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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck  "
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure |
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure "
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol |
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol"
Yeah I'm sure you will but once you get chatting to everyone you will be fine, ill be there about half nine I think x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol
Yeah I'm sure you will but once you get chatting to everyone you will be fine, ill be there about half nine I think x"
I'm there 8.30, hopefully nerves will be gone by 9.30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol
Yeah I'm sure you will but once you get chatting to everyone you will be fine, ill be there about half nine I think x
I'm there 8.30, hopefully nerves will be gone by 9.30 "
Might be there a bit earlier depending what time someone arrives at the hotel and if we come straight to the club  |
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol"
Your trembling hands may actually come in useful 
Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol"
Your trembling hands may actually come in useful
Enjoy! |
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"I dont know what the club is like or the layout, but you will probely be really nervous just when you are about to go in and then suddenly you will be ok. We want a report back lol"
I will definitely report back |
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
Wish me luck
You won't need luck
Looking forward to it now and you will be well looked after I'm sure
I'm starting to get excited now, though sure will have racing heart and trembling hands when first arrive lol
Your trembling hands may actually come in useful
Enjoy! "
Thank you, I will |
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Feed back for those that asked.
Had a great time, would recomend Xotix to anyone that wants to go. Plenty play rooms, really friendly staff and crowd.
Well worth a visit |
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"Feed back for those that asked.
Had a great time, would recomend Xotix to anyone that wants to go. Plenty play rooms, really friendly staff and crowd.
Well worth a visit "
Glad you had fun!! |
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"Feed back for those that asked.
Had a great time, would recomend Xotix to anyone that wants to go. Plenty play rooms, really friendly staff and crowd.
Well worth a visit
Glad you had fun!! "
Can highly recommend, hope you get your club visit soon x |
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"Going to my first club at weekend, nervous, but excited.
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Ooh good luck hunny I so wish I were brave enough "
A few weeks ago felt the same as you, but glad I bucked up the courage. Once through door any jitters I had went out of the window |
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It sounds very tempting. Can I ask a naive question? I assume you walk in like to a bar or something all fully clothed and there'd lockers and changing rooms, and women can walk round in sexy lingerie, what about the guys? Do they get a towel, wear their boxers or nothing, walking round from room to room to bar? |
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"It sounds very tempting. Can I ask a naive question? I assume you walk in like to a bar or something all fully clothed and there'd lockers and changing rooms, and women can walk round in sexy lingerie, what about the guys? Do they get a towel, wear their boxers or nothing, walking round from room to room to bar? "
Majority of clubs men wear a towel or their undies. |
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"Julie: thanks. "
Some clubs are dressed in the social areas - my local club is like a pub/nightclub downstairs and you can stay dressed or change to a towel/undies and then when you go to play areas single women and couples can stay dressed, single guys are asked to be in towel/undies.
This means if you're nervous you can be nervous in your clothes as you chat to people, have a drink, mingle etc before you strip. |
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I've not been to a swingers club for an actual swinging night, but I have been on a fet night. It worked in the same way that there was a social area separate from the play areas. It was lots of fun |
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"Julie: thanks.
Some clubs are dressed in the social areas - my local club is like a pub/nightclub downstairs and you can stay dressed or change to a towel/undies and then when you go to play areas single women and couples can stay dressed, single guys are asked to be in towel/undies.
This means if you're nervous you can be nervous in your clothes as you chat to people, have a drink, mingle etc before you strip. "
I think the moral is to read the club rules and FAQ beforehand lol.  |
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"It sounds very tempting. Can I ask a naive question? I assume you walk in like to a bar or something all fully clothed and there'd lockers and changing rooms, and women can walk round in sexy lingerie, what about the guys? Do they get a towel, wear their boxers or nothing, walking round from room to room to bar? "
Abfabs allows everyone to choose how they want to be , either fully dressed , naked or anything in between |
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"It sounds very tempting. Can I ask a naive question? I assume you walk in like to a bar or something all fully clothed and there'd lockers and changing rooms, and women can walk round in sexy lingerie, what about the guys? Do they get a towel, wear their boxers or nothing, walking round from room to room to bar? "
At xotix can stay dressed until you go into play rooms |
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