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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The older I get the less fucks I give .. so I’m far less concerned about what others think now than I was.
Having said that I’d probably be far more open about liking Swinging etc if there wasn’t the social taboo in certain areas of life about it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd probably go braless more often.
I'd tell close friends and family who don't know that I'm poly. Mainly because it makes things a heck of a lot easier not having to hide stuff.
I might wear my natural curls more.
Erm... I think that's about it. |
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I'd unmask as an autistic person.
Sadly that's not something that would just get me ridicule or misunderstanding. I suspect it'd probably be dangerous.
So I cater to the fragile feelings of the majority because I've had to since I was a toddler. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees
I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’
I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it |
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"I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees
I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’
I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it"
I wasn't open about the abuse I suffered as a child at your age. I'm really open about it now, for me at least it came about after processing it. I'm happier for it, I hope your road to recovery from it brings peace. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees
I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’
I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it
I wasn't open about the abuse I suffered as a child at your age. I'm really open about it now, for me at least it came about after processing it. I'm happier for it, I hope your road to recovery from it brings peace. "
Thank you  I’m glad you were finally able to talk about it
I find I’m pretty open about it, but there’s some things that I just find hard to talk about. Purely because I’m embarrassed. For example, the way my uncle treated me growing up; I used to be proud of that. Looking back I’m so deeply ashamed, but I used to brag to my friends about it  I didn’t know any better, but still |
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"Let my internal thoughts out, it would be absolute carnage. Plus I'd probably get the sack in work 
I'm... glad I'm self employed 
I get in enough trouble for being "blunt" as it is. And that's me being restrained "
My "boss" is fine with my language. No one else is
I'm over here like... What, most businesses don't have an "oh fuck" fund? "Contingency" is so boring. "Oh fuck" is evocative |
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Only things that comes to mind are once all the way back in school, there was girl I was seeing and I let the opinion of others ruin it, and more recently I bottled something up instead of turning to my usual trusted people, and it really effect me. That's been reversed now though.
Other than that, I'm pretty good at making decisions for me rather than decisions for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, if others judge me that's their problem not mine. But I still judge myself so I would only behave in a way that's acceptable to my morals, boundaries and outlook on life. |
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