 |
By *Eladyluck OP Woman
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
So
Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...
Followed an hour later with a can you talk
Followed just now with a at least you can reply
...
Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...
As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...
Sick of ignorant and rude people.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So
Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...
Followed an hour later with a can you talk
Followed just now with a at least you can reply
...
Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...
As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...
Sick of ignorant and rude people...."
Hope you feel better and hope you've blocked the fellow - he doesn't sound like he's worth the worry and stress x
Apparently there's a friends only inbox feature which is newish I believe, so hopefully that will help. 
xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So
Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...
Followed an hour later with a can you talk
Followed just now with a at least you can reply
...
Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...
As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...
Sick of ignorant and rude people...."
Yeah I’d say block them tbh. From what you’ve described it doesn’t sound good whoever they are  x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So
Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...
Followed an hour later with a can you talk
Followed just now with a at least you can reply
..."
This is just how guys apply for the insta-block collection program. Think of it like autograph hunting at a comic con.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I had something similar for a guy he sent a message saying "Hi" then "???" " reply" "????" " Another timewaster" all in the space of 2 mins, after which he blocked me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don’t know if people notice they’re messaging the same profile. I have the same few guys copy and paste the same message to me at least once every two weeks, despite when they first get into contact, I was kind enough to reply by letting them know I’m straight and I wouldn’t entertain the idea of a meet with them.
But I guess they’re hoping one day I change my mind. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So
Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...
Followed an hour later with a can you talk
Followed just now with a at least you can reply
...
Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...
As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...
Sick of ignorant and rude people...."
Gleefully block then do the block dance of satisfaction after go on about your day as they no longer exist. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
