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I do not find modern women attractive
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For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted |
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"Fair enough.
If this isn't tongue in cheek, may I ask in a genuine way why you're here and what you're hoping for?"
Hi, When I joined it was with enthusiasm for being back in life again and embracing the present as it was then, a quarter of a century had elapsed for me, so the change was profound.
But now a few years down the line I have no enthusiasm for the present and fear for the future.
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"Fair enough.
If this isn't tongue in cheek, may I ask in a genuine way why you're here and what you're hoping for?
Hi, When I joined it was with enthusiasm for being back in life again and embracing the present as it was then, a quarter of a century had elapsed for me, so the change was profound.
But now a few years down the line I have no enthusiasm for the present and fear for the future.
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I see. It's a shame that you've lost your enthusiasm. I think there's much to fear in the future but also much to be hopeful about |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted "
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now |
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Interesting post, OP, and intriguing observations.
"Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section..."
What compels you to even look at the Hot Photos section? It's a misnomer for you. I haven't even been on there this year.
"I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago."
What precisely from "30 years ago" do you miss? Things always look different from the vitality of our youth. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe modern women have turned you OP 
Modern women creating modern men  
Hi, I don't even know what OP means. On or off line I hardly comunicate with anyone - I really am from the past
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"Maybe modern women have turned you OP
Modern women creating modern men
Hi, I don't even know what OP means. On or off line I hardly comunicate with anyone - I really am from the past
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Op means original poster i.e. you in this case |
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"In that case, best change your age range from 20-25, and start attempting to woo the ladies in your age bracket and above. 
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Hello Miss,
My profile is a sort of protest at this site, my psychological reaction to it.
I genuinely do not want it to generate interest.
What interest it has had prior to this version I have mainly ignored a bit of chat that's all |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Maybe modern women have turned you OP
Modern women creating modern men
Hi, I don't even know what OP means.
Maybe google it? Will take about 5 seconds. "
I see somebody has been to the beach today. |
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"Maybe modern women have turned you OP
Modern women creating modern men
Hi, I don't even know what OP means.
Maybe google it? Will take about 5 seconds.
Try it, see what it says "
If you ask Google what it means in forums then it gives you the answer, sometimes Google needs a few more words or it lies  |
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"Maybe modern women have turned you OP
Modern women creating modern men
Hi, I don't even know what OP means.
Maybe google it? Will take about 5 seconds.
Try it, see what it says "
I just googled 'What does OP mean?'
The 1st result was:
'original poster
In gaming and on social media, "OP" is a popular phrase..' |
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Modern women as in women today?
None of them?
You reject the appearance/behaviour/everything of roughly 2.8 billion people?
(Showing my work - global population 8 billion, rounding UNICEF "global population under 18" to 2 decimal places and removing it, dividing the remainder by 2) |
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"According to news sources like Vice, all modern women do is peg everything that moves. Maybe this is one of the gripes lol
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Hi, this is like a foreign language to me I don't understand.
This is actually the first time I have chatted like this on any forum or social media.
Im also a slow types on an old device, so im finding it difficult to keep up.
Even though I'm from the past I was very modern in that past |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted "
Hi, that's the problem really, I cant connect. Its not just intimate relations, its everything, just purchasing something in a shop can be an unpleasant experiance |
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"Interesting post, OP, and intriguing observations.
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section...
What compels you to even look at the Hot Photos section? It's a misnomer for you. I haven't even been on there this year.
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
What precisely from "30 years ago" do you miss? Things always look different from the vitality of our youth."
I miss my Liverpool, I miss the clubs and the music and the dancing I miss the whole flavor and smell and taste of it all. The city and life was far better.
The UK and the world was better
Music, life, dancing, girls, working. It was a different place to what it is now |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe modern women have turned you OP
Modern women creating modern men
Hi, I don't even know what OP means.
Maybe google it? Will take about 5 seconds.
Try it, see what it says
I just googled 'What does OP mean?'
The 1st result was:
'original poster
In gaming and on social media, "OP" is a popular phrase..'"
My Google is less worldly than yours. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"You're livin' in the past, man! You're hung up on some clown from the SIXTIES, man!"
I know somebody like you. Unable to accept and adapt to changing times. Refusing to move on, destined to forever yearn for his wonder years and glory days, that won't ever return. So blinded by nostalgia that he is unable to see so much of the amazing and wonderful things in the modern era.
Rose tinted glasses enforcing it despite plenty of shit things that were just as common during those times too. |
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"What is it about ancient women you find attractive?"
Hi, Their faces were full of passion and life, men as well as women. I notice the difference a great deal when I look at period music videos or photos from the 70's and 80's |
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""You're livin' in the past, man! You're hung up on some clown from the SIXTIES, man!"
I know somebody like you. Unable to accept and adapt to changing times. Refusing to move on, destined to forever yearn for his wonder years and glory days, that won't ever return. So blinded by nostalgia that he is unable to see so much of the amazing and wonderful things in the modern era.
Rose tinted glasses enforcing it despite plenty of shit things that were just as common during those times too. "
Hi, I hear what you say, but those rose colour glasses could just as easilly be effecting a great deal of people about the present. The internet has brought about a considerable amount of social change in a very short time. I embraced it myself eventually, when I was able, which is why I'm hear chatting. But now I have grave reservations about it. Because of my more unique circumstances I can remember that past maybe more than most and it seemed much more wholesome. And I am now wanting to reject this AI future that everyone is heading towards, for the sake of life |
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"This is actually the first time I have chatted like this on any forum or social media.
Green arrow shows that you posted in the forums over a year ago. "
Yes, you are correct, I have replyed occasionally to other peoples forum posts (usually rather acidically). This is the first time ive initiated a forum post |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now"
Dude, happy to listen and read your views, that said, I have to beg to differ re Liverpool. I’m a very proud Scouser but the city we grew up in (80’s for me and 70’s for you) was a shit hole, there’s other words to describe it of course but believe me you’ve bought rose tinted Ray Bans from Kirkby market if you think any different!
Liverpool is unrecognisable nowadays and totally for the better in my humble opinion!  |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now
Dude, happy to listen and read your views, that said, I have to beg to differ re Liverpool. I’m a very proud Scouser but the city we grew up in (80’s for me and 70’s for you) was a shit hole, there’s other words to describe it of course but believe me you’ve bought rose tinted Ray Bans from Kirkby market if you think any different!
Liverpool is unrecognisable nowadays and totally for the better in my humble opinion! "
Hi, Life for a great many people in Liverpool including some parts of Kirkby was diabolical.
But
I wish I could be like Wordsworth and put into words what I mean.
As I feel that a great deal about what was good has most deffinatly gone.
And I'm not sure if life is much better for a lot of people now.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I'll just say the same I have always to anyone who expresses any negatively to the site (not Liverpool or the wider world).
Why use it if it causes upset and angst?
It's not compulsory. Nobody HAS to be here. Even in the choose to be here Nobody HAS to use any element of the site such as 'hot pics'.
If it really is causing negatively and emotional distress then the solution is obvious. Just log off, either til those feelings subdue or permanently.
Doing anything that causes bad feeling is just self abuse, the same as any other activity that makes you feel down. Step back and remove the stimulus. There are literally thousands of people in your area the same age who look back with fond memories of the past. Circulate with them rather than an audience enjoying the here and now. The opportunities to do so are there should you choose them over something you're unhappy with.
I don't generally sympathise much with people who put themselves in an obviously uncomfortable position through choice, so apologies if my comments seem in any way harsh.
I just can't comprehend why someone would deliberately do something that makes them unhappy. 
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"I'll just say the same I have always to anyone who expresses any negatively to the site (not Liverpool or the wider world).
Why use it if it causes upset and angst?
It's not compulsory. Nobody HAS to be here. Even in the choose to be here Nobody HAS to use any element of the site such as 'hot pics'.
If it really is causing negatively and emotional distress then the solution is obvious. Just log off, either til those feelings subdue or permanently.
Doing anything that causes bad feeling is just self abuse, the same as any other activity that makes you feel down. Step back and remove the stimulus. There are literally thousands of people in your area the same age who look back with fond memories of the past. Circulate with them rather than an audience enjoying the here and now. The opportunities to do so are there should you choose them over something you're unhappy with.
I don't generally sympathise much with people who put themselves in an obviously uncomfortable position through choice, so apologies if my comments seem in any way harsh.
I just can't comprehend why someone would deliberately do something that makes them unhappy.
A"
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"I'll just say the same I have always to anyone who expresses any negatively to the site (not Liverpool or the wider world).
Why use it if it causes upset and angst?
It's not compulsory. Nobody HAS to be here. Even in the choose to be here Nobody HAS to use any element of the site such as 'hot pics'.
If it really is causing negatively and emotional distress then the solution is obvious. Just log off, either til those feelings subdue or permanently.
Doing anything that causes bad feeling is just self abuse, the same as any other activity that makes you feel down. Step back and remove the stimulus. There are literally thousands of people in your area the same age who look back with fond memories of the past. Circulate with them rather than an audience enjoying the here and now. The opportunities to do so are there should you choose them over something you're unhappy with.
I don't generally sympathise much with people who put themselves in an obviously uncomfortable position through choice, so apologies if my comments seem in any way harsh.
I just can't comprehend why someone would deliberately do something that makes them unhappy.
A"
Hi, I hardly use this site at all now. I stopped paying for it a long time ago.
My angst is against the modern world at large and my growing concerns about it.
The way I finally wrote my profile is simply my personal way of dealing with it and I left it at that.
I don't purposely come on to cause myself pain.
I cone on occasionally for what little here still interests me - including making this forum post.
Thank you
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Thank you to everyone who has read this thread.
And thank you to everyone who has commented.
I hope I have answered everyones queries.
It is very late so I will put myself to bed
And put this profile of mine back to sleep as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Times do change and women are bound to change along with it! If you feel like you’ve been left behind a bit then try and seek out some like minded people. Bet there’s more than you’d think out there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for you !
Anyway. We are attracted to what we like.
We all look at beauty in different ways, some will agree and say she’s gorgeous and others will not and say they’re not their type.
But why am I replying? I dunno, you sparked a thought of the type of women I like.
I like a pretty faces regardless of anything else. |
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"What kind of women/look does it for you?"
...I mean this is important on this thread.
If you're going to just crap all over a set of someones or somethings and not at least balance that out with things you do like?
I dunno, seems quite internet and, dare I say, modern of you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quick , someone pass the OP the delorean !..
Its the way of the world we live in times change so do we .. if your stuck in the past you'll never move forward !seeking something long gone will never make you happy . |
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all."
Sounds like you simply don’t like women, to be honest. |
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"I kinda get some of it to be fair. Agree about the hot pics. But then again I’m an old fart too . Hope you find what you seek "
Looking at hot pics on a swingers forum may not be the best way to form a balanced view of women in general. “I don’t like their faces” is an odd one. Should modern women alter their faces to OP’s liking? |
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I would take a guess its not the women you don't find attractive, it's what they represent. People have an ideal that a woman should be weak, vulnerable, covered up, act like a lady and be a homebody. Anything outside that ideal, some people struggle to see them as wives which ultimately means they don't find them attractive. It's a strange old world in 2023. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit, I'm glad I'm not at the beginning of the dating game.
It's a very synthetic world.
As a side note, OP (original poster, as in the one to create the thread), are you ok? |
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over a year ago
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"I dunno what’s not to like about modern women to be honest.
Plenty when it comes to some to be fair. But it all balances out in the end as there is also plenty to like. "
Yeah I don’t think it’s any different to any generation though |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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What is a modern woman, define modern woman please, dyed hair, emancipated, brash, confident, bi, self worth, own money, own teeth, own car etc? |
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"I would take a guess its not the women you don't find attractive, it's what they represent. People have an ideal that a woman should be weak, vulnerable, covered up, act like a lady and be a homebody. Anything outside that ideal, some people struggle to see them as wives which ultimately means they don't find them attractive. It's a strange old world in 2023."
I’m older than the op but experienced the same era. The only thing that age has taught me in this arena is that I appreciate a wider age range of women. Human traits don’t vary much. Everyone wants to be an individual and expresses this by trying to emulate a role model. Lots of pet have the same role model so everyone ends up looking the same? This goes for both men and women. Certainly women have become more empowered over the years which I think is a good thing overall but has given rise to some attitudes I don’t like. I think women can be strong and assertive without losing their femininity. That is very attractive. If their idea of equal is binge drinking, effing and and jeffing and spitting and pissing in the street, like some yob bloke, not so much. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I kinda get some of it to be fair. Agree about the hot pics. But then again I’m an old fart too . Hope you find what you seek
Looking at hot pics on a swingers forum may not be the best way to form a balanced view of women in general. “I don’t like their faces” is an odd one. Should modern women alter their faces to OP’s liking? "
Some women do, maybe that is what he is referring to.
Disclaimer, any woman or man can do what they want with their face or body. |
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over a year ago
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"30 years ago? Are we taking big earrings, double denim, Naf Naf and white dog poo?"
Jane Norman carrier bags, tide mark foundation amd concealer for lipstick. Grim times |
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over a year ago
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens"
Because women are easily offended, and men have to defended this honour at all costs of getting some of the sex. |
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"30 years ago? Are we taking big earrings, double denim, Naf Naf and white dog poo?
Jane Norman carrier bags, tide mark foundation amd concealer for lipstick. Grim times"
Bryan Adam’s and Wet Wet Wet being played on repeat. Very grim |
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over a year ago
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern  "
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because women are easily offended, and men have to defended this honour at all costs of getting some of the sex. "
And I defend this comment. When we meeting? |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
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It’s because we listen more when people say things upset them |
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I kind of get what the OP is saying. It's easy to say he's just an out of touch old man but like with men, some women are searching for the perfect look due to the influence of social media such as Instagram and the like. With perfect tanned skin, a slim face, full lips etc. and it is having an effect on some women who want to look like that alter their natural appearance as a result.
It's the same with men and feeling the need to look absolutely ripped or have a certain haircut or tattoos because that's the pressure social media puts on them.
I don't think hot pics are a great example as you do see various women make it there but I do see a difference and believe it could be down to that. |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
It’s because we listen more when people say things upset them "
Emotionally immature? Perhaps. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
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Funny thing is, I see just as many people with the "past" mindset get just as defensive. It's not really anything new, often the majority (not all) of those that say people don't like to debate anymore can't actually do that themselves anyway, and are just as likely to turn it in the an argument or continue to argument as those they accuse of doing it. |
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Also OP, you're not alone in finding hot pics unappealing! I think maybe nowadays it's easier than ever to create a "clone" look to the next woman, so if that's not your type I see how it could appear that any "modern woman" isn't for you. |
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"I kind of get what the OP is saying. It's easy to say he's just an out of touch old man but like with men, some women are searching for the perfect look due to the influence of social media such as Instagram and the like. With perfect tanned skin, a slim face, full lips etc. and it is having an effect on some women who want to look like that alter their natural appearance as a result.
It's the same with men and feeling the need to look absolutely ripped or have a certain haircut or tattoos because that's the pressure social media puts on them.
I don't think hot pics are a great example as you do see various women make it there but I do see a difference and believe it could be down to that."
He is gay according to his other posts so I don’t get the need to say he doesn’t find modern women attractive. I don’t find modern men attractive because I don’t find any men attractive (Apart from Callum Wilson the handsome bastard). |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens"
Because, unfortunately it was a chap who started the thread.
He's entitled to his opinion as everyone is always pointing out on here.
"Preference"
I will say that I'm no fan of the fake look these days, while women in general seem to be more confident I'm not sure if this confidence comes from the ability to hide behind fake tans,fillers,fake boob's,fake hair,fake lashes,fake nails,fake teeth......
Much prefer a natural looking woman/person.
But that's my preference just as it's theirs to dress exactly how they choose.
Their body their choice.
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"I kind of get what the OP is saying. It's easy to say he's just an out of touch old man but like with men, some women are searching for the perfect look due to the influence of social media such as Instagram and the like. With perfect tanned skin, a slim face, full lips etc. and it is having an effect on some women who want to look like that alter their natural appearance as a result.
It's the same with men and feeling the need to look absolutely ripped or have a certain haircut or tattoos because that's the pressure social media puts on them.
I don't think hot pics are a great example as you do see various women make it there but I do see a difference and believe it could be down to that.
He is gay according to his other posts so I don’t get the need to say he doesn’t find modern women attractive. I don’t find modern men attractive because I don’t find any men attractive (Apart from Callum Wilson the handsome bastard)."
Ahhh in that case, I'm not sure what the motivation for the thread is. But that's my perspective anyway |
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"I kind of get what the OP is saying. It's easy to say he's just an out of touch old man but like with men, some women are searching for the perfect look due to the influence of social media such as Instagram and the like. With perfect tanned skin, a slim face, full lips etc. and it is having an effect on some women who want to look like that alter their natural appearance as a result.
It's the same with men and feeling the need to look absolutely ripped or have a certain haircut or tattoos because that's the pressure social media puts on them.
I don't think hot pics are a great example as you do see various women make it there but I do see a difference and believe it could be down to that."
That's my take on it.
Personally I find natural beauty so much more appealing.
The natural countryside, rivers and the likes over a well structured human made building, as example.
Same with people, natural over synthetic.
For me, the term 'Beauty product' is often contradictory.
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
It’s because we listen more when people say things upset them
Emotionally immature? Perhaps. "
In all seriousness I find that older generations tend to be more dismissive of things that may cause upset. And they have this assumption that people weren’t upset back in their day when they were, they just didn’t feel that they could express that. |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now"
I find the notion that the Liverpool of 30+ years ago is preferable today, difficult to understand. I love Liverpool, I've spent a lot of my life there (and on the Wirral) with my Dad. But the post war, 20th century Liverpool was depressed. It was dirty, broken and people had few opportunities. Post-2008 (the Capital of Culture really seemed to invigorate the city), there's been development, there's much more in the way of employment opportunities and housing, whilst certainly not perfect, is much better than the slums and bombed out shells of the post war period.
No city is perfect, there are problems everywhere, but to hanker after a past filled with grinding poverty, sky high unemployment, long standing strikes and bombed out disaster zones seems a little odd to me.
But who am I? I'm 37 and didn't directly live through most of the above. |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
Funny thing is, I see just as many people with the "past" mindset get just as defensive. It's not really anything new, often the majority (not all) of those that say people don't like to debate anymore can't actually do that themselves anyway, and are just as likely to turn it in the an argument or continue to argument as those they accuse of doing it. "
I feel social media is partly behind this, it's so easy to respond with no consideration of consequences or thought for others. |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because women are easily offended, and men have to defended this honour at all costs of getting some of the sex. "
Some maybe but men don’t generally realise they have offended until it’s too late so the sex is doomed anyway …. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
Funny thing is, I see just as many people with the "past" mindset get just as defensive. It's not really anything new, often the majority (not all) of those that say people don't like to debate anymore can't actually do that themselves anyway, and are just as likely to turn it in the an argument or continue to argument as those they accuse of doing it.
I feel social media is partly behind this, it's so easy to respond with no consideration of consequences or thought for others. "
Social media is but a tool, people either have that nature in them or they don't. You just have to see any stereotypical slanging match confrontation in the street or on a night out that have been going on for decades to know people are quick to offend and be offended.
Social media allows them to channel it, and express it unto the masses regularly but as people they would have always had it in them to do so. Attitudes and their nature have not changed, just the method they do so. |
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all."
Older man misses his youth. Age-old conundrum. I sense bitterness and I ask myself why you’re negative about the younger generation? Comes across as a little sad if I’m honest. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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This thread is going all sorts of places. So many different things you can say. As a few have said, the world changes and one man doesn't.
Personally the idea of the past being a halcyon age is absurd in some many regards. We're far from perfect now but I do think we're not as inequal as we were. Society is fairer, we have greater rights to live how we choose and more people have their rights protected by law and attitudes have changed. |
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all."
I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty. |
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over a year ago
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I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty. "
Of course, nobody born before the 90s has any of these things. |
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I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty.
Of course, nobody born before the 90s has any of these things. "
You're misunderstanding modern for young.
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I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty.
Of course, nobody born before the 90s has any of these things.
You're misunderstanding modern for young.
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Probably actually. I only said the 90s though because the OP was on about missing women of 30 years ago |
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"I am not sure why people are so defensive. It stops any sort of debate when this happens
Because we’re modern
That came to my mind too.
People don't like to debate now, preferring instead to be heard over others, to find offence so they feel they can be offensive.
I've not read through the thread, so can't pinpoint any here, but in general, this is modern day society.
Funny thing is, I see just as many people with the "past" mindset get just as defensive. It's not really anything new, often the majority (not all) of those that say people don't like to debate anymore can't actually do that themselves anyway, and are just as likely to turn it in the an argument or continue to argument as those they accuse of doing it.
I feel social media is partly behind this, it's so easy to respond with no consideration of consequences or thought for others.
Social media is but a tool, people either have that nature in them or they don't. You just have to see any stereotypical slanging match confrontation in the street or on a night out that have been going on for decades to know people are quick to offend and be offended.
Social media allows them to channel it, and express it unto the masses regularly but as people they would have always had it in them to do so. Attitudes and their nature have not changed, just the method they do so. "
Not changed, developed and encouraged. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I love modern women, what's not to love. Strange post tbf."
Plenty. They are not faultless nor flawless. Nor should they be, but there sure as shit are things to not love or be attracted to about them too.
(same goes for men, and any other gender) |
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over a year ago
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I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty.
Of course, nobody born before the 90s has any of these things.
You're misunderstanding modern for young.
Probably actually. I only said the 90s though because the OP was on about missing women of 30 years ago "
Yeah, I suppose he means the style and attitudes, the then modern times. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
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I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty.
Of course, nobody born before the 90s has any of these things. "
Maybe a odd way to put it but that's just tech innovations. Plastic Surgery isn't a new thing, it's just become more accessible |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"What is a modern woman, define modern woman please, dyed hair, emancipated, brash, confident, bi, self worth, own money, own teeth, own car etc? "
this |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all.
I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty. "
They're not all botox, make up and solicon.
Make up has always played a part in beauty. Not everyone uses it all the time.
I think some people look at too much stuff online and forget to look outside. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all.
I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty.
They're not all botox, make up and solicon.
Make up has always played a part in beauty. Not everyone uses it all the time.
I think some people look at too much stuff online and forget to look outside. "
Let's not forget things like corsets, wigs, and a form of hair extension that were used throughout history.
Fully agree with you there, plenty of "normal" and "natural" "modern" women (and men) out in the world.
Basing it upon what we find in the easiest to access places is extremely limiting. |
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"I kind of get what the OP is saying. It's easy to say he's just an out of touch old man but like with men, some women are searching for the perfect look due to the influence of social media such as Instagram and the like. With perfect tanned skin, a slim face, full lips etc. and it is having an effect on some women who want to look like that alter their natural appearance as a result.
It's the same with men and feeling the need to look absolutely ripped or have a certain haircut or tattoos because that's the pressure social media puts on them.
I don't think hot pics are a great example as you do see various women make it there but I do see a difference and believe it could be down to that."
Men worrying about their appearance because of “The pressure that social media puts on them”.
I’m not saying you’re wrong, but isn’t that ridiculous? Giving a flying fuck what online strangers might think / say / post?
I listen to what friends and family say, and take some of their ideas / comments / suggestions on board, but have never felt any pressure whatsoever from social media, largely because I don’t live my life publicly online, on fb, insta etc.
If you don’t jump up and down going “ooh look at me” in the first place, then you’re far less likely to end up upset because someone took the piss.
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all.
I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty. "
All modern women are like that, are they? Plenty of natural looking ladies in my neck of the woods |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Fair enough.
If this isn't tongue in cheek, may I ask in a genuine way why you're here and what you're hoping for?
Hi, When I joined it was with enthusiasm for being back in life again and embracing the present as it was then, a quarter of a century had elapsed for me, so the change was profound.
But now a few years down the line I have no enthusiasm for the present and fear for the future.
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This is normal.
As we get older thinking about the future can be scary because the inevitable happens; health declines, we lose people etc and you can find yourself looking back rather than forward.
I’d encourage you to think about the future putting the negatives to one side and embracing some positives like more free tune to pursue hobbies, increased wisdom in decision making etc |
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Shit for you that you feel this way. Life is for living and enjoying and finding laughter and joy.
Setting unrealistic expectations is setting yourself up to fail. So you either have to adjust your expectations or accept that you're going to live a lonely existence
Sincerely, an auld tart |
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over a year ago
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If you don't embrace change you will end up with a negative attitude to life. I am well in my 60s and enjoy life to the full. There is a reason why your life is full of negativity,think back back,you may find the answer. |
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"Men worrying about their appearance because of “The pressure that social media puts on them”.
I’m not saying you’re wrong, but isn’t that ridiculous? Giving a flying fuck what online strangers might think / say / post?
I listen to what friends and family say, and take some of their ideas / comments / suggestions on board, but have never felt any pressure whatsoever from social media, largely because I don’t live my life publicly online, on fb, insta etc.
If you don’t jump up and down going “ooh look at me” in the first place, then you’re far less likely to end up upset because someone took the piss.
"
It's absolutely ridiculous, but it's the world we live in. A generation of people are in social media a majority of their lives and grew up with it and can therefore be very easily influenced by those who are in their lives eery day and develop the same mind set and opinions and yes, even looks, as them.
We're a bit older so can make that distinction between social media and real life but when it's in your face 24/7, it's hard not to feel self conscious. It's also why I despise Love Island because of the type of people you see selected to be on there, further pushing the narrative of what beauty is supposed to look like. I'm verging on red pill territory here though I'll leave it there. |
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"For the purpose and duration of this thread I have put another photo on public, so you can see that you are at least talking to a human being (if you are still in doubt I'm referring to the photo were I'm not wearing a hat !), I may put more than one up.
The ponderance:
There is nothing about modern women that I find at all attractive.
Their faces, their clothes, the way they behave, nothing !
Regardless of age, nothing !
Just the slightest glance at the hot photos section of this site is enough to bore me stupid !
For a very long time I was out of circulation.
I belong in the past !
I wish I was still in the past !
It is not just dating sites that I am referring to it is this everyday world that I am now walking around in !
I miss the way things were 30 and more years ago.
Why am I telling you this - I do not know !
What sort of reply am I needing or expecting from you - ?
In case there is any misunderstanding - I do not require advice on how to write and present my profile as after a few years if being on this site and dealing with the real world out there I feel that I have got it just about word perfect !
And I hope it evokes no interest off anyone at all.
I know what you mean when they're all makeup and botox or silicone. Love a natural beauty. "
I was in the British Museum recently. There was makeup-application equipment on display from the earliest of the Ancient Egyptian times. Jewellery, facial makeup, pierced earrings/nose adornments. Use of putty to smoothen out certain features. The wearing of wigs. This didn't just apply to women, btw.
Humans have been adorning themselves with makeup and frippery since the very beginning of the human species! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Men worrying about their appearance because of “The pressure that social media puts on them”.
I’m not saying you’re wrong, but isn’t that ridiculous? Giving a flying fuck what online strangers might think / say / post?
I listen to what friends and family say, and take some of their ideas / comments / suggestions on board, but have never felt any pressure whatsoever from social media, largely because I don’t live my life publicly online, on fb, insta etc.
If you don’t jump up and down going “ooh look at me” in the first place, then you’re far less likely to end up upset because someone took the piss.
It's absolutely ridiculous, but it's the world we live in. A generation of people are in social media a majority of their lives and grew up with it and can therefore be very easily influenced by those who are in their lives eery day and develop the same mind set and opinions and yes, even looks, as them.
We're a bit older so can make that distinction between social media and real life but when it's in your face 24/7, it's hard not to feel self conscious. It's also why I despise Love Island because of the type of people you see selected to be on there, further pushing the narrative of what beauty is supposed to look like. I'm verging on red pill territory here though I'll leave it there."
It’s not age, Everyone has a choice. I have three daughters born into that , 2 don't give a fuck about it & one has zero social media presence.
I’m a also very easy to turn off and the moment you do , reality comes crashing back. The sane is trie with MSM, ignore it and read Al Jazeera or RT for a while and everything changes
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"Men worrying about their appearance because of “The pressure that social media puts on them”.
I’m not saying you’re wrong, but isn’t that ridiculous? Giving a flying fuck what online strangers might think / say / post?
I listen to what friends and family say, and take some of their ideas / comments / suggestions on board, but have never felt any pressure whatsoever from social media, largely because I don’t live my life publicly online, on fb, insta etc.
If you don’t jump up and down going “ooh look at me” in the first place, then you’re far less likely to end up upset because someone took the piss.
It's absolutely ridiculous, but it's the world we live in. A generation of people are in social media a majority of their lives and grew up with it and can therefore be very easily influenced by those who are in their lives eery day and develop the same mind set and opinions and yes, even looks, as them.
We're a bit older so can make that distinction between social media and real life but when it's in your face 24/7, it's hard not to feel self conscious. It's also why I despise Love Island because of the type of people you see selected to be on there, further pushing the narrative of what beauty is supposed to look like. I'm verging on red pill territory here though I'll leave it there.
It’s not age, Everyone has a choice. I have three daughters born into that , 2 don't give a fuck about it & one has zero social media presence.
I’m a also very easy to turn off and the moment you do , reality comes crashing back. The sane is trie with MSM, ignore it and read Al Jazeera or RT for a while and everything changes
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You mean read potentially biased news sources based in other countries? Just as biased as UK based media? Surely Al Jazeera and RT are MSM in the territories they originate from? |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Men worrying about their appearance because of “The pressure that social media puts on them”.
I’m not saying you’re wrong, but isn’t that ridiculous? Giving a flying fuck what online strangers might think / say / post?
I listen to what friends and family say, and take some of their ideas / comments / suggestions on board, but have never felt any pressure whatsoever from social media, largely because I don’t live my life publicly online, on fb, insta etc.
If you don’t jump up and down going “ooh look at me” in the first place, then you’re far less likely to end up upset because someone took the piss.
It's absolutely ridiculous, but it's the world we live in. A generation of people are in social media a majority of their lives and grew up with it and can therefore be very easily influenced by those who are in their lives eery day and develop the same mind set and opinions and yes, even looks, as them.
We're a bit older so can make that distinction between social media and real life but when it's in your face 24/7, it's hard not to feel self conscious. It's also why I despise Love Island because of the type of people you see selected to be on there, further pushing the narrative of what beauty is supposed to look like. I'm verging on red pill territory here though I'll leave it there.
It’s not age, Everyone has a choice. I have three daughters born into that , 2 don't give a fuck about it & one has zero social media presence.
I’m a also very easy to turn off and the moment you do , reality comes crashing back. The sane is trie with MSM, ignore it and read Al Jazeera or RT for a while and everything changes
You mean read potentially biased news sources based in other countries? Just as biased as UK based media? Surely Al Jazeera and RT are MSM in the territories they originate from? "
RT are not MSM in Russia, their focus an international audience. I don't think they even broadcast in Russian. As to Al Jazeera, it's parent owner is the Qatar govt and has been criticised for an editorial policy that favours the Qatari govt. And again Al-Jazeera international broadcast operation. |
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I feel that yet again society/ social media/ IG et al are imposing impossible demands on impressionable young women to have the perfect figure, lips, cheekbones, boobs and now more is possible via plastic surgery. So i maybe understand the OP point of view. Maybe he yearns for a time when people weren’t so perfect? But it’s manufactured perfection - because some Magazine says thats how you need to look to be beautiful.
If that’s what he’s driving at - i do understand the point of view. Sit in a pub with me and i’ll tell you tales if growing up in Liverpool and dating a girl that had a spot!! I’m not lying - a proper spot…. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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I don't like women in their 20s and 40s. Egotistical princesses.
Women in their 30s and 50s though. Fucking lovely. God bless the 90s and 70s. Screw you 80s and 2000s.
Thinking about it this is only a half joke post. |
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"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now"
What took you out of society for so long. My first thought was a long stretch at her majesty's pleasure? |
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I had thought about making this thread for some time.
But when I did make it it was hastily writ.
My choice of words in one or two places were not the best to convey what I meant.
The Title if written -
"I do not find Women of Today Attractive".
Would of been better.
I should of made it more clear -
This is something I'm ok with !
It is beneficial really as I am still focusing on other areas of my life.
You may ask -
"Well why put it in a thread if you are ok with it" ! ?
My answer -
"Its simply an observation" !
An interesting observation !
An observation that I thought was worth commenting on.
There are possibly many reasons why - some personal, but others not !
My profile photo is the one of my many image changes that I felt best suited the character and his adventure that I invented for the profile write up.
Everything else is genuin.
None of my images are older than 2016.
I fell quite seriously ill at the end of my 20's, early 1990's.
I have been very reclusive since then.
It has gone by very quickly.
Most major news events for the last 30 years are totally unknown to me. Also social trivia.
I really am a museum piece from the 1980's
This is why I'm so out of sync.
But very glad that I am !
I did not expect the comments to continue.
I will endeavor to answer some of them
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"Fair enough.
If this isn't tongue in cheek, may I ask in a genuine way why you're here and what you're hoping for?
Hi, When I joined it was with enthusiasm for being back in life again and embracing the present as it was then, a quarter of a century had elapsed for me, so the change was profound.
But now a few years down the line I have no enthusiasm for the present and fear for the future.
"
Tell me how they were 30 years ago?
I have to admit men never really appealled to me 20 years ago and with the strong use of the internet/social media, they seem to get worse. |
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"I don't like women in their 20s and 40s. Egotistical princesses.
Women in their 30s and 50s though. Fucking lovely. God bless the 90s and 70s. Screw you 80s and 2000s.
Thinking about it this is only a half joke post."
We are the ‘old tarts’ thou |
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"I don't like women in their 20s and 40s. Egotistical princesses.
Women in their 30s and 50s though. Fucking lovely. God bless the 90s and 70s. Screw you 80s and 2000s.
Thinking about it this is only a half joke post.
We are the ‘old tarts’ thou "
I love a tart (strawberry) in the morning |
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over a year ago
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There is a difference between attacking a person personally with venom to making a polite observation about a post |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't like women in their 20s and 40s. Egotistical princesses.
Women in their 30s and 50s though. Fucking lovely. God bless the 90s and 70s. Screw you 80s and 2000s.
Thinking about it this is only a half joke post.
We are the ‘old tarts’ thou "
Good ol tarts! Lavely! |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Society changes, people change, you can stick to your guns and hope a woman that does appeal to you comes along, however I’ve never looked at somebody for the clothes they wear or their look in general, as long as there’s a mental connection I’m attracted
Hi,
It is not a partner that I'm looking for, I have my oppertunities in the real world all the time (which I totally ignore) it is my life im looking for, it is lost in a past I can never get back to
A world and my city Liverpool that seemed infinitely better than the way it is now"
Nights out in Liverpool were well better 10 years ago, it doesn't have the same atmosphere anymore and the styles have gone right down hill...I hate the thought of getting older but I'm glad I was born when I was |
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"What is it about ancient women you find attractive?
Hi, Their faces were full of passion and life, men as well as women. I notice the difference a great deal when I look at period music videos or photos from the 70's and 80's "
For what it's worth we recognise in people what is in us, and people will often mirror what we emit. I see passion&life in people's faces of all ages, not everyone, but many.
You sound like you have so much to get acclimatised to, it is overwhelming. Take your time, it'll take time. Once I moved houses after ten years and I nearly lost it cos I couldn't work out how to open&close the doors&windows
I love this thread it went all sorts of ways lolol |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"To be fair those 1800 broads did look devilishly delicious 
Brucey loves bloomers."
You down for 1800s role play?
Actually I remember doing this once early days on fab and some users saw it as problematic for....I don't know reasons? |
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I agree that Liverpool is not what it used to be.
It's concrete and lifeless in the city now...only the people left.
The young girls with caked on makeup, extensions and botox is terrible to see.
I miss the 80s and 90s there. |
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Op, sounds like you maybe need to open up and just release the energy you feel? Look, had to do it recently, so my inbox is yours, just never get yourself where I did, and not cope.
Not only me, but an awful lot of amazing humans here, who have ears and hugs to give. Xxx
Talk up, even I'd in private, there's no judgement from decent, beautiful people xxx |
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