my friend. Just always be your self and don't put on any false bravado.
If people don't like you for being you then they're really not worth your time and you won't be wasting either parties time."
Ok thanks for the advise |
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"Not really. The women I’ve met or am into , im quite nosey about who else they are fucking , making sure they don’t drop standard etc
Seriously - nothing is weird on here & I never check who has looked at me but I’ve had this thing when I’ve verified women , guys I don’t even know contacted them warning them off me "
Now that's a level up on the weirdness scale mate  |
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"Checking out the competition "
It's not a competition though lol you either hit it off with somebody upon first speaking to them or you don't. Not everybody clicks with everybody unfortunately and the site would be a better place it people realised that |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Not really. The women I’ve met or am into , im quite nosey about who else they are fucking , making sure they don’t drop standard etc
Seriously - nothing is weird on here & I never check who has looked at me but I’ve had this thing when I’ve verified women , guys I don’t even know contacted them warning them off me
Now that's a level up on the weirdness scale mate "
It was , and they screen shot and sent me the messages too so I know exactly who it was and what they said |
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"Not really. The women I’ve met or am into , im quite nosey about who else they are fucking , making sure they don’t drop standard etc
Seriously - nothing is weird on here & I never check who has looked at me but I’ve had this thing when I’ve verified women , guys I don’t even know contacted them warning them off me
Now that's a level up on the weirdness scale mate
It was , and they screen shot and sent me the messages too so I know exactly who it was and what they said "
That's got to be one the strangest things I've heard of on here lol it's essentially slanderous! |
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"I’ve been messaged by guys claiming to be friends with people who’s veris I’ve published, not been true yet though  "
This exact same thing happened today!
God you have to love the humans on this site haha!! |
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