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Hi all,
I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.
Is anyone else the same and does anyone tell their friends family. Maybe because for safety reasons they might want to tell someone if they're having a meet or they just feel comfortable discussing it. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend does. He’s think the idea is crazy, but has been one of the most open minded people I know.
Had many conversations with home, he asks me questions all the time. And I ask him. Never judging is what it’s about.  |
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Well it was my mum that told me about fab when she had left and the rest of my family pretty much all know I'm here and I'm not shy about letting my friends know I'm here as nothing to be ashamed of.
I'd say I don't really need to worry about anyone seeing me here as I'm open about it anyway  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"Hi all,
I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.
Is anyone else the same and does anyone tell their friends family. Maybe because for safety reasons they might want to tell someone if they're having a meet or they just feel comfortable discussing it. X"
Most of my close friends know but not family, I hope!! I'm already excluded completely for living in sin with the man I married & stayed with for 23 years!! I don't need any more of their religious judgement heaped on me  |
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Everyone I know is aware I'm on sites like these. I'm very open about it - hence face pics on profile
I even used to do paid cam work.
I think times have have changed too. People are more accepting and open sexually |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I try to keep my Fab life separate from my vanilla life. There’s still a lot of judgemental people out there and LOTS of homophobia.
Pity, but it’s reality for me.
Gbat |
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A few friends know we are on here, and that we like to go to clubs and party nights, and to be honest a lot are intrigued.. he used to do adult film work and excort work when he was younger and fitter so he doesn’t care, I’m just a bit more selective who I tell |
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"Hi all,
I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.
Is anyone else the same and does anyone tell their friends family. Maybe because for safety reasons they might want to tell someone if they're having a meet or they just feel comfortable discussing it. X
Most of my close friends know but not family, I hope!! I'm already excluded completely for living in sin with the man I married & stayed with for 23 years!! I don't need any more of their religious judgement heaped on me "
Its a shame youve been excluded like that. It can't be nice having loved ones trying to shame you with their extreme religious beliefs. |
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"Friends, family and colleagues at both jobs. No risk to my jobs so I don't mind."
I think colleagues seeing my cock my cock is my least favourite idea. But I wouldn't be too fussed if I just had a face pic |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"Hi all,
I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.
Is anyone else the same and does anyone tell their friends family. Maybe because for safety reasons they might want to tell someone if they're having a meet or they just feel comfortable discussing it. X
Most of my close friends know but not family, I hope!! I'm already excluded completely for living in sin with the man I married & stayed with for 23 years!! I don't need any more of their religious judgement heaped on me
Its a shame youve been excluded like that. It can't be nice having loved ones trying to shame you with their extreme religious beliefs. "
Thank you.
It's played havoc with my mental health over the years...brothers, parents, neice & nephew who all choose to have nothing to do with me, but I've learned to live with it & see it as their loss, quite frankly! What doesn't break you makes you stronger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One friend knows I'm on here he's my safety guy that I check in with when I go on meets.
Family way too religious/crazy (they go hand in hand I find).... they'd bathe me in holy water as their reasoning would be the devil has possessed me to do his work or something along that line .. and no I not kidding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some friends and family know, mainly because they’re also on here and happened to come across our profile. There’s been a few awkward conversations and blocking over the years |
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By *wiggy2112Woman
over a year ago
some where in Yorkshire |
My big Sis knows and a few close friends… although I have recognised a few family members recognised by tattoos and a few friends lol ……I would never tell them I know it’s their lives … I also ran the “Bradford Socials” which was interesting when people I knew attended ….I still have my suspicions about my parents as they had a number of “friends” haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a couple of my partners family know about fab and all my friends that know I’m poly know about it. But my family no lol. They don’t even know I’m poly. |
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