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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking cry like a little bitch and never meet them again "
Although I did notice my latest guy to verify me didn’t mention my looks at all. Wtf man. My verification for him was so nice and he calls me SMART?! We all know I ain’t smart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d be a little hurt if after meeting me that’s all they had to say. If they didn’t have a good time I’d rather they just say and not leave a verification at all to be honest. |
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Accept everyone thinks of verification differently. Some believe that all a verification shoukd ne is that they turn up and are who they said they were. Others will go into huge detail. They aren't a reflection of you. |
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I would block them OP if they left the impression they had such a good time it should show in the verification and if it doesn't that means they weren't totally honest with you
Sorry you had to go through that xxx |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
delete my account  |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
Run to the hills wallow in Self pity, questioning my lifes choices and decisions. |
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"Unrequited veris make me sad! But I’m trying not to care too much!
I always stress over what to write in a veri! "
Why stress about it?
You just literally speak of the time you had with the individual(s) providing it was a nice time not,
allowed to leave bad verifications xx |
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Generally speaking I'm not overtly fussed about verifications.
However, every verification that I've written has been drafted offline first and then shared via a PM, and accepted/amended before being published.
I expect the same protocol in return. |
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"I’d be a little hurt if after meeting me that’s all they had to say. If they didn’t have a good time I’d rather they just say and not leave a verification at all to be honest. "
I agree there although I would be surprised or maybe even puzzled xx |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before. 
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Use it as a learning experience or go UNLOS. The choice is purely down to mental fortitude
But actually I think maybe this was an attempt at humour..
I’d display the veris and set a profile pic wearing wellies or crocs.. with your cock out obvs.. |
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I know I have a great selection of nice shoes, I don't need to be told 
Always open for having more shoes.
I struggle most of the time to find the right words to say about the person and meet. It can take me days to write one. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If it's in the general theme of their veris left I'd just say cool, fine, love a bit of understatement.
If mine is an anomaly and so fucking bland while everyone else gets raving FuckAdvisor reviews I'd go to the edge of the earth sobbing, full bust heaving loud cries from the very core of my being and then I'd UNLOS with a very obvious slight towards that awful demon who has made me leave. |
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"Generally speaking I'm not overtly fussed about verifications.
However, every verification that I've written has been drafted offline first and then shared via a PM, and accepted/amended before being published.
I expect the same protocol in return."
Wow.
Never heard of this before! Is this the norm for others?
I don’t do details in a veri. Just how I met them if a club or hotel, that they were hot and I had a good time… if that wasn’t true I don’t veri.
I expect a lot of people are disappointed with my veris now ha! I didn’t think anyone actually cared about them. I don’t read others detailed ones…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's in the general theme of their veris left I'd just say cool, fine, love a bit of understatement.
If mine is an anomaly and so fucking bland while everyone else gets raving FuckAdvisor reviews I'd go to the edge of the earth sobbing, full bust heaving loud cries from the very core of my being and then I'd UNLOS with a very obvious slight towards that awful demon who has made me leave. "
Do you promise.
Don't lie to me now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing as I won't display verifications from men. One exception.
If it wasn't a man I might display it anyway.
I don't care for verifications much, more trouble than anything else. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Nothing as I won't display verifications from men. One exception.
If it wasn't a man I might display it anyway.
I don't care for verifications much, more trouble than anything else."
I agree, best not to show them if you’re a guy for sure. Maybe right at the start you need one or two but beyond that they are a disadvantage |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do?
Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.
A"
Fuck off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
Sorry TM, I'll try harder next time |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
Meet somebody else next time  |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do?
Meet somebody else next time "
I'd write you one that is well...........ya know like |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do?
Meet somebody else next time
I'd write you one that is well...........ya know like "
Go on then dickhead |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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Go for a Joe Jackson winkle picker time?
See below:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDG6MQkzh1o
Then someone can add next time "turned up on time, had shiny shoes & pointy winkle pickers."
Then there's shoes with buckles, sandals, sandals & socks. Sock garters for the stylish man about town? Boring suit but nice bright socks?
Belt buckles that scream: "hey, you, yes you! Look at my crotch area!" Cos really, psychologically that's what a belt buckle says apart from holding yer trousers up ....
I'd worry about other things in my life & move along!   |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
I think you’d be well within your rights to leave a big steaming turd on their doorstep with a flag in saying “Verification”. When a neighbour asks why, just be truthful.
I’m all seriousness, verifications are only supposed to provide reassurance to other Fabbers that the person exists and has not misrepresented themselves. In other words, “You may meet this person with confidence they are what they say.” Somehow they have morphed into reviews and then it’s down to literary ability and motivation. Some may lump it in with fabmin and not have enough time. Some people are just more comfortable hitting fisher price buttons with primary colours than using something complicated like a keyboard.
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Mine are hidden, so I'd shrug it off. I think people only need to know I'm verified, so I'm happy if future meets don't leave one at all TBF. Though I've only got two from the same person, my two meets after that haven't put anything but they're not often on here |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I generally wait to see if the other person Veri's me. Then know what I can get away with saying, unless I'm very certain I won't offend/embarrass them. Maybe that says more about my veri writing style than anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
Last time I met and left a verification for someone, they left the site soon afterwards. I like to pretend that the two are unrelated |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do?
Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.
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Fuck off "
It's not like I even own any nice shoes, you'd be safe. 
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do?
Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.
A
Fuck off
It's not like I even own any nice shoes, you'd be safe.
A"
You’re such a cheeky bugger |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one
Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered
The OP nearly forgot to do mine "
I was waiting for the follow up meet that alas never happened |
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"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.
What would you do? "
what shoes were they . Maybe thats where im going wrong |
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I'd rather have that than one saying I sucked like a Dyson and rode his cock like a Grand National jockey, so treat me with respect.
I just accept that I can't control what someone else chooses to say, but if I don't like it then I won't display it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one
Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered
The OP nearly forgot to do mine
I was waiting for the follow up meet that alas never happened "
 good recovery haha |
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