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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. |
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
You could always use your filters to stop guys messaging you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
Blocking men also works. Then you can still just message the ones you like. |
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"I don’t want to block 90% of the site because every so often a nice one pops up that I wouldn’t have necessarily messaged and then I’d have missed out "
But the nice ones may also be put off by the current situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to block 90% of the site because every so often a nice one pops up that I wouldn’t have necessarily messaged and then I’d have missed out
But the nice ones may also be put off by the current situation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold "
Horrible isn’t it? It seems unless you’ve been on the receiving end of that shit people don’t seem to get it  |
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"Horrible isn’t it? It seems unless you’ve been on the receiving end of that shit people don’t seem to get it "
Fundamentally, people believe that everyone thinks the same as they do, they just can’t imagine how a small percentage of the population treat women.
Even if it’s 5% who act like that, it’s many hundreds of blokes here
As for the others who have that dynamic, I agree with the other posts - why wouldn’t you let people know what you’re in to to save everyone’s time? |
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold
Horrible isn’t it? It seems unless you’ve been on the receiving end of that shit people don’t seem to get it "
Anything you can do to filter out even one or two percent of these types of messages has to be worth it.. some people are really grim so protecting yourself from them seems pretty common sense.
The good profiles will always find a way to the top.
The problem needs to fixed at the source though. |
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"There's nothing more pathetic in a woman when I read that tripe in a profile."
Theres nothing more pathetic than a middle aged man ripping down anothers kink because he doesn't get it. Maybe it's just a jealousy thing when they knock you back as well though. |
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
Bloody hell! That's awful I'm so sorry you got such awful messages. Jennifer TV sounds amazing.. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
Bloody hell! That's awful I'm so sorry you got such awful messages. Jennifer TV sounds amazing.. x"
Nah.
She's a bit of a dick to be fair. |
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
Bloody hell! That's awful I'm so sorry you got such awful messages. Jennifer TV sounds amazing.. x
Nah.
She's a bit of a dick to be fair. "
This ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
Bloody hell! That's awful I'm so sorry you got such awful messages. Jennifer TV sounds amazing.. x"
She’s a legend  |
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"Kink shaming's pretty up there on the list, though. this...OP why belittle something ypu clearly don't understand....
Doesn't make the woman pathetic by any means x "
Lack of understanding I don't mind. It's the choice to jump to a negative conclusion that I struggle with.
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"Kink shaming's pretty up there on the list, though. this...OP why belittle something ypu clearly don't understand....
Doesn't make the woman pathetic by any means x
Lack of understanding I don't mind. It's the choice to jump to a negative conclusion that I struggle with.
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Yes like all submissives are vulnerable damaged goods..  |
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
Bloody hell! That's awful I'm so sorry you got such awful messages. Jennifer TV sounds amazing.. x
Nah.
She's a bit of a dick to be fair. "
And I've just really bloody autocorrect changed Jennie to Jennifer... so sorry JennieTV... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
I would have thought some of these messages threatening violence could be reported and the perpetrators banned. Did you report them..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's their profile, their bio and their life. Taking the piss, slagging them off or just calling it pathetic is out of order.
It shows a small mentality, everyone is into all sorts and shouldn't be put down because of it. Especially on a site like this where we are encouraged to be ourselves, even if it is sex obsessed dirty fuckers.
TL:DR
Don't be a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
I would have thought some of these messages threatening violence could be reported and the perpetrators banned. Did you report them..?"
Yes I report all the abusive ones and block the senders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't get it, it's not for you.
There are many things I don't get, like having no pictures or just the one unclear picture available to see in their profile, when they hope to appeal to others, but hey. (Shrugs)
Concentrate on your own efforts, not others efforts that don't match your requirements.
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
In a D/S or M/S dynamic, being owned by Dom or a Master is an important part of a submissives life, it gives her safety and security, it gives her direction and purpose and fulfills specific needs. The fact that he or she will publicly state they are owned is a mark of respect to the person who they have submitted to fully.
If you don't like that move on, if you don't understand the dynamic do some research. Kink shaming is not acceptable.
Ownership is the greatest gift a submissive can give to dom/me or Master/Mistress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’. "
Fuck that’s beyond horrid.
I’m so sorry but not at all surprised. Lots of love and solidarity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold
Horrible isn’t it? It seems unless you’ve been on the receiving end of that shit people don’t seem to get it
Anything you can do to filter out even one or two percent of these types of messages has to be worth it.. some people are really grim so protecting yourself from them seems pretty common sense.
The good profiles will always find a way to the top.
The problem needs to fixed at the source though. "
I have filters on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
I would have thought some of these messages threatening violence could be reported and the perpetrators banned. Did you report them..?"
Reporting and blocking is not really mitigating. It’s a reactive measure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold "
lots of love |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to block 90% of the site because every so often a nice one pops up that I wouldn’t have necessarily messaged and then I’d have missed out
FOMO is strong in this one."
I don't read any fear in what she's doing.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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It’s not for me, feels a little bit attention seeking on a swinging site for a single profile, probably more appropriate on a BDSM site or a couples profile , especially when they say Daddy reads all the messages etc and chooses the guys, well isn’t that against a the T%C’s effectively its a fake account.
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Put up a status or write something on your profile then it’s up for criticism. But that’s as far as I’d go for defending doing the actual criticism out loud (like on a forum post) or to that person directly.
Plenty of stuff I disagree with or actually find repulsive but as long as it’s legal and not hurting anyone, then it’s non of my business.
Whatever happened to #bekind |
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"There's nothing more pathetic in a woman when I read that tripe in a profile."
Not to worry, OP, I (and it seems many others) think there’s nothing more pathetic than someone starting an ill-informed thread to either kink shame or criticise a tactic for dealing with the morons on this site.
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"It’s not for me, feels a little bit attention seeking on a swinging site for a single profile, probably more appropriate on a BDSM site or a couples profile , especially when they say Daddy reads all the messages etc and chooses the guys, well isn’t that against a the T%C’s effectively its a fake account.
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No. It isn’t a fake account. It’s a bona fide account with a real person. They have simply chosen, as is their right and desire, to handover control of the administration to a trusted ‘owner’. As long as it’s within site rules people can and should do exactly what they like on fab.
Whether or not that tactic works for them or they are on the right site is their business. |
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What about the pathetic ones that come on here looking for acceptance and tolerance… in a safe environment and get twatty people demeaning their preferences ….based on their bigoted/biased/ignorant views…. Awful people!!! #roomforeveryone |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"Put up a status or write something on your profile then it’s up for criticism. But that’s as far as I’d go for defending doing the actual criticism out loud (like on a forum post) or to that person directly.
Plenty of stuff I disagree with or actually find repulsive but as long as it’s legal and not hurting anyone, then it’s non of my business.
Whatever happened to #bekind "
Bekind of a dick you mean. These posts aren't uncommon though, there was another last week where the poster was discussing the content of a mans profile. |
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"Put up a status or write something on your profile then it’s up for criticism. But that’s as far as I’d go for defending doing the actual criticism out loud (like on a forum post) or to that person directly.
Plenty of stuff I disagree with or actually find repulsive but as long as it’s legal and not hurting anyone, then it’s non of my business.
Whatever happened to #bekind
Bekind of a dick you mean. These posts aren't uncommon though, there was another last week where the poster was discussing the content of a mans profile."
I got a forum ban for that and I was trying to be helpful, certainly stopped my Be Kind attitude, as I think it was that person who reported me.  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold "
Just wow ,that's horrible |
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"Wanna know why I’ve done it?
To minimise the 100s of stupid messages I was getting every single day. And when I say stupid I mean rude, abusive and downright nasty.
My beautiful friend Jennie TV suggested I do it to keep the crap out and on the whole it’s worked wonders. Now I can message people I like the look of and she has a lovely time ing through the ones who message her asking for permission to meet me.
If you think keeping my sanity in one piece is ‘pathetic’ then tell me how you’d feel if your wife/sister/daughter was receiving messages on the daily telling her she’s fat/ugly/shouldn’t be on here/needs to go to a gym, deserves r@ping/choking/slapping etc and see if you still think keeping myself a lot safer with the help of a good friend is ‘pathetic’.
This is such great idea.. I had a message last month from a stranger telling me that they had been thinking a lot about r*ping me and when could we meet ... It really made me go cold
Just wow ,that's horrible "
It's not often I'm (A) lost for words, but this is one of those moments......
Just why....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's nothing more pathetic in a woman when I read that tripe in a profile."
If you think it's pathetic just ignore it and move on but don't kink shame people
We all have different kinks we're sure that your into stuff we have no interest in yet we just say live and let live. |
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OK I'll jump in the whole point about is its about a woman's choice to be who ever she wants to be .if she says she owned its her choice her decision none of the op
Business . but sad to hear fluffy putting it because of idiots who sent her abusive messages .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's nothing more pathetic in a woman when I read that tripe in a profile."
Hmmm ...but to the person that's saying that it's absolutely beautiful to them , when a person meets " the one " .. regardless of being here , no one or nothing will ever reach where that person that owns them will ..on both sides..they are just inseparable..yes they might fuck and want to fuck others but no one will ever reach where they are together...that's owned . |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"It’s not for me, feels a little bit attention seeking on a swinging site for a single profile, probably more appropriate on a BDSM site or a couples profile , especially when they say Daddy reads all the messages etc and chooses the guys, well isn’t that against a the T%C’s effectively its a fake account.
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If the person meets on their own, the it should be a singles profile, no matter who reads the messages first. (hell last time I had a couple's profile I was the only one reading messages but the profile said it was himself)
As to why those of us who also like BDSM are on here..
There is a crossover between swinging and BDSM yes. But it's not huge, a lot of people on the BDSM scene are monogamous, when I first joined clubs and even house parties were kink play but completely no sexual contact, even in private.
Attitudes have changed quite a bit but there are still a lot that don't involve sex in their BDSM play...
Oh and some of us even do vanilla sex and swinging while still maintaining a long term relationship dynamic... but don't tell too many people or I'll lose my 'uber supereme kinky bitch' card. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not for me, feels a little bit attention seeking on a swinging site for a single profile, probably more appropriate on a BDSM site or a couples profile , especially when they say Daddy reads all the messages etc and chooses the guys, well isn’t that against a the T%C’s effectively its a fake account.
No. It isn’t a fake account. It’s a bona fide account with a real person. They have simply chosen, as is their right and desire, to handover control of the administration to a trusted ‘owner’. As long as it’s within site rules people can and should do exactly what they like on fab.
Whether or not that tactic works for them or they are on the right site is their business."
Not if a man is reading all the messages , it’s no different to a fake account.
You shouldn’t give any one your password , not even your big daddy , it’s against the rules it’s called impersonation
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OP please don't criticise what you dont understand.
I am currently owned and state this on my profile.
I am in a very strong long term D/s dynamic but I do meet with others alone for more vanilla type fun.
I have it on my profile as although we don't meet as a couple he is always fully aware of who I meeting with, where and when, this is part of my safety net when meeting.
If someone isn't happy with me sharing this info with my Dom for my own safety then I won't meet with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't help but feel there's a theme to OP's threads.
I'm not sure why, but flaming comes to mind. (Shrugs)
Can we please have the Shrug and Facepalm emoji added?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not for me, feels a little bit attention seeking on a swinging site for a single profile, probably more appropriate on a BDSM site or a couples profile , especially when they say Daddy reads all the messages etc and chooses the guys, well isn’t that against a the T%C’s effectively its a fake account.
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I'm curious......
How is saying you're owned on a swinging site as opposed to a BDSM site or couples profile attention seeking?
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"There's nothing more pathetic in a woman when I read that tripe in a profile."
Before you start belittling others for their lifestyle choices and their profiles maybe take a look at your own…
It’s ’rebuttal’ by the way… I don’t think rebuffel is actually a word…
The owned thing, while not for me (but I find fascinating), is very liberating for subs - often Doms will make day to day decisions for them - spending money, lifestyle choices, what car insurance… For those that get anxious about such things, being able to hand them off must be glorious. It’s not all about being tied up and flogged you know |
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