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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So me and my mate was chatting the other day bout his mrs getting mad at him for wanking when his mrs isn’t up for it
Do you get mad when your hubby/bf has a wank when you’re not in the mood or are you ok for him to?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally no. But it's important to realise that there's a reason that women react that way. Sometimes we can be insecure and vulnerable which projects onto our partners. It's probably not the wanking itself but something deeper that's lacking for her in herself or their relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally it wouldn't bother me unless of course he didn't ever try to wake me.
I love sleepy, not quite awake middle of the night sex, however that's because it's a novelty and a rare treat for me. I'd probably be tired if it was all the time |
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I will answer the OP.
I absolutely without a shadow of a doubt do not mind my husband wanking. Infact I encourage it. Yes I love to watch him doing it, if I'm not with him I will ask him to film it and send me the evidence. Or at least tell me that he did. 
Us Women are not all the same. Shocker!! 
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Very much depends on how it is done.
In the bed in the middle of the night so it wakes you up not good. Done in a passive aggressive way after being told no, again nope.
Done that it's a mutual thing even if you're not there. But sending videos etc hot as hell
So I would say they need to actually communicate with each other, and find a solution that works for them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Very much depends on how it is done.
In the bed in the middle of the night so it wakes you up not good. Done in a passive aggressive way after being told no, again nope.
Done that it's a mutual thing even if you're not there. But sending videos etc hot as hell
So I would say they need to actually communicate with each other, and find a solution that works for them. "
Completely agree with this x |
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"Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to
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So he knocks one out, because she won’t put out ? Sounds like a her problem |
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"Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to
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I don't know I'm not thr couple. But maybe just maybe instead of complaining to his mates. He could ask why she's not interested in sex anymore. And then work from there. if she is experiencing issues with sexual drive him watching porn and wanking may potentially make her feel like a failure, which may reduce her sexual drive even more. If he's done the above all credit to him but the way it's posted sounds like it's arguements about the wanking not discussing the problems. And if they can't have grown up discussions about sex, are they compatible? |
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I'm often away from my partners and always feel a slight pang knowing that load is going to waste instead of down my throat.
I think if someone was present with me and chose a wank over something mutual I'd be hurt though. |
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His body, his business.
I’d ask him if he would prefer me to help.
Or if I’m not in the mood then it’s his business.
Men don’t tell us when we are allowed to have a little me time, nor should we tell them. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"So me and my mate was chatting the other day bout his mrs getting mad at him for wanking when his mrs isn’t up for it
Do you get mad when your hubby/bf has a wank when you’re not in the mood or are you ok for him to? "
why would a woman get mad at that, he needs a new wife |
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