I’m looking for some socials rather than clubs where me and my sub can socialise in a public environment with others in the lifestyle. Around the east midlands, does anyone have any ideas ?
You’re looking for munches more than a social I’d guess. A munch is a social for the kink community.
If you look on fet, you’ll find appropriate listings
You'll need to check elsewhere for munches. But Manchester / Leeds areas etc there is many different ones. Some with particular focus to them ...so do the research.