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would you believe it?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I attended a club for the very first time last night and as we were being shown round, I bumped into a mom from my Childs school! Obviously I was a bit embarrassed and she reassured me that she would not tell a tone and, of course, I never would but how can you really know for sure?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

sadly you won't know. Hope it works out, probably will be okay.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You roll the dice and take ya' chances.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"You roll the dice and take ya' chances."

They play Monopoly in some swingers clubs?.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well she was there too so surely she's in the same boat as you.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"You roll the dice and take ya' chances.

They play Monopoly in some swingers clubs?.....

Some try to... but eventually get pushed out of the way for others to have a go.

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

Same thing happened to me at local club a few years back,mum from my son's preschool....

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

She was there for the same reason as you so I wouldnt worry too much about it tbh

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

the discretion in Clubs is the same as on here, some have it....... others NOT

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By *dynlisaCouple over a year ago

Notts

Don't be affried she will not say anything she not like that you enjoyed yourself so please come again x x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

she's probably wondering the same thing about you

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By *asey369Woman over a year ago

London

I got a message on here with photos shortly after I joined from someone who I was "holding hands" with last year. I replied and told him that it was me as felt only fair. It's in neither of our interests to kiss n tell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What exactly would she say?

"I was at this swingers club and you'll never guess who I saw?!?! "

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" What exactly would she say?

"I was at this swingers club and you'll never guess who I saw?!?! "

That seems to be what quite a few people do say.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I attended a club for the very first time last night and as we were being shown round, I bumped into a mom from my Childs school! Obviously I was a bit embarrassed and she reassured me that she would not tell a tone and, of course, I never would but how can you really know for sure?"

You won't know for sure, of course but chances are that the other person is not keen on revealing her own activities and by implication she would. I would say in situaitons like this I ask myself what is the worst case scenario, outcome for me?

Probably not anywhere near as bad as the worrying about it.