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By *ruceyy OP Man over a year ago

London

Your sex buddy to be? Are you one to submit and get thrown around a little?

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By *iasubTV/TS over a year ago

Ilkeston

All depends on the person/dynamic but generally very dominant

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like the fight.

But I want to lose

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By *rincipessaWoman over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Generally I’m going to fight you if you try. I don’t like giving up control

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m up for a little wrestle but I haven’t met a lady likely to best me yet. If you want a turn on top, just say so…

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

Hate it. I have a definite case of Jack Russell syndrome.

I “tried” it once. Felt bloody awful for hours afterwards. (Don’t know if they ever discovered his body …)

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I couldn’t possibly tell you OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to be man handled a little. usually I’m in restraints though, sometimes I can’t help myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always been in charge

Just get off that way

And been lucky with some great subs xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a switch..

If I'm a sub, I like to be thrown around but I won't go down without the fight. Love to be bratty. You got to earn my obedience.

If I'm a domme, I like to control my sub. I'm not strong enough to throw a grown ass man around. But I make sure I get my way with him in different ways.

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By *ssexSwitchMan over a year ago

hornchurch

I very much know my place. At 6’5 I’m not getting thrown around by anyone lol. But I will willingly get in position.

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By *ruceyy OP Man over a year ago

London

"I'm a switch..

If I'm a sub, I like to be thrown around but I won't go down without the fight. Love to be bratty. You got to earn my obedience.

If I'm a domme, I like to control my sub. I'm not strong enough to throw a grown ass man around. But I make sure I get my way with him in different ways. "

Ooh you sound fun! (Google's route to Watford)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like dominating, but I like it when it's a power struggle, hot as hell.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple over a year ago

Bristol

I like someone to be in control, tie me down and get me into the positions they want. That said I'm not into hands on throat and like to be in control if I'm giving a bj as I've a sensitive gag reflex and it's easier not to trigger if I can go at my own pace.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I hate the gagging thing and holding by the neck which seems popular in porn these days.

I enjoy humiliation play and some mild dominance and pain, but as long as it’s not taken too far. I prefer to know that person is in control of their own emotions whilst playing the dominant.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I could never be a sub....it's a Redhead thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That said I'm not into hands on throat and like to be in control if I'm giving a bj as I've a sensitive gag reflex and it's easier not to trigger if I can go at my own pace. "

Yeah for that reason it's important to talk about what's ok and what's not before hand.

If I'm in a position where I'm dominating(I like to switch sometimes) I'll check in and see if she's ok with what I'm doing or about to do. If she is game then push a bit harder

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By *unky_PhoenixMan over a year ago

Boston

I could never be a sub either, but a woman once put her hand round my throat while on top (not hard) and that woke something inside of me