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I knew thing needed to change when ..........
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To put it bluntly, I just didn't wanna be here anymore. When your mind goes that dark, somethings got to give."
So sorry to hear that, I hope you are feeling better now. xx |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
When by lunch time monday i was mentally and physically so exhausted. Stress levels were so high it was impacting my physical health. It was like i never felt rested and so drained all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To put it bluntly, I just didn't wanna be here anymore. When your mind goes that dark, somethings got to give."
been there with the same thoughts... now diagnosed with Bowel Cancer!
And to think.. I picked myself up for...... another kick! |
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"Let us know what made you change something in your life.
Mine was when I realised my underwater needed folding four times.
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When the drugs stopped working, qnd I wanted to die on my sleep every night....so my rock bottom was the catalyst to change my life and get clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone jumped in front of my train and I could fully understand if I didn't talk about my issues to the people I love I could end up doing the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone jumped in front of my train and I could fully understand if I didn't talk about my issues to the people I love I could end up doing the same thing"
Whenever I hear of fatalities on the railways, my thoughts always turn to the Train drivers and the trauma they suffer and being able to do nothing to avoid the inevitable. It's not like you can swerve out of the way.
Glad you got the support you needed |
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"To put it bluntly, I just didn't wanna be here anymore. When your mind goes that dark, somethings got to give.
been there with the same thoughts... now diagnosed with Bowel Cancer!
And to think.. I picked myself up for...... another kick!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow some fantastic stories. I hope you are all feeling better about yourselves. Feel free to message me any that you do not want to post in the forum. |
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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago
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"When someone jumped in front of my train and I could fully understand if I didn't talk about my issues to the people I love I could end up doing the same thing
Whenever I hear of fatalities on the railways, my thoughts always turn to the Train drivers and the trauma they suffer and being able to do nothing to avoid the inevitable. It's not like you can swerve out of the way.
Glad you got the support you needed"
I did a few years in a joint Network Rail/TOC control centre, one of my jobs when I first started was reviewing CCTV, primarily for BTP, but also for investigations into what we referred to as "one unders".
The worst ones I had to review were.....a man who jumped in front of a fast train going through the platforms (not pretty), and reports of somebody who had hanged themself from the footbridge during the night, before anyone could attend, the first train of the day hit the dangling body.
Drivers got counselling, we never got even offered any. I was OK, but there were some youngsters doing the same job who could, and probably were, affected! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I sat back and realised covid had changed and affected me more than I realised! Worked in ED and then Managed a care home all through the pandemic, it took its toll. Family now comes first and always will
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every little inconvenience would just piss me off to the extreme. I had to try and get to the root cause of what was actually pissing me off before I was able to let the little stuff go |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
northumberland |
I haven’t had a truly serious one of them moments
Closest was in one of the few jobs I’ve worked outside of self employment. Was called into the office one morning to receive a verbal warning for low production the day before (wasn’t my fault had to wait loads for the finisher before could turn the stone out) had to sit and get a berating off the foreman and the bosses son decided there and then I was done, asked if they were finished told them both to get fucked or go fuck yourself something along them lines and got my stuff and left. |
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