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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes"
I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.
I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!  |
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes
I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.
I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not! "
Pursued but not prey? They want to know you and stimulate you. There's no question that you're the focus of their attention.
It's very individual isn't it, not mills & boon. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes
I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.
I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!
Pursued but not prey? They want to know you and stimulate you. There's no question that you're the focus of their attention.
It's very individual isn't it, not mills & boon."
Yes, exactly. I think I’m more seduced by my male platonic best friends than by anyone I’m having sex with! |
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"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes
I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.
I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not! "
Seems so difficult to understand why they would not want to make you there world and want you to feel special. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes
I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.
I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!
Seems so difficult to understand why they would not want to make you there world and want you to feel special."
Ahhh, that’s kind. But sadly not my experience. Destined to be alone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.
I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable |
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.
I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable "
And you allow yourself to be seduced? |
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Who wouldn’t want to be seduced??
It’s an amazing experience on either side, when successful, from a guys perspective, being seduced is an incredibly flattering and exciting change of pace, but the seduction of someone is also an enormous pleasure in itself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.
I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable
And you allow yourself to be seduced?"
I don't think it's about allowing myself to be. I don't wake up in the morning and think, yes, I'll allow myself to be seduces.
It's about getting lost in the moments and just going with it. Leaning into whatever happens. Sure, I might on occasion have thought, oh I'm in trouble here but, what incredible trouble it was
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.
I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable
And you allow yourself to be seduced?
I don't think it's about allowing myself to be. I don't wake up in the morning and think, yes, I'll allow myself to be seduces.
It's about getting lost in the moments and just going with it. Leaning into whatever happens. Sure, I might on occasion have thought, oh I'm in trouble here but, what incredible trouble it was
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By leaning in and going with the moment aren't you allowing yourself to be seduced or are you already decided to see where it takes you? |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've actually had several guys try to seduce me on Fab in the last few months. I suspect because my profile states that I'm not meeting, some guys think they can get me into bed by upping their charm game.
I've had offers of dinner; holding hands in romantic settings while I'm being kissed; being taken clubbing (normie clubs). I've been told I'll be taken shopping to buy sexy clothes; be treated to a stay in a nice hotel (I wonder what we'd do there?). I've had my health and happiness sincerely asked after. I've been offered relationships as an exclusive girlfriend.
Lol!! 
I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.
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"I've actually had several guys try to seduce me on Fab in the last few months. I suspect because my profile states that I'm not meeting, some guys think they can get me into bed by upping their charm game.
I've had offers of dinner; holding hands in romantic settings while I'm being kissed; being taken clubbing (normie clubs). I've been told I'll be taken shopping to buy sexy clothes; be treated to a stay in a nice hotel (I wonder what we'd do there?). I've had my health and happiness sincerely asked after. I've been offered relationships as an exclusive girlfriend.
Lol!!
I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.
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If all of those aforementioned enticing offers came landing at your door, no one would be more pleased than I, dårling. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've actually had several guys try to seduce me on Fab in the last few months. I suspect because my profile states that I'm not meeting, some guys think they can get me into bed by upping their charm game.
I've had offers of dinner; holding hands in romantic settings while I'm being kissed; being taken clubbing (normie clubs). I've been told I'll be taken shopping to buy sexy clothes; be treated to a stay in a nice hotel (I wonder what we'd do there?). I've had my health and happiness sincerely asked after. I've been offered relationships as an exclusive girlfriend.
Lol!!
I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.
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If all of those aforementioned enticing offers came landing at your door, no one would be more pleased than I, dårling."
Oh, my darling Nerø, no one could possibly beat your charm and wonderful turn of phrase  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I find the more people try to woo me the faster I run in the other direction!
I say run, I mean power walk."
Power walk with me on a lead.
Ooh did I say that out loud?  |
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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago
Derry |
"Seduced or love bombed? 
You think they're the same thing?
On places like here, absolutely "
Love bombing is manipulation possibly a precursor to abuse. Seduction is persuasion or enticement. The seduced knows what happening and they consent. Whereas love bombing is intended to overwhelm the target. |
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