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"If you could change something about yourself what would it be?"
Nothing as I accept who i am, how I am and what I am....to want to change something about me would.mean I don't like me where as I do like me |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Probably reduce my humility.
I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.
Boost my confidence. "
Aww this is lovely, even more so from you. 
I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably reduce my humility.
I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.
Boost my confidence.
Aww this is lovely, even more so from you.
I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.
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I literally got given a book on it yesterday.
I think it was a joke  |
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"Probably reduce my humility.
I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.
Boost my confidence.
Aww this is lovely, even more so from you.
I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.
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Me too!! - Xeno |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially I wanted to type about wanting a flat tummy, to have better hair, non saggy boobs and a thigh gap.
However I now realise those things aren't my problem. My problem is actually how I see myself and how much importance I place on these things, how I lack confidence and self worth.
So while I'd love to be a size 12, I'd actually just really like to feel good in the body I have. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Honestly - nothing
I spent years lacking in confidence of wondering if I was good enough for someone who frankly wasn’t right for me, it ate at me to a point of over analysing and second guessing myself,
on reflection I was borden line depressive.
Since recovering from that I’ve learned to love myself until we do this we can’t truly allow another to do so - I can say with confidence I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time both in myself, my career and my current relationship.
Although I worked hard on myself I think finding someone who accepts you for who you are goes a long way to feeling free of those past demons x |
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By *D3!Man
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
I wish I wasn't cut, I spent most of my teenage years and early twenties hiding away because I felt broken because of it (yes the surgeon did a great job and I'm thankful for that) but even though I've accepted it and learnt to appreciate it for what it is (eventually sharing it online gave me a massive confidence boost) I do still wish I knew what it felt like and what it would look like.
That and just more confidence in myself in general, I need to stop letting people use me for their own needs and put myself first for a change. |
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"Bigger boobs would be No1 on the list then a tummy tuck no2.
Your boobies are perfect x"
Very kind, I just loved my pregnant boobs so much bigger, I could wear low cut tops and they looked good on me. |
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Oh yes, that would be nice 
my face.
I'm just tired with people cynically assuming that I'm some vain, pretty boy.
My personality doesn't match the boy band vibes. 