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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages |
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
Funny I've met ppl so I'd say maybe check your approach of your not getting meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
What stuff can you give them?
Cock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes people do meet but there are a lot of people that don’t and a large number of fakes. We insists on a social soon after contact. If excuses start to emerge then they are gone straight away. |
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"Just because you think that you can give them what they want, it doesn't mean they want what you're offering, it doesn't quite work like that."
Confused male that always wants what I can't have, desires what is not acceptable in polite society and where was i when i started this message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
Yeah loads.
Easy innit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
I've been asking myself the same question a lot lately. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"It's a whole new world on here for couples and ladies. I struggle with getting a message. Where as single ladies or couples they get like hundreds a day. "
And 99 % of them go straight in the bin  |
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
I almost always reply to people who have put effort into a message but will only arrange a social meet once we’ve chatted a while - my free time is too precious to waste meeting someone I’m just compatible with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can take us a good week or 2 to reply sometimes....
Even if you meet what we are after you may not be our type... etc
Many reasons for not meeting up.... women and couples have a massive choice out there vs you guys. Stand out!
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages
What stuff can you give them?
Cock? "
Surely it's cake!  |
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I always read the senders profile before considering my reply. If that profile has shoddy unimaginative photos (if any at all), a couple of generic sentences, I wouldn't consider engaging in conversation nor meeting. |
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"Yes people do meet but there are a lot of people that don’t and a large number of fakes. We insists on a social soon after contact. If excuses start to emerge then they are gone straight away."
Spot on and sadly worse than it used to be on here... |
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We have had lots of great meetings off fab and made many long time friendships.
The problem is single guys don't bother to read profiles fully then keep mailing asking questions that are clear on our profile so after a while it's just frustrating as even when mentioning they need to read the profile they still don't bother! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages
What stuff can you give them?
Cock?
Surely it's cake! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men massively outnumber women.and couples on fab.
You're only going to appeal to a small handful of people and you'll likely only fancy less than half of those - abd then you'll find most of them live too far away.
Just like real life.
Nobody owes you a reply. People of fab use the site for what THEY want, not what you think they should be on here for, so you might as well drop the entitled attitude
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Someone messages I check their profile, is there any attraction, do they seem like my kind of person, if I can't see either or the answer is a no then no reply.
Maybe worth looking into your approach from another angle.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet men quite regularly.
They’ve always put a little effort into their profiles with a few nice pictures, some social verifications and an interesting bio.
Can’t understand why you’re not getting any meets did you say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know you can give them what they want? Someone could tick every single box for me but if I’m not attracted to their face it’s not going anywhere so then they wouldn’t be able to give me what I want 
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We very occasionally meet single guys. We've recieved a few thousand messages in almost a year and out of those, we've actually met about fifteen guys and one couple.
We'd happily meet 2-3 guys a week but the majority are not physically attractive to us, semi-literate, sleazy or think dick pics are the first thing people want to see. The reality for us is the amount of single guys is high but the quality is generally low. It's not a true reflection of the Vanilla world. There's a lot of guys that have had no success in other areas and resort to Fab because they think that women who swing will sleep with anyone.
Couples tend to be bigger timewasters than single guys. We've met one lovely couple that we've built a close relationship with and play with regularly but a large percentage of couples we encounter we have to say 'no thanks' to due something we've noticed is very common in the swinging world. It's the 'she's hot, he's not' couples. Couples where the woman is very attractive but the guy is often much older and/or punching way above his weight. There are very few couples that we both find attractive and those tend to be timewasters a lot of the time.
We've found clubs to be exactly the same and we've never played with anyone at a club.
Recently we've been to a few events in London which are small parties. We've met loads of single guys and couples that we both are attracted to and have played with. We've been involved with large group play and gang bangs. It's been great to finally find our scene. We've been surprised that everyone we talk to at these events has never heard of Fab.
We will continue to use Fab to meet the occasional guy but we've given up trying to find couples on here. We've found a scene where we can regular meet couples and singles so we're very happy. |
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We meet when we can !! and reason we only meet up on Saturdays is because we are then 99.9% sure we can/will and want to meet up ? but seems some do arrange multipe meets and take up the best offer ( easy sex etc etc ) and the reason most don't get meets are that they have advanced from the hormonally ravaged teenage years ?? and despite way to many posts/hints and tips ?? most do still insist on displaying their tackle/nether regions front and centre and even if you are after just sex ?? does the preclude anyone having the most basic of skills sets ? like social skills above the level of grunting and pointing ?? or even manners/repect or assuming just because many many many moons ago someone quite liked being called something or even something you did sexually ? that then means 99.9% will aswell ??? or perhaps acting and behaving like a adult is to much of a struggle for some ?? ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
What, what did you offer to give them?  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
If they don't message back how are they wasting your time? K |
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
People not replying to you is the opposite of time wasting. I don't talk to anyone on here anymore because when I did not one single meet came out of it , I had put time and energy into chatting and discussing meets so that was time wasted.
They are doing you a favour by not replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages
People not replying to you is the opposite of time wasting. I don't talk to anyone on here anymore because when I did not one single meet came out of it , I had put time and energy into chatting and discussing meets so that was time wasted.
They are doing you a favour by not replying "
Well that sucks! |
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages
People not replying to you is the opposite of time wasting. I don't talk to anyone on here anymore because when I did not one single meet came out of it , I had put time and energy into chatting and discussing meets so that was time wasted.
They are doing you a favour by not replying "
Find it hard to believe you just chatted and not get a meet out of it, especially on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
Yet you had a meet yesterday according to your profile.! |
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Maybe you are wasting your own time writing a message to someone.
First thing we do when we get a message is look at the profile and pics - if these are bland and no effort made then we’ll delete the message.
No one wastes your time on here - you waste your own.
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually message back/meet on here or are 99% of people just time wasters? Most people are asking for stuff you can give them then just not replying to messages "
Surely based on your maths, at least 1% of people are meating? |
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