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Wondering what people think of members who have no blacks or Asian or white on there profiles , personally I find people attractive from all races and backgrounds, yea someone might not be my type but that doesn’t mean I don’t like the whole race the person belongs to x |
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I find any talk about race and sex off-putting. 'No black men' icks me as much as 'only black men'
It's never about the race and always about the person for me.
I always ignore "You like black/asian/white dick?" messages. Creeps me out. |
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"I find any talk about race and sex off-putting. 'No black men' icks me as much as 'only black men'
It's never about the race and always about the person for me.
I always ignore "You like black/asian/white dick?" messages. Creeps me out."
Yea definitely I agree it’s all about the person not their race |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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It's a trick one, it will always be a tricky one. It will always be a racist/preference argument that will never be settled.
I can see both sides to it, there are definitely pros and cons to each side of the argument - is it pref or racist.
For me though, regardless of the actual reasons for it, when it comes to sex nobody should be pressured to justify if why they do or do not want sex with somebody for any reason.
With that said, I think it's stupid stating it on a profile anyway. Not like they are going to respond to those they don't want. But it does help people add to their block list as filters. |
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This had been done to death and ends up with 2 schools of thought. Some think it's a simple preference others find it odd and possibily/probably racist. Tends to get very heated and upset people. You can do a search but do so at your own risk. |
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I'd question the intellect of any person who states "No (insert group)" in their profile tbh. That applies not only to those who rule out every single member of a particular race but also those those state "no tories, terfs....". Makes you look about 12.
The only exception to the above is of course my own "No arseholes" policy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This had been done to death and ends up with 2 schools of thought. Some think it's a simple preference others find it odd and possibily/probably racist. Tends to get very heated and upset people. You can do a search but do so at your own risk. "
I agree with this. Ultimately, we'll never know the true motivation behind why people have those phrases on their profile so and the people who do will staunchly defend their choice. God knows I've gotten tired of arguing about it. |
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"Signalling your virtue there OP by putting others down for their choices.
Good luck with the approach. "
I’m genuinely not trying to put anyone down I’m just saying there’s gorgeous and nice people from every background and I personally wouldn’t exclude a whole race of people basically saying there ugly or unattractive |
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"I'd question the intellect of any person who states "No (insert group)" in their profile tbh. That applies not only to those who rule out every single member of a particular race but also those those state "no tories, terfs....". Makes you look about 12.
The only exception to the above is of course my own "No arseholes" policy. "
I agree with the no arsehole policy and totally agree makes you looks 12 when you have that kind of menatality |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Wondering what people think of members who have no blacks or Asian or white on there profiles , personally I find people attractive from all races and backgrounds, yea someone might not be my type but that doesn’t mean I don’t like the whole race the person belongs to x "
If I see someone who isn't interested in us I move on.
I might think there's a reason they make their choices but that's as much on me as them.
Worrying about why people have preferences and why they exclude you is pointless and I'd never bother engaging with them to ask why.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems racist to me
You could be a waaaaaay lot more subtle about it. Someone white messages you and you’re not attracted to white men? Just ignore them, or say ‘sorry you’re not my type’
No need to be rude about it
I also feel really gross when I see people fetishising other races. The term BBC winds me up, but I’m not a black person with a penis, so I’m not going to act offended on behalf of someone else. Just feels wrong to me |
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"Seems racist to me
You could be a waaaaaay lot more subtle about it. Someone white messages you and you’re not attracted to white men? Just ignore them, or say ‘sorry you’re not my type’
No need to be rude about it
I also feel really gross when I see people fetishising other races. The term BBC winds me up, but I’m not a black person with a penis, so I’m not going to act offended on behalf of someone else. Just feels wrong to me"
What about the countless black men on here who refer to themselves as BBCs or "chocolate" whatever? I get what you're saying but when members of a particular race happily refer to themselves using these terms then how can white people be called racist for using the same term. I may well be missing something here though. |
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"It's called personal preference
That you find a whole race unattractive ?? Goes a bit deeper than that I think tbh "
I actually agree with you, if unsettles me and I have never understood it. I think alot of Caucasian women want black only essentially fetishising the ethnicity and likewise I think anyone that says white only has views that I could never agree with.
I get each to their own etc but how a skin colour can completely make someone not hot to you due to that alone is something I will never understand |
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