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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Consider yourself a swinger?
'Typical' or otherwise.
Even though we're on here and we've had a couple of meets etc, I don't actually count myself as a swinger!
Not sure what F classes herself as mind as I've yet to ask her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once informed that singles aren't allowed to call themselves swingers! If you aren't in a couple, and therefore a swap situation apparently it doesn't count! Lol. So I guess that makes me more loose woman than swinger then!  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No. I'm not a swinger. I don't have meets. I'm definitely ethically non monogamous, content with being poly currently.
A swinger though? No. I'm more of an occasional hedonistic, kinky lotus eater.
And I don't know why I deleted this. Maybe shame at not being swinger enough to be on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was once informed that singles aren't allowed to call themselves swingers! If you aren't in a couple, and therefore a swap situation apparently it doesn't count! Lol. So I guess that makes me more loose woman than swinger then! "
That's just another's opinion, what is your personal opinion? |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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I don't think I am.
I don't go to socials and I haven't met anyone in a very long time.
I think I'm just a sad old fart who likes to dress up and roleplay as a fem. And I like chatting and flirting. Definitely not a swinger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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urmmm.. i enjoy making friends and sharing incredibley filthy nights with the men, women and couples i connect with.
but as a single female, im technically not allowed to call myself a swinger.
soooo... a social, occasionally-naked, butterfly?  Px  |
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If I’m a single bloke and not allowed to call myself a swinger, what am I when I play with a couple of swingers? Surely that is the essence of swinging? Or is it the preserve of couples? Doesn’t feel very inclusive from a community that is supposed to embrace diversity.
Not that I really care. I am here for me. When I want to (and when they let me), I see single women and couples for special grown ups hugs. I couldn’t really give a monkey’s whether that is swinging or not, although I don’t describe my lifestyle as being on a ‘fuck site’ or ‘connections site’ etc.
Quick drink. Bit of a laugh. Pop knob in fanny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello. My names Woody, I’m a swinger. …
Narrator ( shakes head) -“ just listen to him please!
.. I’m not, I maybe, but I’m not suited to a staying site. I lean towards fantasies of group sex for some reason, I can’t explain why. It’s just a feeling.
So at least being around ‘swingers’ I have people around me that ‘get it’ or at least , get me a bit better than someone who doesn’t.
But if I was a true swinger, I’d be awesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Consider yourself a swinger?
'Typical' or otherwise.
Even though we're on here and we've had a couple of meets etc, I don't actually count myself as a swinger!
Not sure what F classes herself as mind as I've yet to ask her "
Nope ,l'm not and don't have any intention of being one , l know there will be those that think l shouldn't be here because lm not a Swinger but there are loads of single people here that just love great sex and fair play to them , they're here for sex , swinger's or not and l've met single ladies who had a brilliant attitude and appetite and were not swingers either. |
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Buggered if I know what I am. However I have made some good friends and interesting acquaintances through this general "scene". And as someone that really does not fit into any of the categories for "normal" dating, whatever this is I think that it is my only way of hopefully finding sexual friendships. |
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A swinger is defined in so many ways.
We wouldn’t say we are swingers as whilst we meet others for sex, we don’t do it regularly and we don’t go to clubs and play in big groups.
We like to meet people who are open minded and enjoy fun in and out of the bedroom. We are very hedonistic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinger is just a label. We engage in the general ethos of swinging so yes we could be classed as swingers if we were eager to put a name to our lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was once informed that singles aren't allowed to call themselves swingers! If you aren't in a couple, and therefore a swap situation apparently it doesn't count! Lol. So I guess that makes me more loose woman than swinger then! "
No you're like me a Swingle
My husband and I are both here with single profiles. Too many like to say that you can't be this or that or shouldn't be here. You do what makes you happy and what works best for you. Let them off to grumble about something else. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think a period of six months, over 40 years ago, of being the plaything of a bifem couple counts now. Especially as my virginity may have grown back……  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I'd say yes, but probably in the 'otherwise' category rather than what some feel is the traditional sense.
We met on here and both of us had been meeting both singles and couples via our own profiles. We then started this one and met singles and couples together, visited swingers clubs, did socials and went to private parties.
Life then got in the way, we got married and we took some downtime. About 5-6 years in fact.
When we restarted meeting it was with a different dynamic. I've not had full sex with anyone else since we married (have no interest in that at present and no idea if that will ever change or not), so we're a 50/50 soft/full swap couple as Fox does. We're also exploring the idea of meeting a couple of carefully chosen guys, together initially but with the potential for her to then meet them alone. She's already been chatting to a couple and we've discussed at length how we'd like to see things progress. Who knows what that will bring to the table?
So we'd then become a 50/50 soft/full swap, club going couple, meeting together at times and one of us solo at others. So sometimes three people involved, sometimes more and sometimes just two. And as we all know many people say two people meeting for sex isn't swinging.
I've never accepted the 'singles can't be swingers' notion. Why not? Surely couples just meeting couples and full swapping is just wife swapping?
Swinging can incorporate any dynamic people choose, whether a couple or a single. It's not black and white, can be fluid and doesn't have to adhere to anyone's definition.
If people want to call themselves swingers then that's fine. If not? Also fine.
It's just another label after all.
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I've never called myself a swinger and from what I have seen neither do many others on here.
I have very specific requirements before getting naked with anyone so I'm not interested in sex for the sake of it and have no real interest in networking or the social side.
The last time I said this I was challenged and asked why I'm even on this site if I don't call myself a swinger and my answer was that I'm here because I can be. |
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We consider ourselves as part of the swingers community due to the meets we've had, sexual and social. But we don't consider ourselves as actual swingers par se. Just a normal couple with a secret. |
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