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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So as you can see in my profile I’m a left leg amputee with a prosthetic leg I’m curious to know if there are any other disabled people on this site and how you find it on here it’s kinda hard for me don’t get many replies to my messages I know it’s a busy site but you know sometimes it’s hard when nobody wants to chat with you |
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Your age could be a factor. You are young enough to be the ages of many people's children which is often out of their comfort zone. Keep posting on the forums, it will enable people to see a better picture of the person behind the profile so to speak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get disheartened OP. Lack of replies has nothing to do with your disability. use the forum search function for similar threads, there are a lot more men than women on the site so it's a patience game and the forums are a great way to get your profile noticed. Congrats on making an honest profile, be yourself and you will find a good bunch here that don't look at disabilities, we look at the person
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks obviously if you see my profile what you see is what you get I have nothing to hide but yeah I’ll have to look into these forums a bit more "
Hello
I'd say it's more your age that rules you out. Or your long hair. Or your shoes. Or that you're a man. Men struggle to get replies to messages. You were probably dismissed before they even noticed your leg.
This sounds so cruel, sorry. But basically if you're not what someone is looking for, it doesn't make you a bad person. I'm not at all attracted to Barry Manilow or Harry Styles but some women would hump them into next week.
You have a nice smile and you seem friendly. Don't let the lack of messages make you feel bad.
Your profile is one of the best I've seen lately. Keep smiling.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t diss the long hair lol why is the age factor a thing I’m 24 not like I’m 19 but I’ll take the profile compliment "
Because a lot of us have kids your age, for us it’s weird
Plus the fact of you didn’t take the no for what it is, the why isn’t necessary, no is a full sentence, older swingers know that and don’t need to push an unwelcome why
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You're not the only disabled Fabber, there's a fair few of us! To be honest, disability (any) does put some people off. We've found that. Unless a wheelchair pic is front and centre, we explain it in messages and quite a lot of previously interested parties just disappear. Having had a FWB who is also an amputee and knowing some of the issues he had with intimacy post-amputation, some people might worry about hurting you or worry about their reaction to your stump. Because as you have possibly experienced, not everyone has a positive reaction to limb difference or anything to do with disability.
Keep on keeping on. It's hard for single guys on here whoever they are. Keep being polite, you have decent pics and are making the effort to join in on here, so stick around and see what's what.
You can join me in rolling your eyes at things like "best foot forward" or telling you that you "haven't got a leg to stand on" 
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Don't worry young man. I'm sure you'll have no problem getting your leg over eventually.
Your profile is far better than many I've seen over the years and I doubt anyone would be put off by the lack of a leg unless they have a serious foot fetish.
You'll do fine. Give it time.  
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