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Who should own the toys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm naive yes, you don't have to tell me lol
A couple owns toys. They are their toys. A women owns toys for her use. A man owns toys for his use
I have seen profiles and been pm'd previously where a gent will say he has toys for a woman's pleasure that he brings along. My question is
Would you prefer to use your own toys? Is this something that would make you colour flag the gent?
My example is a fella but I'm sure it's a two way situation |
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I'd never use anyone else's toys. I don't know how they clean them (or if) and certain chemicals can cause an allergic reaction in me and it just feels wrong to me which I'm happy to admit is illogical |
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"I'm naive yes, you don't have to tell me lol
A couple owns toys. They are their toys. A women owns toys for her use. A man owns toys for his use
I have seen profiles and been pm'd previously where a gent will say he has toys for a woman's pleasure that he brings along. My question is
Would you prefer to use your own toys? Is this something that would make you colour flag the gent?
My example is a fella but I'm sure it's a two way situation"
New relationship, new toys boxed & sealed, then left with the woman whether your time together is for a day or a lifetime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that my toys are always clean, but did have to dust off the last two toys I got out as no had asked for sex swing and fucking machine for over 6 months. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't ever use someone else's toys. I'd assume they weren't clean.
Always use condoms with toys and change the condom if using on a new person.
If some man says he has toys to use on other people I'd find it really weird. Avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....
What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.
How would you deal with the situation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....
What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.
How would you deal with the situation?"
If they had verifications showing I wouldn't have met them in the first place.
I would make an excuse and leave if they turned up with a backpack full.
One or two and I'd explain that I don't like toys. I did this recently and it was fine. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I own my own toys and I've no interest I using anyone else's. I do find it off putting when people have pics of all theirs toys they want to use on others on here.There is no way to tell that they would be cleaned right between uses so I have no interest in using others toys.
And if someone turned up with a backpack of toys expecting to use them on me without even mentioning it first I would see that as massive red flag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....
What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.
How would you deal with the situation?"
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....
What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.
How would you deal with the situation?"
Strong no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience "
You had to put that in didn't you and ruin my dreams. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally someone’s asked the question 
I’ve always said I’ll absolutely never use someone else’s toys!! Doesn’t matter to me if they’ve been bleach washed and spun round the garden on the washing line, they ain’t coming near me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience
You had to put that in didn't you and ruin my dreams. "
Well all you would need to do is let me know beforehand   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t trust someone to clean them properly. My own toys or not at all.
Mrs
Not even if I say the magic "trust me bro" ?!  "
I mean, if you say that, how could I not trust that. Clearly a reflection of how trustworthy you are
Mrs |
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Total turn off for me.
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