BHM - big handsome man is what's usually used but no doubt someone will come along and day you can't usr that because not all big men are handsome.
Usually it's the more athletic amongst us that get up in arms about that. They seem to think we don't have the right to self esteem and can't call ourselves beautiful or handsome.
They also don't seem to understand that it's often just used as a quick reference term to let them know a fatty lies here so they van pass on by without losing their museli when looking at our pics  |
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Its more to do with the fact that women seem to have this desire to dress it up as a fancy name so a little tie can be put on it and no one feels bad.
Men dont need such devices as we can deal with the truth  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Its more to do with the fact that women seem to have this desire to dress it up as a fancy name so a little tie can be put on it and no one feels bad.
Men dont need such devices as we can deal with the truth "
Really? I describe myself as fat. I have met fat men that describe themselves as average or athletic and, in one case, slim. Whose truth? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"BHM - big handsome man is what's usually used but no doubt someone will come along and day you can't usr that because not all big men are handsome.
Usually it's the more athletic amongst us that get up in arms about that. They seem to think we don't have the right to self esteem and can't call ourselves beautiful or handsome.
They also don't seem to understand that it's often just used as a quick reference term to let them know a fatty lies here so they van pass on by without losing their museli when looking at our pics "
Whilst i understand the last part of your post and agree with it, i cant help but think there is a lot of positive discrimination around anything BBW , the guys that are larger seem to get the shitty end of the stick whilst you take your life into your hands unless you are anything but pleasant about BBW (women), well thats what ive gathered from Fab anyway. |
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I wouldn't give myself a label like that. Next thing I'll have to have a colour coded supporters badge like when shopping for clothes.
Red - small
Yellow - medium
Green - large
Blue - x large
Purple - don't bother.
I'm one size fits all. |
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"BHM - big handsome man is what's usually used but no doubt someone will come along and day you can't usr that because not all big men are handsome.
Usually it's the more athletic amongst us that get up in arms about that. They seem to think we don't have the right to self esteem and can't call ourselves beautiful or handsome.
They also don't seem to understand that it's often just used as a quick reference term to let them know a fatty lies here so they van pass on by without losing their museli when looking at our pics Whilst i understand the last part of your post and agree with it, i cant help but think there is a lot of positive discrimination around anything BBW , the guys that are larger seem to get the shitty end of the stick whilst you take your life into your hands unless you are anything but pleasant about BBW (women), well thats what ive gathered from Fab anyway."
Oh yes, I completely agree with that. You can't move on here for the number of alleged bbw lovers yet when someone else asks about larger men there are very few ladies who admit to liking them.
My post was more aimed towards curing out the need for the bbw/bhm haters to point out that we are not all beautiful or handsome. We know that nut equally not every slim person is hot or hunky, they just don't get told they can't call themselves that |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"BHM - big handsome man is what's usually used but no doubt someone will come along and day you can't usr that because not all big men are handsome.
Usually it's the more athletic amongst us that get up in arms about that. They seem to think we don't have the right to self esteem and can't call ourselves beautiful or handsome.
They also don't seem to understand that it's often just used as a quick reference term to let them know a fatty lies here so they van pass on by without losing their museli when looking at our pics Whilst i understand the last part of your post and agree with it, i cant help but think there is a lot of positive discrimination around anything BBW , the guys that are larger seem to get the shitty end of the stick whilst you take your life into your hands unless you are anything but pleasant about BBW (women), well thats what ive gathered from Fab anyway.
Oh yes, I completely agree with that. You can't move on here for the number of alleged bbw lovers yet when someone else asks about larger men there are very few ladies who admit to liking them.
My post was more aimed towards curing out the need for the bbw/bhm haters to point out that we are not all beautiful or handsome. We know that nut equally not every slim person is hot or hunky, they just don't get told they can't call themselves that "
An argument that will never be won by either party Evie. |
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Also, the positive discrimination seems to occur towards any female. You just have to read a 'got let down' or time waster thread to see no end of guys claiming how it was 'their loss' and how they would kill to get a meet with the OP, regardless of size or attractiveness etc |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Also, the positive discrimination seems to occur towards any female. You just have to read a 'got let down' or time waster thread to see no end of guys claiming how it was 'their loss' and how they would kill to get a meet with the OP, regardless of size or attractiveness etc "
I couldnt agree more, and dont start me with "their loss"   |
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"Also, the positive discrimination seems to occur towards any female. You just have to read a 'got let down' or time waster thread to see no end of guys claiming how it was 'their loss' and how they would kill to get a meet with the OP, regardless of size or attractiveness etc I couldnt agree more, and dont start me with "their loss" "
I amuse myself spotting the sycophantic chameleons. On bbw threads they'd lose a bollock to meet the fat bird posting. They'd sacrifice the other on a slim chick small boob thread.
Cringe worthy, can't imagine any woman playing with a man like that. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Also, the positive discrimination seems to occur towards any female. You just have to read a 'got let down' or time waster thread to see no end of guys claiming how it was 'their loss' and how they would kill to get a meet with the OP, regardless of size or attractiveness etc I couldnt agree more, and dont start me with "their loss"
I amuse myself spotting the sycophantic chameleons. On bbw threads they'd lose a bollock to meet the fat bird posting. They'd sacrifice the other on a slim chick small boob thread.
Cringe worthy, can't imagine any woman playing with a man like that. "
I am sure someone will have a go at me but here goes......some women...NOT all will buy into it though its here for all to see....but i dont like sycophantic males anyway so i am biased. |
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"Big Fat Bastard would get my vote, leave the pussyfooting and sugar-coating for the ladies :pInteresting comment
How so?See my earlier posts."
Nope, don't see what you mean. |
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