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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The hardest part is crossing that threshold.
Once you’re in it becomes a lot easier.
Just be civil and respectful and try and strike up ‘normal’ conversations with the people there and you’ll be ok.
Try not to be a wallflower, however shy or awkward you might feel at first, if you don’t engage with people then it’s less likely they’ll want to let you join them in more intimate moments later. Most club goers are decent people and will be polite and respectful to you if you are to them.
Of course none of us will appeal to everyone and you might not be for them, but chances are you will eventually find a match.
Go on, overcome your fears, and head along  |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
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"Want to go to Adam and eves but very nervous what to expect will people look at me strange lol "
Why do you want to go to a club?
What are your expectations?
If you are shy, what is it that would make a good night/time for you?
While clubs can be fun, it all depends what you are looking for as to if they would be a good for you. |
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Honestly, you should go if you want to. There are all kinds of people who attend clubs. Nerves are a good thing. 
Jo.Xx 
