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This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues  I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
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"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
Dave "
Don’t ignore it. It’ll get worse. Confront it head in  |
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"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
Dave "
You can change all these things if you really want to pal.
At your age the whole world is your oyster.
Reach out and grab it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "
Lemon you are NOT dull! Try not to compare your lives to others and also look at us, sat messaging forum members on a sexy site with our days! Don't overthink anything and know you're a hilarious legend x |
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "
The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
Dave "
As someone said, don't ignore it, but also only worry about it if it's bringing you down. It's tough times at the moment, don't be afraid to ask for help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "
Wow. If thats true how you feel it takes me by suprise. You only ever sound fun, intelligent and a happy person to read.
And you are special. Everyone should feel special to themselves if they know deep down inside they are a good person. |
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.
The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants."
The rare twitch project |
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.
The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants.
The rare twitch project "
It’ll make your nose run. |
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That I was really wanting a linen shirt last week. Two were delivered today and I realised I didn't want either of them. I'm avoiding confronting the truth that I buy too many clothes just because I think I want them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off.
No way are you 50!?!? 
You are welcome. "
Correct Woody…I’m currently 49  |
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Oh thanks guys, you are too kind. And it's not even that I don't think I'm a good person or anything like that. I know I have a good heart and all that stuff. But I just don't feel like I add anything to the world that makes me stand out. I've never had a decent job, I've got no education behind me, I'm pretty fucking dumb to be honest and I am so forgettable. And it does make me feel a bit shitty when I think about it.
But I guess I'll have to go and fondle Sam and his cock since there lies the solution.
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"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
Dave "
It's good to talk about these things! Don't feel like you can't open up. I hope things improve for you Dave. X |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "
You are special. And unique. And even if it is just on here, you are anything but dull.
I'm going to directly quote one of the wisest and most lively and lovely women I have never met right now... with something she recently said to me that feels appropriate.
You're an amazing woman. And so many people love you. Sending you a big virtual hug |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.
The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants.
The rare twitch project "
Never wanted you so much, Ricky. |
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over a year ago
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"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "
I’m the exact same. My whole personality is ‘I’m a mum!’
It used to be ‘I’m a breastfeeding mum’ but he stopped a few months ago and three and a half years old, so I don’t even have that going for me now |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.
For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself. |
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"That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off.
No way are you 50!?!?
You are welcome.
Correct Woody…I’m currently 49 "
And you don’t look a day over.  |
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"I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.
For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself. "
Your fabulous in all your perceived flaws and imperfections and general humanness. He knows it, and that's why you know he's going to tell you off for thinking like that |
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"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all
Dave "
Please don't ignore how you feel, Dave. As others have said, try to reach out to someone or seek support from anywhere you can find it. Organisations like Mind and Samaritans are there to listen, if no-one else is. Keep on keeping on and we hope life will become easier for you. |
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"I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.
For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself. "
Yeah but that quim will always hold the pedestal firm  |
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"Oh thanks guys, you are too kind. And it's not even that I don't think I'm a good person or anything like that. I know I have a good heart and all that stuff. But I just don't feel like I add anything to the world that makes me stand out. I've never had a decent job, I've got no education behind me, I'm pretty fucking dumb to be honest and I am so forgettable. And it does make me feel a bit shitty when I think about it.
But I guess I'll have to go and fondle Sam and his cock since there lies the solution. "
Having a good heart is adding something very important to the world. You will have made a difference to more people than you realise just by being kind |
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Oh, this makes me sad. Some of these "truths" aren't truths at all, but people's harsh inner critics whispering bad things in their minds.
The thing I've been trying to ignore for years is that I keep potential friends at arms length because I'm afraid of getting close then being rejected. I don't nurture blossoming friendships and eventually people give up.
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