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"During sex " And who finds it disgusting | |||
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"During sex And who finds it disgusting " Hi. That would be me. I personally find it gross. | |||
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"My partners hate it. So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl "It just not funny ... | |||
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"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo " | |||
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"My partners hate it. So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl "Brilliant!!! | |||
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"My partners hate it. So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl
It just not funny ..."Hey, you laughed  | |||
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"My partners hate it. So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl
It just not funny ...
Hey, you laughed "Haha...to be fair your timing and vice acting was on point  | |||
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"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "Just as well I am really interested in your culinary skills | |||
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"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "I hope daddy is fair and not too strict. | |||
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"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "• Sooooo... we're having Afternoon Tea. I want to see your submissive pinky finger against my domineering teacup.  | |||
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"I don't mind it. But I'm perfectly capable of separation between the two meanings and comfortable with the context in which it is used. " F*** me harder daddy kind of context hehe | |||
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Hahahaha I can dream! She calls me dickhead 99.9% of the time 
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder." People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle." So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?" Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term. | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder." Hey babe | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."  | |||
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"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run " How many guys call you Daddy Nora?  | |||
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"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run How many guys call you Daddy Nora? "Everyone knows I’m the Daddy Woody | |||
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"During sex " My dad he loves it... | |||
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"During sex My dad he loves it..."  | |||
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"During sex My dad he loves it... "He's a naughty man Nora | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming " | |||
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"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run How many guys call you Daddy Nora?
Everyone knows I’m the Daddy Woody"Boom!!! | |||
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"Never had it. Probably would let's face it, this is me I'm talking about here " I’ll do it for ya | |||
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Maybe someone else, but probs not | |||
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"I like it because my wife likes it. Or Sir, that works just as well. "Ufh sir, I’m gonna try that one out | |||
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"During sex " I always call my owner either Sir or daddy depending on our play dynamic at the time. | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming " The call of those who don't like difference or challenge - " Oh you just don't get it! How dare you shame me." If they can't legitimise what they believe the call someone out. It'd be much healthier for them to KNOW and OWN the reasons why they do what they do whoever they are and whatever it is what they do do do do you remember..... | |||
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"Never had it. Probably would let's face it, this is me I'm talking about here I’ll do it for ya" I bet you would | |||
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"During sex I always call my owner either Sir or daddy depending on our play dynamic at the time." Yeah see this is hot. Sorry everyone I'm on team daddy now she convinced me | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder." It’s a term that works for us. | |||
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"I like it. Yeah, I know it's not a popular opinion and all that, I don't really care. Blame it on the daddy issues, the clichéd millennial a la Fleabag. It's not something I'd use with everyone, not every dynamic suits it. Actually, it's rare I find someone where it works. It's not even in a ddlg way, it's just hot to say "fuck me harder daddy" when I'm gripping on to the bedsheets and him fucking me harder results in me coming around his cock and him filling me. " Girl after our own hearts  | |||
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"During sex And who finds it disgusting " There really was no need for that. Disgusting people find lots of things disgusting , it’s just how they are | |||
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"I like it. Yeah, I know it's not a popular opinion and all that, I don't really care. Blame it on the daddy issues, the clichéd millennial a la Fleabag. It's not something I'd use with everyone, not every dynamic suits it. Actually, it's rare I find someone where it works. It's not even in a ddlg way, it's just hot to say "fuck me harder daddy" when I'm gripping on to the bedsheets and him fucking me harder results in me coming around his cock and him filling me. " yeah like that.  | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming " The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679. It is essentially a protector and caregiver role. Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different. | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679. It is essentially a protector and caregiver role. Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different." Actually a great detailed informative reply hasn't changed my stance on the subject but genuinely thanks for a little insight into It, it's maybe a little less weird now however I would argue that a lot of people don't know these meanings and just like being called "daddy". For me it will always be a term used from a child towards there father | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679. It is essentially a protector and caregiver role. Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different." Very much this. It has all to do with the meaning behind it and little with being the same word . I understand the concept is not for everyone and you might attribute it to “Daddy” issues if you will, but I find it a really sexy and concise way of calling a nurturing and protective kind of Dom.  | |||
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"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom." Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no. | |||
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"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom. Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no. " But when Rio from Good Girls called Elizabeth ‘mama’ everyone was melting on the socials | |||
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679. It is essentially a protector and caregiver role. Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different. Actually a great detailed informative reply hasn't changed my stance on the subject but genuinely thanks for a little insight into It, it's maybe a little less weird now however I would argue that a lot of people don't know these meanings and just like being called "daddy". For me it will always be a term used from a child towards there father " Oh I agree, there will be people out there that do have sinister motives for enjoying it. The majority of the community that like it don't have these motives though regardless of knowing its origins or not - it's still used to refer to the guardian and protector role in their dynamic. Some will simply do it for the taboo of the whole thing. "we shouldn't but we will" is a kink in and of itself. For me, I have no personal connection to the word. I'm just wired differently and can separate the meanings of words based on their context use and not their surface meaning. I view things from all angles, in and out of a vaccum. Plus my ex is an American of Puerto Rican heritage, and used to call me Papi so even less of a personal parental connection to that word. Which was used as a term of love and endearment in both sexual and none sexual situations, as somebody she cared for, and felt protected and supported by. | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place "Tartan skirt and call me sir? | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir? "Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up "Your arse would be raw  | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw "And you call that punishment? | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw
And you call that punishment? "It all depends how you look at it | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw
And you call that punishment?
It all depends how you look at it "Funishment is how I'd look at it | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw
And you call that punishment?
It all depends how you look at it
Funishment is how I'd look at it "Gold star for using a big word | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place "I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all. | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."You are certainly not alone in that thought | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."Though her point is that some people (most people to be fair) are very selective in what they deem appropriate. And that spans across the entire kink community. We all do it in someway, but some are very hypocritical yet very stoic and stubborn of their views. You can't like that because reasons, but this thing I like is perfectly acceptable, despite a few similar connecting links. | |||
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw
And you call that punishment?
It all depends how you look at it
Funishment is how I'd look at it
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
Tartan skirt and call me sir?
Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up
Your arse would be raw
And you call that punishment?
It all depends how you look at it
Funishment is how I'd look at it
Gold star for using a big word
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"Why do these things always get hijacked. Maybe start a voyeur online flirting thread." Can post whatever one likes from flirting to criticism as long as they adhere to the forum rules. I happen to like mixing serious thoughts with a bit of silliness thrown in. | |||
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"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy” It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it. I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy. I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either! "Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves | |||
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"Why do these things always get hijacked. Maybe start a voyeur online flirting thread." Damn those people talking on a social thread, how rude | |||
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"Having a ponder as you do at lunch. I understand some of the views about the usage of the word daddy and or mammy as things only ones children should use. But that's not strictly true as a poster mentioned the older usage of the words as caregivers. But we do use it in other context, we use Dad bod to describe a particular physique. I know many vanilla as vanilla can be friends who call their friends sexy mamma on their social platforms. So I do query if these words are that limited in their use? " They’re not. I agree. But I think it’s mostly people that are called those things or call their parents those things that have an issue. I think it’s just the sexualising of it that people don’t like. I sometimes feel that way about the way naughty and I’ve said on here before it’s why I don’t use the word play to describe sex. | |||
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"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. " Tell us how you don’t understand kink without telling us you don’t understand kink. | |||
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"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. " About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon | |||
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"Having a ponder as you do at lunch. I understand some of the views about the usage of the word daddy and or mammy as things only ones children should use. But that's not strictly true as a poster mentioned the older usage of the words as caregivers. But we do use it in other context, we use Dad bod to describe a particular physique. I know many vanilla as vanilla can be friends who call their friends sexy mamma on their social platforms. So I do query if these words are that limited in their use? They’re not. I agree. But I think it’s mostly people that are called those things or call their parents those things that have an issue. I think it’s just the sexualising of it that people don’t like. I sometimes feel that way about the way naughty and I’ve said on here before it’s why I don’t use the word play to describe sex. " It's an odd one because some are happy to say a Dad bod is sexy or sexy mamma, which is using the parental words in a sexual context. As I've mentioned I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't use the word Daddy. But I use the dynamics name as it's easier for people to understand what I'm into. I totally understand why it's not for everyone though. | |||
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"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy” It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it. I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy. I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!
Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves "Hmmm call me twisted, but part of the thing that kind of turns me on about being a sub is being made to do things that I find uncomfortable.. things that I feel are humiliating and that make me feel slightly ( only slightly ) disgusted in myself. There are definitely lines I will not cross… I like to look back at a situation I have been involved with and feel that the guy of guys…. ( or guys and girls! ) would look back on it and think “ that Linda was a total slut / whore / dirty girl… or what ever . I have no interest in walking away feeling as though anyone else was abused or mistreated I don’t know if that really explains or makes anything clear? | |||
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"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy” It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it. I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy. I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!
Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves
Hmmm call me twisted, but part of the thing that kind of turns me on about being a sub is being made to do things that I find uncomfortable.. things that I feel are humiliating and that make me feel slightly ( only slightly ) disgusted in myself. There are definitely lines I will not cross… I like to look back at a situation I have been involved with and feel that the guy of guys…. ( or guys and girls! ) would look back on it and think “ that Linda was a total slut / whore / dirty girl… or what ever .
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"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon " That is fun to be fair. The GTA version of course... I'm yet to, in my 39 years of living to ever have the urge to live that out in reality. Still time I guess | |||
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"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon That is fun to be fair. The GTA version of course... I'm yet to, in my 39 years of living to ever have the urge to live that out in reality. Still time I guess" It is and gta 6 needs to be here already | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term." Where did I get annoyed? | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term. Where did I get annoyed? " Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term. Where did I get annoyed? Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you "No worries | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term. Where did I get annoyed? Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you
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"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often. Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place
I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."yeah I agree with you about the school uniforms. Especially how they get them to dress for school in China and Japan and that. That's definitely a bit iffy I reckon | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle. So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father? Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally. The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy. The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term. Where did I get annoyed? Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you
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"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming " "Context" being the key word. | |||
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"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb "There was a formite on here a while ago who had a conservative personality on the forums and was totally different via pm… Anyway we got chatting off site and he would ask me to send videos of me sucking my thumb and calling him daddy in a baby voice while I play with myself | |||
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"Yeah makes me feel a certain way" Like a big dick or it makes your dick big? | |||
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"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb
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"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb
There was a formite on here a while ago who had a conservative personality on the forums and was totally different via pm…
Anyway we got chatting off site and he would ask me to send videos of me sucking my thumb and calling him daddy in a baby voice while I play with myself"How did you feel about that? | |||
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"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom. Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no. But when Rio from Good Girls called Elizabeth ‘mama’ everyone was melting on the socials "I have no idea what that means | |||
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"There is something of the night about threads like this. Deeply unsettling." Depends how judgmental you're really | |||
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"There is something of the night about threads like this. Deeply unsettling. Depends how judgmental you're really " It’s an opinion and one I am entitled to express? | |||
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch "Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them. | |||
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder." Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one. | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one." Both are awful. | |||
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"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder. Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one." Cant lie this sounds like major protecting | |||
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"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck. " So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion? | |||
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"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck. So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion?" The scenario | |||
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch
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"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck. So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion? The scenario " Yeh. So sometimes when I read or listen to people, I don’t hear that, I read or hear people trying to make someone feel weird about like I g something someone doesn’t u deter and how that can be a thing. I don’t understand loads. But when people explain to to me, I started to think of it not being weird or creepy, but just odd for me. As for me to be doing it would make me feel strange. If that makes sense. | |||
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch
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No he didn’t.
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"I was in a Ddlg relationship with a woman 21 years younger than me, and we both enjoyed her calling me Daddy. Especially when she wore pigtails….. " | |||
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch
Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.
No he didn’t.
Look at the first 2 posts.
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"…. No he didn’t. Look at the first 2 posts. "Who likes it?" "And who finds it disgusting?" Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.
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"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy. A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch
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No he didn’t.
Look at the first 2 posts.
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"When people just come straight out with it and call you Daddy in their first message, it's a huge no from me. Not a fan. " Do you prefer that they wait until they're asking for their pocket money? | |||
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*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.
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