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Grabbing someone’s attention is a tricky one; sometimes people just aren’t in the mood to be grabbed by a stranger.
Far better to follow my tactic of gradually being noticed. Another 5 or 6 years and it should start bearing fruit  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi ladies how does a man grab your attention "
If I get a pleasant message, I will probably check out the profile & go from there, because it doesn't matter how great the message is if I don't see anything that attracts me in the pics, preferencesor bio, I won't bother.
I also don't need to see 50 dick pics - a guy who actually smiles in at least 1 face pic will more likely get a message back!! |
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over a year ago
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"Grabbing someone’s attention is a tricky one; sometimes people just aren’t in the mood to be grabbed by a stranger.
Far better to follow my tactic of gradually being noticed. Another 5 or 6 years and it should start bearing fruit "
 can't be too hasty now |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Grabbing someone’s attention is a tricky one; sometimes people just aren’t in the mood to be grabbed by a stranger.
Far better to follow my tactic of gradually being noticed. Another 5 or 6 years and it should start bearing fruit "
the long game |
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"Grabbing someone’s attention is a tricky one; sometimes people just aren’t in the mood to be grabbed by a stranger.
Far better to follow my tactic of gradually being noticed. Another 5 or 6 years and it should start bearing fruit
can't be too hasty now"
You’re right, I’m rushing it, aren’t I?  |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies "
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins."
I do like your little jokes. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins."
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive! 
A |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A"
Awww, that's amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good sense of humour.
Can hold a regular conversation.
Isn't pushy.
Has read my/our profile and fits what I'm/we are looking for.
Doesn't send a dick pic.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By being hot as fuck and sarcastic "
I am two types of hot right now.
Ones very objective and ones more subjective. Ffs my only fan isn't even plugged in. Fml.
Also, mildly sarcastic. You're welcome. |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A"
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
•
Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now "
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A"
I wore her out, she just wasn't upto the task I guess
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
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I do like your little jokes. "
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Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!".  |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
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I do like your little jokes.
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Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!". "
She likes it when you slip her little treats, not so much when it's chocolate in the bed and you forget to tell her you left her something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
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I do like your little jokes.
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Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!". "
You could slap those people couldn't you? |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
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I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A"
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Congratulations!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So helicoptering with a smile.
While being sarcastic.
Fuck me, you ladies are just too easy to please. Give me five minutes. I need to go helicopter. And then put a over the top.
Drowning in minge in ten.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So helicoptering with a smile.
While being sarcastic.
Fuck me, you ladies are just too easy to please. Give me five minutes. I need to go helicopter. And then put a over the top.
Drowning in minge in ten. "
You forgot the hot as fuck bit.... |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
·
I do like your little jokes.
•
Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!".
She likes it when you slip her little treats, not so much when it's chocolate in the bed and you forget to tell her you left her something "
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Oi, my treat isn't •that• little! |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
·
I do like your little jokes.
•
Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!".
You could slap those people couldn't you?"
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I often do. Usually after I've made love to them.  |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
•
Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
·
I do like your little jokes.
•
Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!".
She likes it when you slip her little treats, not so much when it's chocolate in the bed and you forget to tell her you left her something
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Oi, my treat isn't •that• little! "
I'm not bigging up your treat Nero |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
•
Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
·
I do like your little jokes.
•
Don't think for one picosecond that I'm going to PM you on the back of your remark, only for you then to publically retort "Keep it to the thread please!".
You could slap those people couldn't you?
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I often do. Usually after I've made love to them. "
"Made love"...do we not have a slapping emoji yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So helicoptering with a smile.
While being sarcastic.
Fuck me, you ladies are just too easy to please. Give me five minutes. I need to go helicopter. And then put a over the top.
Drowning in minge in ten.
You forgot the hot as fuck bit...."
took that as read... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grabbing someone’s attention is a tricky one; sometimes people just aren’t in the mood to be grabbed by a stranger.
Far better to follow my tactic of gradually being noticed. Another 5 or 6 years and it should start bearing fruit
can't be too hasty now
You’re right, I’m rushing it, aren’t I? "
You must be a few years deep by now, keep pushing on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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proper message, face picture attached (he was wearing a suit), asked a question in the message to get a response (not rude), made me smile
thats how my man got my attention 2 1/2 years ago on here
Mrs |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A"
That's actually happened to me  |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A
That's actually happened to me "
And did you freak out or go all first aid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By being them
No fake pretend waffle
Naughty mind
Sarcastic humour
Good manners
Uniform is a plus
Almost like you were talking about me and then you got to the uniform "
..you have a toga though, could be an exception |
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"By being them
No fake pretend waffle
Naughty mind
Sarcastic humour
Good manners
Uniform is a plus
Almost like you were talking about me and then you got to the uniform
..you have a toga though, could be an exception "
This is true and some nice suits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By being them
No fake pretend waffle
Naughty mind
Sarcastic humour
Good manners
Uniform is a plus
Almost like you were talking about me and then you got to the uniform
..you have a toga though, could be an exception
This is true and some nice suits "
Birthday Suit? |
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"By being them
No fake pretend waffle
Naughty mind
Sarcastic humour
Good manners
Uniform is a plus
Almost like you were talking about me and then you got to the uniform
..you have a toga though, could be an exception
This is true and some nice suits
Birthday Suit? "
That's one of them |
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Making me laugh is a good start, being able to hold a decent conversation , having a naughty twinkle in their eye ... if they were to flirt with me even better but I'm rubbish at realising it do you'd have to be extra obvious lol |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A
That's actually happened to me
And did you freak out or go all first aid "
I went all first aid but had to take him to A&E because it wouldn't stop bleeding |
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"I could have really helped you out OP but you only want help from ladies
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Totally agree. You're only going to get anecdotal evidence from the ladies and not cold hard evidence based upon real life experiences by us men / gentlemen / geezers / knights / paladins.
I'm keeping shtum. I mean, having ended up marrying someone I met on here I'm probably a terrible person to ask advice on how to grab someone's attention.
Weddings are fucking expensive!
A
I got a lucky break after 6 months, who knows how messy my account would look now
Is that a euphemism for 'snapped my banjo string, bled everywhere, she freaked out and I've never heard from her again' ?
A
That's actually happened to me
And did you freak out or go all first aid
I went all first aid but had to take him to A&E because it wouldn't stop bleeding "
Well my cock hurts now |
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