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over a year ago
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Aye, just go and have fun.
Treat people with the same respect you would anywhere else. It’s a sex club but that doesn’t mean it’s ok to be crude, strike up civil conversations with people there, remember that couples come as a pair so if you speak with them remember to chat to the fella too.
Be friendly, approachable and not a dick and trust me, it’ll pay dividends in the long term.
Obviously there’s no guarantee of action so go with appropriate expectations and just enjoy the vibe. Oh and if it’s a quiet or unsuccessful night first time don’t lose faith .. hopefully next time will be better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aye, just go and have fun.
Treat people with the same respect you would anywhere else. It’s a sex club but that doesn’t mean it’s ok to be crude, strike up civil conversations with people there, remember that couples come as a pair so if you speak with them remember to chat to the fella too.
Be friendly, approachable and not a dick and trust me, it’ll pay dividends in the long term.
Obviously there’s no guarantee of action so go with appropriate expectations and just enjoy the vibe. Oh and if it’s a quiet or unsuccessful night first time don’t lose faith .. hopefully next time will be better! "
Although having said all that it looks like you’ve got a veri from Xtasia already so hopefully you know all this already ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Aye, just go and have fun.
Treat people with the same respect you would anywhere else. It’s a sex club but that doesn’t mean it’s ok to be crude, strike up civil conversations with people there, remember that couples come as a pair so if you speak with them remember to chat to the fella too.
Be friendly, approachable and not a dick and trust me, it’ll pay dividends in the long term.
Obviously there’s no guarantee of action so go with appropriate expectations and just enjoy the vibe. Oh and if it’s a quiet or unsuccessful night first time don’t lose faith .. hopefully next time will be better!
Although having said all that it looks like you’ve got a veri from Xtasia already so hopefully you know all this already " yea I went just after lockdown and there was only one couple there, but I’m talking about a packed club |
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