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By *U4BDSM OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi All.
I am what I call a Switch. In other words, I am happy to lightly Dom some people, but also happy to enjoy the sub role, again within reason.
I have some pix on my profile of Mild BDSM but this seems to automatically make others think I am a Top.
Am I the only one that likes both roles |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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So you don't get a hard time OP.
I wouldn't say I'm submissive or dominant, I'm more a person who loves sex and the various forms it can take. I'm probably closer to switch than either D or s.
I think it depends on the dynamic I have with someone really.
And photos do have an effect on the messages you receive, definitely.
I imagine if I had one with my legs spread apart, fucking myself with a dildo I'd get messages saying "Cor, I wish I could replace that". :D |
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Seems odd to be closed to any human experience, or to find no vivacity and tingle in variety. Not suggesting some people don't have things that leave them cold, or that all of us are without devices and desires and work their particular magic on us, but a little bit of switch is surely the default. Sometimes one person takes the lead, sometimes another. Odd for it to be always the same, whether it's sex or cooking, making a decision about where to go out to or what to talk about. |
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"Seems odd to be closed to any human experience, or to find no vivacity and tingle in variety. Not suggesting some people don't have things that leave them cold, or that all of us are without devices and desires and work their particular magic on us, but a little bit of switch is surely the default. Sometimes one person takes the lead, sometimes another. Odd for it to be always the same, whether it's sex or cooking, making a decision about where to go out to or what to talk about."
I'm assuming he's taking about sex only, we don't all switch. I'm more than happy to let my partner drive now and then when I have one but in the bedroom I take the lead and sometimes literally |
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To be honest OP I would have wrongly presumed sub looking at your photos. However, if I take the messages we receive I'd say more men are looking for Tops than subs. Maybe putting on your profile that you are a switch may help |
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