"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype  "
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I don't. I did used to crush on people. I'm passed that now.
There are those I feel and think "yeah we would get one" but nah, there is no secret longing of a crush to make it happen.
99% of the time a crush is one sided, and that includes letting the crush know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t. Don’t.
Don’t believe the hype.
So have you met them or that’s just your take "
I don’t kiss and tell. But I think if I did meet someone I was crushing on they would be  |
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"I don't. I did used to crush on people. I'm passed that now.
There are those I feel and think "yeah we would get one" but nah, there is no secret longing of a crush to make it happen.
99% of the time a crush is one sided, and that includes letting the crush know. "
I get that and it’s probably something we all just let go of after the longing |
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype "
I had a guy I had on the hot list for quite some time was very hesitant to message him as he only had one picture for months.
There was very little to read on his profile too so I felt he was possibly a catfish
After he uploaded a new picture I thought message him see how it goes. We exchanged numbers did a whats app video call
The day we were meant to meet he had a family emergency I didn't once think he was lying as he spoke about issues within his family he was having
It was only until weeks on no effort of rescheduling took place so I decided he was a time waster and proved I should of just left him to admire on the hotlist.
Telling me about my age and I feel entitled :/ to me it just screamed he has a lot of growing up to do still |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not going to talk about the past.
Right now?
Yes, I do. It's rather daft but I'm loving this feeling. I'm being sensible though but that urge to embrace it like a child in a sweet shop is strong. :D
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes & Yes. 
I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes & Yes.
I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.
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Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes & Yes.
I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.
Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.
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They’re silly because you can’t help it! And those things you can’t help or control is just like the universe saying! ‘you need this right now!’
People help too, being themselves and true from start to finish. Damn that’s sexy when all you’ve seen is someone gorgeous.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few on my hotlist that I would like to get to know better as 1) their profile reads pretty good 2) they have a few similar interests 3) their swinging dynamic fits with mine 4) they look pretty hot!
But…I would need that connection first so maybe a video call or, even better, a coffee date or, even better, I bump into them at Afterdark when I finally get around to going.
Btw. Haven’t looked at every profile here so if you are a bi couple living reasonably close to me and you like my profile, get in touch.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes & Yes.
I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.
Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.
They’re silly because you can’t help it! And those things you can’t help or control is just like the universe saying! ‘you need this right now!’
People help too, being themselves and true from start to finish. Damn that’s sexy when all you’ve seen is someone gorgeous.
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Oh Woody! Yes. So much yes to all of this. Bar the universe telling me it's what I need right now. I mean, I do need it.
And yes. Being themselves and true from day dot is just dreamy. The daft thing is certain song lyrics remind me of how I'm feeling. Oh well! It's going to be a good, maybe cruel summer. |
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype "
This is a fear of mine. Whilst the idea of someone having a crush on me sounds great ,the reality that I may not live up to their vision of me and leave them disappointed is not so fun.
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype
This is a fear of mine. Whilst the idea of someone having a crush on me sounds great ,the reality that I may not live up to their vision of me and leave them disappointed is not so fun.
Em x"
I reckon you scrub up well |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
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I've met three.... I've been on Fab for years; don't judge me!
Two absolutely lived up to expectations, on more than one occasion
One was quite rude and arrogant. He is a beautiful lookng man, and I should have known better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently zero crushes.
Should we start a thread for you?
“”Mildly interested in someone…possibly? “”
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Or person that pisses me off the least?
Actually wait, I'd struggle with that one aswell. |
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"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed 
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal."
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed "
Apologies! I didn't read the rest of the thread, was so eager to post my crushing bollocks that I skipped all bar the OP and posts that follow mine. Sorry! And thank you, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently zero crushes.
Should we start a thread for you?
“”Mildly interested in someone…possibly? “”
Or person that pisses me off the least?
Actually wait, I'd struggle with that one aswell. "
…… bad day in work huh? |
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"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed
Apologies! I didn't read the rest of the thread, was so eager to post my crushing bollocks that I skipped all bar the OP and posts that follow mine. Sorry! And thank you, x"
Oof!!!!! Too late, emotionally crushed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve a couple of crushes on here, and I’ve met a couple in the past, had a great time chatting previously to meeting them and had a great time meeting them and afterwards too. So I’d happily enjoy meeting my crushes again given the chance.
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed "
Crushed by your crush |
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype "
Yes to crushes and would dearly love to meet, but alas have yet to do so, sadly. Xx |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype "
Yes I did.
Worked so well I married her.
A |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed
Crushed by your crush"
Thanks _oggone, didn't already feel awful enough. :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype
Yes I did.
Worked so well I married her.
A"
Nobody likes a show off. 
*actual like hearing these posts. |
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype "
I’ve only ever had one proper crush on fab. There are loads of women I find attractive and great fun, but only one has made it to that elevated status. We chat but haven’t met and I know she feels the pressure from lots of people thinking she is some kind of unicorn.
I hope we’ll meet one day but I almost don’t want it to go any further and become a physical thing, because it feels like it would be nicer to have a good friendship over that.
Outside fab I’ve got a few crushes. I never seem to act on them, mainly because our lives aren’t compatible.
Sigh…. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype
Yes I did.
Worked so well I married her.
A
Nobody likes a show off.
*actual like hearing these posts. "
Hey. When you do one thing right in your life.......
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed
such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.
Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed
Crushed by your crush
Thanks _oggone, didn't already feel awful enough. :D"
Would it help if I felt crushed by your crushing of your crush? |
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"I’ve got a work crush currently. It’s fun, but moments of painful too - I need to reframe it in my head as it’s not going anywhere. "
Oh I'm sure there plenty at work have crush on you with beautiful eyes and lovely smile . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on fab, but meet this woman C, at Cjs with her partner. I was with my X and another couple in the couples room. C was there with her partner and a couple. We couldn't take our eyes off each other, was so hot. We ended up meeting them a few weeks later for drinks and back to ours. Was everything it was hyped up to be.
Currently have a crush on my X's sister... |
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