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What advice would you give a 21 year old you?
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over a year ago
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"It’s hard as I’d like to advice myself to avoid wasting 15 years of life with a certain someone but that would also mean not having the kids I’ve got now "
Difficult isn't it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't go to that club that particular night. You dodged a bullet last week. My life would have been so different and my kids would have potentially had a better mother. But hindsight is a wonderful thing.  |
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Put everything in perspective (don't sweat the small stuff), time will go by much quicker than you think...enjoy every minute of the journey, don't ever hold back, smash it always with no regret.
Oh, also be careful who you let into your life. Don't be as trusting in the beginning, let that be earnt. |
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over a year ago
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"It’s hard as I’d like to advice myself to avoid wasting 15 years of life with a certain someone but that would also mean not having the kids I’ve got now "
Pretty much this  |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Get to the gym start kick boxing .. this time of your life is the time to prep for the rest of your life don't waste time and money out drinking spend it creating your business and training .. don't need to worry about looking for girls .. you can spend time chasing a butterfly and catch one but it will fly away .. build a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A 21 year old me back then, or a 21 ye old me now?
Because times are different, people’s focuses and the world is different.
Now, I’d say, get off your fucking mobile, and social media! And focus on a good career.
Then, - carry on as you are, you’re not such a dick, but don’t be a dick! |
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"Get lots of bitcoin as soon as it comes out, sell it all mid 2021. Retire."
Lol I know right  gosh to think I got given 50 bitcoins when they came out for free and I swapped them not long after for some physical items  hindsight is a thing |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Chorley, Eng |
Get therapy now. Don't wait. That thing you are doing called adventure. Sometimes it is just running away.
Embrace and follow your sexual desires. Read about kinks, read about sexuality, read about different relationship dynamics.
You will be ok. One day you will be feeling amazing. |
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Don’t be so shy with totties
Pursue a diagnosis for that thing (no, not that thing)
Women aren’t like us normal people
Invest in Apple
Buy property
Don’t waste money on shite
Travel
The perfect woman doesn’t exist - stop chasing better
Stretch before running
Pornography doesn’t give you cuddles
Don’t go out with that c**t
The grass is never greener
You are you
You are liked and loved
You are good enough as you are
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At 21 I was riding a chopped Bonneville and living my life the the very max.
My advice?
Don't drink that last pint of HSB, don't get on the bike and don't lose your nerve about buying that flat.
You'll be sorry, you know it all knobhead.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Transfer and cash in as much of your pension as you can before Putin and Truss collaborate to wipe tens of thousands of its value, just when you need it.
Marry someone with big tits as you know it's what you really want |
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I'll say what I always say on these threads
'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth ' |
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"Stop smoking and stay stopped
What would that do to change your life ? Just tell yourself that same thing now and stop "
I don’t smoke now. But at 21 I was a student and the bulk of my student debt was probs as a result of smoking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll say what I always say on these threads
'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth '"
I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about
What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth? |
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"Live every day like it’s your last ….. don’t be scared to walk away. Would’ve served me well many years ago. But everything worked out in the end
Mrs "
Someone said that today - I asked if that means I need to spend every day in a coffin making people cry. |
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Walk away from your Mother, she isn't the person you think she is and will bring grief into your life countless times before you cut ties.
Forgive your father as it wasn't his fault and you only find that out after he is gone |
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"I'll say what I always say on these threads
'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth '
I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about
What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth? "
What if it didn't?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll say what I always say on these threads
'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth '
I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about
What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth?
What if it didn't? "
Also wouldn’t your life be wildly different anyway if any future version of you communicated with you TWICE (once to warn you about the second time )? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly boring stuff like
Start your pension now
And don't take shit from men.
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.Be yourself
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But then, without all the mistakes and tragedy, I wouldn't be who I am now.
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"I'll say what I always say on these threads
'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth '
I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about
What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth?
What if it didn't?
Also wouldn’t your life be wildly different anyway if any future version of you communicated with you TWICE (once to warn you about the second time )?"
Maybe. I'm not getting in a time machine though |
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