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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they have every right to have standards and preferences.
I think the question you should really be asking is why you have such a feeling of entitlement - because that's what you're demonstrating by starting this thread |
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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago
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Are woman picky or are "most" men just without standards some guys will message everyone and straight up asking for sex not a clue what people look like they're interacting with besides there body parts, to many desperate men here and to the others who ain't keep your standards up  |
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Because you'd better be pretty fucking special to supplant my novel.
Given the whole "god give me the serenity of a mediocre white man"... Mediocrity probably looks pretty special to most guys, and therefore they're shocked when I'm unimpressed and would rather read? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Because they have every right to have standards and preferences.
I think the question you should really be asking is why you have such a feeling of entitlement - because that's what you're demonstrating by starting this thread"
Because I'm a fucking legend that's why  |
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Dear OP,
I think you very much answered your own question. When you elucidate with sub-par descriptives such as — "penis that works", "pretty ok" and "last a while"...it won't have suitable candidates flocking to your gingerbread house.
Add more pomp (and more pomposity) to your 'selling' technique..
· an exceptional penis
· masculine and majestic
· unquestionable endurance!
There is that possibility that you're, er, umm, ugly.   |
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"I mean I have a penis that works, it's a pretty ok size and I can last a while?
I can even wear a paper work with little holes in you know?"
Could you define “can last a while” (asking for a friend  ) |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I mean I have a penis that works, it's a pretty ok size and I can last a while?
I can even wear a paper work with little holes in you know?
You're kidding right, OP?  "
I forget people think I'm not |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Dear OP,
I think you very much answered your own question. When you elucidate with sub-par descriptives such as — "penis that works", "pretty ok" and "last a while"...it won't have suitable candidates flocking to your gingerbread house.
Add more pomp (and more pomposity) to your 'selling' technique..
· an exceptional penis
· masculine and majestic
· unquestionable endurance!
There is that possibility that you're, er, umm, ugly. "
Ah crap I was enjoying that until the last bit |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I mean I have a penis that works, it's a pretty ok size and I can last a while?
I can even wear a paper work with little holes in you know?
Could you define “can last a while” (asking for a friend )"
Suppose there's only one way to know for sure? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I’m not picky at all…..if you can put a condom on, your welcome in my lady area!!! Hahahaha
In all seriousness, it’s not picky, it’s just what turns you on! "
Ah crap I never was very good at that part. So slimy! |
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"Dear OP,
I think you very much answered your own question. When you elucidate with sub-par descriptives such as — "penis that works", "pretty ok" and "last a while"...it won't have suitable candidates flocking to your gingerbread house.
Add more pomp (and more pomposity) to your 'selling' technique..
· an exceptional penis
· masculine and majestic
· unquestionable endurance!
There is that possibility that you're, er, umm, ugly. "
Ooh, harsh  |
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Urgh Brucey you've caught me with this one. I hate the concepts of "being picky" "having standards" "being fussy" etc etc. To me, every single one implies you're judging people and whether you deem them worthy of your time and attention. Which, as I write it, I realise is exactly how fab works...
I want my fab utopia where people just have sex with other people they want to have sex with and nobody gets snarky about it. Sort it out, OP?
Mrs TMN x |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Urgh Brucey you've caught me with this one. I hate the concepts of "being picky" "having standards" "being fussy" etc etc. To me, every single one implies you're judging people and whether you deem them worthy of your time and attention. Which, as I write it, I realise is exactly how fab works...
I want my fab utopia where people just have sex with other people they want to have sex with and nobody gets snarky about it. Sort it out, OP?
Mrs TMN x"
Sounds like something a spot of the ol' sex could solve to me? |
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"Urgh Brucey you've caught me with this one. I hate the concepts of "being picky" "having standards" "being fussy" etc etc. To me, every single one implies you're judging people and whether you deem them worthy of your time and attention. Which, as I write it, I realise is exactly how fab works...
I want my fab utopia where people just have sex with other people they want to have sex with and nobody gets snarky about it. Sort it out, OP?
Mrs TMN x
Sounds like something a spot of the ol' sex could solve to me? "
Of course it does |
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"Women are not picky, they just won’t shag anything with a pulse.
The mr
But you're a total bellend and you've done good? (MEANT WITH LOVE IM A FAN) "
Yeah but only because bellends attract twats, luckily enough for me she’s a good twat.
The mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do feel like some people should just hire someone on here, they act so desperately in the messages. They actually think because women are here that we are at their beck and call when they want a shag I've even been told to wear a blindfold so I didn't have to look at him -haha. Attraction is important and I don't think it's anymore complicated than that x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Not all of them are.
I mean.....Fox married me after all. 
Anything is possibly if you dream big enough Brucey!
A
Yeah this is one for Netflixes Unsolved Mysteries this one"
More chance of winning the lottery than finding the answer to that conundrum to be honest!
You'd need Poirot, Miss Marple, Taggart, the Scooby Doo gang and the A Team on board just to get close. 
A |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I do feel like some people should just hire someone on here, they act so desperately in the messages. They actually think because women are here that we are at their beck and call when they want a shag I've even been told to wear a blindfold so I didn't have to look at him -haha. Attraction is important and I don't think it's anymore complicated than that x"
Cost of living crisis! |
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"I mean I have a penis that works, it's a pretty ok size and I can last a while?
I can even wear a paper work with little holes in you know?
You're kidding right, OP?
I forget people think I'm not "
Oops, I didn't see who it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think more men should be picky tbh.
Deffo.. i have no pics at all and still get guys wanting to meet
But but you're a hidden gem, you say so yourself."
Do you believe everything you read on the web |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there are trash men on here and why not have standards? Would you meet and have sex with someone you didn't find attractive in any way shape or form? "
Er....
Yes? |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I think more men should be picky tbh.
Deffo.. i have no pics at all and still get guys wanting to meet
But but you're a hidden gem, you say so yourself.
Do you believe everything you read on the web "
Back to trading standards then. This is why fab needs to link up with tripadvisor. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Because you'd better be pretty fucking special to supplant my novel.
Given the whole "god give me the serenity of a mediocre white man"... Mediocrity probably looks pretty special to most guys, and therefore they're shocked when I'm unimpressed and would rather read?"
Aww she seems nice x |
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"Because you'd better be pretty fucking special to supplant my novel.
Given the whole "god give me the serenity of a mediocre white man"... Mediocrity probably looks pretty special to most guys, and therefore they're shocked when I'm unimpressed and would rather read?
Aww she seems nice x"
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Because there are trash men on here and why not have standards? Would you meet and have sex with someone you didn't find attractive in any way shape or form?
Er....
Yes? "
people have no imagination at all, you could always like pretend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because we shouldn't have to drop our knickers to every man who wants a shag lol
Some of us actually want meets that we like and share intrests with.
Others just see a vagina or boobs and instantly want a meet LOL |
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"I think more men should be picky tbh. "
I would want them to be. the any hole is the goal brigade are not exactly flattering.
also for me the not sex parts are just as important to me so I have to really like you and for you to really like me. otherwise I'll stick with my vibrator and my satisfyer thank you very much. |
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"Are woman picky or are "most" men just without standards some guys will message everyone and straight up asking for sex not a clue what people look like they're interacting with besides there body parts, to many desperate men here and to the others who ain't keep your standards up "
Exactly a guy who will fuck anything with a pulse gets no respect from me.
Seriously can't be physically attracted to every female going that's a dangerous game to play there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know guys can be picky to right? I don't think on here it's about woman being picky as such, it's all a numbers game.
If we outnumbered the woman in here, would you go for anything or would you go for who you are attracted to the most?
I personally only send winks and messages to woman and couples I think I might relate to on some level based on their profile and who I find attractive. I see lots on here that I would happily have fun with, but, I'm fussy  |
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"Not all of them are.
I mean.....Fox married me after all.
Anything is possibly if you dream big enough Brucey!
A"
Are you sure it wasn’t the opposite way around? With that huge cock and that women make the decisions! |
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ...."
I'll skip both, but if I'm looking for anything here, it's people to get my rocks off then fuck off out of my house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
100000000% NOT true
You want random dudes to spunk on your tits?"
If it's that or a husband, then yes, I'll take that. |
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
100000000% NOT true
You want random dudes to spunk on your tits?
If it's that or a husband, then yes, I'll take that. "
It's a fair offer. How about your arse?
I'm a cheeky fucker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
100000000% NOT true
You want random dudes to spunk on your tits?
If it's that or a husband, then yes, I'll take that.
It's a fair offer. How about your arse?
I'm a cheeky fucker."
Oh so my boobs aren't good enough??
Block incoming..
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"I mean I have a penis that works, it's a pretty ok size and I can last a while?
I can even wear a paper work with little holes in you know?
Could you define “can last a while” (asking for a friend )
Suppose there's only one way to know for sure?"
I expect this is code for not long enough *sigh*  |
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Change what you're looking for to men... See the kind of profiles and messages we're subjected to, and then see how you feel.
I'm picky because I don't tolerate BS, and some (not all) men are full of it. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Because it's not always about what you may have but the attachments you could have a lovely penis but a face like it's been dragged through a bush "
Even men with strange ole faces can become attractive when you meet them face to face.
It's getting to meet that's the problem. If your face alone won't do it, try using your words or wit. |
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
100000000% NOT true
You want random dudes to spunk on your tits?
If it's that or a husband, then yes, I'll take that.
It's a fair offer. How about your arse?
I'm a cheeky fucker.
Oh so my boobs aren't good enough??
Block incoming..
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Damn you're a tough negotiator.
I'll bring Hula Hoops. |
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I would hazard a guess that the men far outweigh the ladies, so it is ladies choice on who gets picked and who doesn't.
Not to mention those men that ruin it for evetyone else, you know the ones with the fragile ego. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are picky because they can be. Statistically 90% of women are looking for 10% of men in the real world, on fab that’s more like 99% looking for 1%.
There are so many guys that the choice is endless. We actually messaged the guys first that we have met and they were shocked that we contacted them. |
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"I think more men should be picky tbh. "
I am incredibly picky - i point blank refuse to shag anyone that would have me on the principle that they have low standards!!
Working so far - I haven’t shagged anyone… thatll show them!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It like going to a restaurant and choosing from the menu women can choose the best like a designer handbag doesn’t mean they make the right choice though. Gives them the chance to have fun with guys they would not get the opportunity with outside fab. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
100000000% NOT true
You want random dudes to spunk on your tits?
If it's that or a husband, then yes, I'll take that.
It's a fair offer. How about your arse?
I'm a cheeky fucker.
Oh so my boobs aren't good enough??
Block incoming..
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
But I've already got a husband
tits it is by default"
Does that mean I get tits? Or more spunk on my tits? |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
But I've already got a husband
tits it is by default
Does that mean I get tits? Or more spunk on my tits? "
Spunk on your tits. You have a husband and tits. It would be a push to get you an additional husband and where would you put more tits it were possible? |
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"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
But I've already got a husband
tits it is by default
Does that mean I get tits? Or more spunk on my tits?
Spunk on your tits. You have a husband and tits. It would be a push to get you an additional husband and where would you put more tits it were possible?"
So long as it's not spunk on my husband, I'm not that way inclined |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Because they are really looking for a husband ... not some random dude who wants to spunk on her tits ....
But I've already got a husband
tits it is by default
Does that mean I get tits? Or more spunk on my tits?
Spunk on your tits. You have a husband and tits. It would be a push to get you an additional husband and where would you put more tits it were possible?
So long as it's not spunk on my husband, I'm not that way inclined "
I didn't consider that combination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It like going to a restaurant and choosing from the menu women can choose the best like a designer handbag doesn’t mean they make the right choice though. Gives them the chance to have fun with guys they would not get the opportunity with outside fab. "
Omg yes!! Middle aged men in sexless marriages who think leaving the light on is super kinky and 4 minutes of humping is porn star stamina. Mmmmmmmm |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It like going to a restaurant and choosing from the menu women can choose the best like a designer handbag doesn’t mean they make the right choice though. Gives them the chance to have fun with guys they would not get the opportunity with outside fab.
Omg yes!! Middle aged men in sexless marriages who think leaving the light on is super kinky and 4 minutes of humping is porn star stamina. Mmmmmmmm"
I resemble that remark! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It like going to a restaurant and choosing from the menu women can choose the best like a designer handbag doesn’t mean they make the right choice though. Gives them the chance to have fun with guys they would not get the opportunity with outside fab.
Omg yes!! Middle aged men in sexless marriages who think leaving the light on is super kinky and 4 minutes of humping is porn star stamina. Mmmmmmmm
I resemble that remark! "
Fuck now? |
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"Because they have a lot of choice on here, it’s not like the real world. Men will sleep with women they are not attracted to this means women on here can punch above their weight "
Ahhhhhhh someone had to say it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because men allow them to be
When you outnumber women 1000 to 1 and most women have 100s of messages, they can be as picky as they want
It’s not even a bad thing, it’s just how a market reacts to an abundance of supply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because why would they sleep with a troll that they don't find attractive? If you have the opportunity to pick 9s and 10s they why wouldn't you?? Good on them I say."
Am I the troll or the 9?  |
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