FabSwingers.com
 

FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Winks

Winks

Jump to: Newest in thread

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill

Do people use the winks on here and what for?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

I use them for winking at people

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"I use them for winking at people "

Yeah but whats the purpose when you can just message no?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We use winks to show interest, if we get one back we send a message. If we get a wink, we usually message them if their profile interests us.

We think they’re a good way to gauge interest without messaging

Mr

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

50/50 winks

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man  over a year ago

edinbugh

I would use a wink to let someone know I was interested in them but often to no avail

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *avinaTVTV/TS  over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I use them to make people aware once noticed them. I respond to them so people don't feel ignored.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"We use winks to show interest, if we get one back we send a message. If we get a wink, we usually message them if their profile interests us.

We think they’re a good way to gauge interest without messaging

Mr "

Thanks for that now that makes sense

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

They have a different use for different people.

So their use is sort of confusing at times.

Most I expect use them as an initial "hey I'm interested" but that only goes so far.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *cotsguyyMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"We use winks to show interest, if we get one back we send a message. If we get a wink, we usually message them if their profile interests us.

We think they’re a good way to gauge interest without messaging

Mr "

Yup, exactly this.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

No.

I don't send them.

I rarely even look at the ones I receive.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not really, I'd rather someone took the time to send a msg.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *egasus NobMan  over a year ago

Merton

It means whatever you want it to

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I usually use it as an insult

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

I'd prefer a wink than a bad first message

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things. "

I'm actually fuming that was the first wink I had since 2018

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading


"Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things. "

no wonder Adam.wanted a subservient wife

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *obandruthCouple  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Wink wink.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man  over a year ago

edinbugh


"Not really, I'd rather someone took the time to send a msg."

Most messages to women just get bulk deleted as they often get hundreds a day, this is a better way to gauge interest

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things. "

Ahah ok that’s mean but I’m here for it

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not really, I'd rather someone took the time to send a msg.

Most messages to women just get bulk deleted as they often get hundreds a day, this is a better way to gauge interest "

I'd love to shake the hand of whoever started this rumour of women getting hundreds of messages a day.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t think I’ve ever sent a wink

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"Don’t think I’ve ever sent a wink

"

I volunteer to be your first

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Used to but don't bother anymore. Most seem to ignore them.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ewby01327Man  over a year ago

Daventry

Have always found them quite tongue in cheek and fun

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. They are peak flirting.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *herry delightWoman  over a year ago

Ilfracombe

The only time I go to my winks is to delete all. I don't look at them the same goes for friend invites.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *he_Secret_GardenWoman  over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I absolutely hate them...useless shits quick hello says more about person than bloody winking

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *e renard de la campagneMan  over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

I think they’re rather a good idea but the majority seem to hate them, so I don’t send them unless there’s a specific thread to send them xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can’t remember the last time we sent a wink to anyone.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I use them for winking at people "

This

It tells them I like them

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"I absolutely hate them...useless shits quick hello says more about person than bloody winking "
agreed

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"Used to but don't bother anymore. Most seem to ignore them. "

Ignored and deleted

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don’t think I’ve ever sent a wink

I volunteer to be your first "

Nope I’m going to resist temptation

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah I wink at profiles I’m interested in to express interest. Or I do for forum threads

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men send them to be ignored. I might get ignore by some people now for a laugh...

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah I wink at profiles I’m interested in to express interest. Or I do for forum threads"
this, I think it's a polite way to open up q conversation, people can engage or not and that's cool

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"Don’t think I’ve ever sent a wink

I volunteer to be your first

Nope I’m going to resist temptation "

Ahah I was teasing

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things. "

I love this!!

Mrs

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Imo it’s just like swiping right on tinder, or liking someone on hinge. Showing your interest in someone and then letting them make the next move whether they wink/message back, or ignore

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"Sometimes when I'm bored I wink random guys knowing they can't message me. Then watch as they view my profile about 50 times in 10 minutes.

It's the little things.

I love this!!

Mrs "

I laughed so hard

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *awk90Man  over a year ago

Amsterdam

I use it, I like it as a first show and test of mutual interest!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

I wink to show interest and will message if they wink back, I find it great especially if your unsure you are what the other people are looking for.

Mrs

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rincess-PeachWoman  over a year ago

irrelevant

I don't use them personally

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Yes, they’re great

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *orbidden eastMan  over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course, it’s kind of like one of those hit and hope moment but I do you wink with purpose

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"I wink to show interest and will message if they wink back, I find it great especially if your unsure you are what the other people are looking for.

Mrs "

That’s a good use for them

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ilth N KinkCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

We use them to show we like a couple. If we get a wink back then we go to messages. If we don’t then we move on.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't normally pay attention to winks. Fairly lazy way of showing interest. Much rather have a message.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t send them and don’t look at them.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *aughtyPeepzMan  over a year ago

London

I use a wink to show I'm interested. If I'm noticed I'll then message. I've found that a lot of women here are sent a tion of messages and many don't get read.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *rishViking OP   Man  over a year ago

Shankill


"We don't normally pay attention to winks. Fairly lazy way of showing interest. Much rather have a message."

Valid

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

  

By *phialtesMan  over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Nope. If I like someone I message.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic

0.0468

0