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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do feel that it is rude that people request face pic when contact is made when they themselves do not have a face pic .we all know what we are here for "
If I message first I'll include one, if they send one first and they're not what I'm seeking I don't send one back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all do things differently here, with different concerns.
We put off sharing face pics untill later on, I realise many have other preferences.
We're not shy at any point to say no thank you, be that before or after sharing face pics, and we're happy to converse, not seeing it as a waste of time.
I think some here don't want to connect to avoid offering or receiving rejection after a face pic swap, and so see that as an important early step. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are always happy to share our faces in private with people who fit with what we are looking for, we just don't need them in public, we used too until some dickhead shouted across a packed resteraunt to try and out us. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"We do feel that it is rude that people request face pic when contact is made when they themselves do not have a face pic .we all know what we are here for
If I message first I'll include one, if they send one first and they're not what I'm seeking I don't send one back "
I think the OP point is those that don't have and don't send a face pic prior to requesting you send one. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
The thing is some women are inundated with mail & they prefer to have a filter to sorry out the ones they're attracted to.
If it's not for you,just don't message them.
Like others have said I'll happily share my mugshot with people I've spoken to a while and think I'd be interested in.I don't demand a face pic first message though and use filters to keep mail low . |
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"We do feel that it is rude that people request face pic when contact is made when they themselves do not have a face pic .we all know what we are here for "
We generally don’t reply to first messages without photos. They either change their mind and message again with a photo or everyone moves on and lives happily ever after
Even if people do send face pics it doesn’t guarantee a response. If we aren’t feeling it then what’s the point |
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The thing I’m here for involves seeing faces and finding them attractive. "
What Mr Pickle said!
I know a lot of people feel differently, but we are much more interested in a nice smile than a 6 pack 
I always include face pics in a first message. The only time I would hesitate to send them is if the person lived local to us, or wasn't well verified.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do feel that it is rude that people request face pic when contact is made when they themselves do not have a face pic .we all know what we are here for "
Why. What are you here for? And I’ll tell you if it’s the same what I’m here for. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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I'll exchange face pics if the conversation warrants it. But asking for a face pic on the first message is an abuse of privilege imo. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.
And if they don't even have any private pictures and a scant profile, then my response goes from 'no' to 'fuck no'. |
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