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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I could never kiss a bloke. Straight i am . A girl friend has got me interested in anal play and hope to meet soon for some fun. Been training my arse so her dildo should fit and it won't be too much of a shock. Im even considering to suck and be sucked by a guy. What the hell is going on with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol if you're having fun does it matter? New experiences are good, so see what you like and go with the flow. If you enjoy MM fun then you are bi. Does that matter? It opens you up to more opportunities to play. There's plenty of guys just like you, but lots can't accept they are not straight. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never done anything m mbut when i had a 3some with my mate and his wife he touched my cock for a second and i thought if he wants to suck me i would probably let him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could never kiss a bloke. Straight i am . A girl friend has got me interested in anal play and hope to meet soon for some fun. Been training my arse so her dildo should fit and it won't be too much of a shock. Im even considering to suck and be sucked by a guy. What the hell is going on with me. "
nothing
all sounds perfectly normal to me  |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"Lol if you're having fun does it matter? New experiences are good, so see what you like and go with the flow. If you enjoy MM fun then you are bi. Does that matter? It opens you up to more opportunities to play. There's plenty of guys just like you, but lots can't accept they are not straight. "
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I've met some cpls recently and have enjoyed them sharing my cock, that's as far as I have gone so far though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a Man friend who said once to me. I am not bi i meet Tv some look really like woman but just have a cock and thay do the sucking ... so not bi ... I said your bi and you cant get away from it ... still say strait . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Man friend who said once to me. I am not bi i meet Tv some look really like woman but just have a cock and thay do the sucking ... so not bi ... I said your bi and you cant get away from it ... still say strait ."
I've seen some of your other posts on this too and I agree. The problem for us is we prefer bi guys. Not easy to find when so many are hiding behind "straight profiles"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could never kiss a bloke. Straight i am . A girl friend has got me interested in anal play and hope to meet soon for some fun. Been training my arse so her dildo should fit and it won't be too much of a shock. Im even considering to suck and be sucked by a guy. What the hell is going on with me. "
You're leaning to have fun. I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately it is still a taboo issue. Society seems to still have a hang up about bi men. It's okay to be a bi woman and does not raise an eyebrow. Even some of my guy friends can't get their heads round the bi concept.
Be what you are and don't let it bother you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well actually I cant bring myself to kiss a male but I will and have done everything else therefore im pretty certain im bi?! To be straight I always thought it meant you wouldn't do ANYTHING with the same sex, but I could be misguided here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? "
Does this mean that you do play with other guys then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? "
Thing is with this label you know where you stand ....... if meeting people for sex .. I know its ok to touch or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense?
Does this mean that you do play with other guys then ?"
That would be telling... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? Thing is with this label you know where you stand ....... if meeting people for sex .. I know its ok to touch or not."
Things like that can be discussed prior to play commencing...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense?
Does this mean that you do play with other guys then ?
That would be telling..."
well as long as you dont get a punch your ok ... people know where thay stand ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? Thing is with this label you know where you stand ....... if meeting people for sex .. I know its ok to touch or not.
Things like that can be discussed prior to play commencing... "
but this is fast lane sex and not always the way it work i know ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could never kiss a bloke
We could never have a meet / sex without kissing  for us, kissing ia all part of the sexual interaction  "
i agree i love kissing women as part of sex. But bi curious. No dont want to kiss men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? Thing is with this label you know where you stand ....... if meeting people for sex .. I know its ok to touch or not.
Things like that can be discussed prior to play commencing... but this is fast lane sex and not always the way it work i know ... "
Indeed. So if you like bi play we know who to look for. It seems lots of guys email us as straight, but state in email they are actually bi. Are we expected to save up a list of these names for future meets?!! We much prefer guys who are up front and honest about their sexuality. |
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"What does it matter if you are open to trying new things...
If there was a label saying experimental
Or open to new experiences it may help...
Personally i don't label myself... if that makes sense? Thing is with this label you know where you stand ....... if meeting people for sex .. I know its ok to touch or not.
Things like that can be discussed prior to play commencing... but this is fast lane sex and not always the way it work i know ...
Indeed. So if you like bi play we know who to look for. It seems lots of guys email us as straight, but state in email they are actually bi. Are we expected to save up a list of these names for future meets?!! We much prefer guys who are up front and honest about their sexuality."
i wonder how may guys say they are bi within a couple but just want a man on man thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On my own there then"
you certainly aren't
i have been contacted numerous times by the males of mf couples looking for a bit of extra fun behind the wifes back
mainly that is because they are bi but won't admit it to their other half because she finds it a horrid concept
i always think its sad that a couple can be so open as to swing together and then it not be enough for one party and they are still not fully open with each other
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"On my own there then
you certainly aren't
i have been contacted numerous times by the males of mf couples looking for a bit of extra fun behind the wifes back
mainly that is because they are bi but won't admit it to their other half because she finds it a horrid concept
i always think its sad that a couple can be so open as to swing together and then it not be enough for one party and they are still not fully open with each other
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i thought not. I had a guy want to meet me and check me out so yo speak but seemed reluctant to include his wife. Just didn't seem right to me having posted as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On my own there then
you certainly aren't
i have been contacted numerous times by the males of mf couples looking for a bit of extra fun behind the wifes back
mainly that is because they are bi but won't admit it to their other half because she finds it a horrid concept
i always think its sad that a couple can be so open as to swing together and then it not be enough for one party and they are still not fully open with each other
i thought not. I had a guy want to meet me and check me out so yo speak but seemed reluctant to include his wife. Just didn't seem right to me having posted as a couple."
Yes this does happen you're right |
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"On my own there then
you certainly aren't
i have been contacted numerous times by the males of mf couples looking for a bit of extra fun behind the wifes back
mainly that is because they are bi but won't admit it to their other half because she finds it a horrid concept
i always think its sad that a couple can be so open as to swing together and then it not be enough for one party and they are still not fully open with each other
i thought not. I had a guy want to meet me and check me out so yo speak but seemed reluctant to include his wife. Just didn't seem right to me having posted as a couple.
Yes this does happen you're right "
very off putting for me...I want the liberation with a couple not a guy on his own! Is that reasonable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your posts equally indicate you're curious, yes?
For what its worth, I became curious about other guys while I was married. That relationship was already stagnating at the time, some 7 years ago now.I joined Gaydar and another swinging site to see what it was all about and make some contacts but didn't really take the plunge, pretty much where a lot of guys, including the OP, are now.
To be honest, if I'd told my wife, I think she'd have had kittens (perhaps I should have, we could have finished earlier ) but then I met Cheryl who encouraged me to explore. Without the love and support she has given me, I doubt I would be the person I am now.
Kissing depends on the guy tbh, some I do, some I'd rather not!
If people want to attach a stigma to me, then that's their right to do so; I frankly don't care. I'm open about my sexuality so others can make an informed choice as to whether they want to meet me. I have check ups like any sane swinger so I'd say I'm possibly less of a risk than others who are less open in order to get sex. If there's only 5% of this site who want to play with me, thats more than enough to keep me going thanks. |
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"Your posts equally indicate you're curious, yes?
For what its worth, I became curious about other guys while I was married. That relationship was already stagnating at the time, some 7 years ago now.I joined Gaydar and another swinging site to see what it was all about and make some contacts but didn't really take the plunge, pretty much where a lot of guys, including the OP, are now.
To be honest, if I'd told my wife, I think she'd have had kittens (perhaps I should have, we could have finished earlier ) but then I met Cheryl who encouraged me to explore. Without the love and support she has given me, I doubt I would be the person I am now.
Kissing depends on the guy tbh, some I do, some I'd rather not!
If people want to attach a stigma to me, then that's their right to do so; I frankly don't care. I'm open about my sexuality so others can make an informed choice as to whether they want to meet me. I have check ups like any sane swinger so I'd say I'm possibly less of a risk than others who are less open in order to get sex. If there's only 5% of this site who want to play with me, thats more than enough to keep me going thanks. "
you certainly are open and frank, most admirable! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going back to my original first post I dont have bi in my profile and have not had any experiences with any guys. Its something I've just become curious about but think maybe bi might put straight couples off me which is what im looking for first. Not sure id go to meet a guy on his own but would happily suck or be sucked on a 3 some meet if man was bi . Maybe I'll accept a guys invite and go with the flow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going back to my original first post I dont have bi in my profile and have not had any experiences with any guys. Its something I've just become curious about but think maybe bi might put straight couples off me which is what im looking for first. Not sure id go to meet a guy on his own but would happily suck or be sucked on a 3 some meet if man was bi . Maybe I'll accept a guys invite and go with the flow "
But therein lies the point I was making. Unless you put Bi Curious in your status, couples like us and 2 in Notts won't look at you, even if you message us because as far as we're concerned, you're straight and just saying you're bi to get laid (even if, as you appear to be, you're genuinely bi curious).
But then if you do that, you're probably damned by those who actively stigmatise bisexuals.
At least by putting curious, it gives you a chance to put your point across because you can state in your profile that you haven't played yet, merely curious as to what its about.
Good luck whatever you decide to do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going back to my original first post I dont have bi in my profile and have not had any experiences with any guys. Its something I've just become curious about but think maybe bi might put straight couples off me which is what im looking for first. Not sure id go to meet a guy on his own but would happily suck or be sucked on a 3 some meet if man was bi . Maybe I'll accept a guys invite and go with the flow :*
But therein lies the point I was making. Unless you put Bi Curious in your status, couples like us and 2 in Notts won't look at you, even if you message us because as far as we're concerned, you're straight and just saying you're bi to get laid (even if, as you appear to be, you're genuinely bi curious).
But then if you do that, you're probably damned by those who actively stigmatise bisexuals.
At least by putting curious, it gives you a chance to put your point across because you can state in your profile that you haven't played yet, merely curious as to what its about.
Good luck whatever you decide to do."
 bi curious it is then. Thanks everyone for your input.x |
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